Have you been in a relationship for a while now, but now things are starting to stagnate? Would you like to make the relationship a little more exciting? Maybe you want to make intimate moments more stimulating, especially for your boyfriend. No matter what prompts you to do it - read on to find out how to turn your boyfriend on.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Mental Stimulation
Step 1. Put on some perfume
It's a basic strategy for turning a guy on. You can choose an aroma that he particularly likes, but it is always better to lean towards musky scents that are generally associated with sex.
- Avoid strong scents and aromas that are easily associated with older women.
- Make sure you put the perfume on properly.
Step 2. Use body language
Use the movement of your body to suggest ideas. On a date, she licks ice cream in a sensual way. If you are sitting on the sofa, slide your hand up and down your thigh. Lean towards him to talk to him. Bend over provocatively to pick something up off the ground. There are tons of ways to get her to start thinking about sex while watching you, so use the situation to your advantage.
Step 3. Whisper something in his ear
Let it be a flirtatious phrase, a little obscene and perhaps tempting. Do it in a hoarse voice, slowly, while your lips brush against his ear, and he will be looking forward to getting you to bed.
"What do you want to do now?", "You know how to tease me.", "What do you want me to do to you?" and so on. In short, you got the hint
Step 4. Let him see some underwear
First, you have to wear colorful and sensual underwear, avoiding grandma's panties. Then, you just have to bend over to make sure that the hem of the slip comes out of the jeans and it will be done!
Step 5. Show him your excitement
The thought that you are excited will ignite the flame in him. It works better than anything else. If he touches you the right way or says something that gets you high, let him know. You can also text him or communicate it in other ways.
Try saying "Oh my God, I want you. Now." or "I can't stop thinking about what I'd like you to do to me."
Step 6. Bite your lip during a conversation
Congratulations - he's thinking about your lips now. It's that easy. Try this trick, looking at him eagerly, and he will have no doubts about your intentions. He'll know you want to devour him, but you're too polite to tell.
Part 2 of 3: Physical Temptation
Step 1. Tap on it
It doesn't matter if it's just a light touch on his arm, or a caress on his leg while watching a movie on the sofa: in the end he'll want you to explore his whole body. But remember to use a very light touch, to alternate with firm grips to be done at the right time. Focus on the most sensitive areas, such as the nape of the neck, jaw line, arms, chest, back, and so on.
Step 2. Give him a massage
Tell him to take off his shirt, sprinkle it with oil and start massaging. When doing this, don't wear too many clothes. The massage will make your blood boil, the contact between your hands and his body will ignite the flame of passion and, in the end, he will not be able to control himself.
Step 3. Dance
It is not as difficult as it sounds. Plus, guys get super horny watching a spontaneous, self-confident girl acting unexpectedly. You don't have to go to the club, but just put some music at home and bring it close to you to slow dance. Move your body against his, naturally. It is an unmissable opportunity to let him feel the warmth of your body. You won't have to do anything else, it will be enough to turn him on.
Step 4. Move his hands where you want
Taking control of the situation will turn him on as hell. Take his hands and place them on your backside while you look at him seductively or whisper something in his ear. She will immediately understand that you are horny and want it: she will find this very sexy way of yours.
Step 5. Nibble on it
Try gently biting your earlobe, or slowly lick the neck - let him know you want to eat it. This feeling will turn him on, especially since he will start thinking "what else" you could lick and taste.
Step 6. Try changing the temperature
It could be really exciting. After taking off his shirt, slowly lick his chest and blow on the wet area. The feeling of cold, after the warmth of your kisses, will be surprising and exciting.
Don't forget to use the timeless ice cubes
Part 3 of 3: Making Things More Interesting
Step 1. Do a striptease
You don't have to move like a local pro. A little sensual music (try Céu's "Cangote") is enough to let you go: slowly take off your clothes and you will have it in your hand.
Step 2. Try the role play
It can be a fun experience for both of you to let go of and spice up the relationship. Let him choose the roles, or surprise him by setting up the scene, the costumes and everything else necessary.
Pick a theme that he finds intriguing. Take inspiration from comics, movies, video games or the most common fantasies (like that of the schoolgirl): after all, you know him better than anyone else
Step 3. Consider adding a hint of perversion
Some spicy games have never hurt anyone: the important thing is to remember the so-called safeword, the password to stop immediately! Seriously, some kinky games can be useful for making sex more interesting, without trying things too weird. Engage in activities that don't embarrass you and make sure your partner is on the same page as you. Have you ever tried the handcuffs?
Let him choose the one he prefers. Experiencing new things can be very exciting, both for him and for you. Don't judge, but be open and willing to try what you want. This will show him that he doesn't have to be ashamed, but he can be perfectly comfortable in your company. This awareness will excite him more than ever
Step 4. Try new positions
Eventually he will get tired of the missionary. And you too! Breathe new life into the relationship by trying to reach new heights of excitement, with new positions and experimentation. Start with the classic 69, but the 77 is also within everyone's reach and guys love it when their partner takes the lead.
Step 5. Try some sex toys
Vibrators are not only useful for single women and lesbians: in general, sex toys can be used together to make sex more exciting. If you've never tried anything like this, buy a small cordless vibrator (a basic, egg-sized model will do just fine) and use it to massage his testicles during intercourse - your partner will literally explode!
Step 6. Shower together
Hot water, lather, slippery skin - it's a great way to turn him on and maybe a perfect opportunity to try something new. Wash him, then let him wash you… and let yourself go.
Advice
If he's dating you, he already feels a great attraction to you. These tips will help you get her arousal to the stars
Warnings
- Do not rush. Take your time. The longer you wait, the more the tension will build and he will hang on your lips.
- Don't be pushy. Catch the signs of whether or not your boyfriend wants to be aroused based on his level of cooperation. Try to figure out if he stops you with an irritated attitude or if he blocks you uncertainly with a shy smile.
- Turning him on doesn't necessarily have to lead you to have sex. Keep the alternatives in mind and make sure you come up with a happy ending that works for both of you.
- Don't be clingy. Give your boyfriend some space, so every time you touch him he will really feel it.
- Be careful because not everyone reacts the same way when you try to arouse them.
