Having to pay penance can be a small thing or something challenging. Penances are usually small things that will slightly embarrass you. But it can get much more serious when your penance is to kiss someone! Fortunately, this article will help you respect penance as quickly as possible.
Steps
Method 1 of 4: Before Completing Penance
Step 1. Before you do anything, make sure the person who is forcing you is not joking, because you would look bad if you didn't really have to respect penance
Step 2. Ask the person at least once or twice "Do I really have to do this?
Be careful though and don't give the impression that you are scared or you could be teased and called a rabbit!
Step 3. If it is clear that you have to kiss a person, you will not be able to escape without further pressure and teasing
The best thing to do is to respect penance, and not talk about it later.
Method 2 of 4: Prepare for Penance
Step 1. Before you begin, take a deep but gentle breath to focus
Even if it doesn't seem helpful, you will feel calmer!
Step 2. Relax
This is a penance, so no one will think you like that person or that you are making a bad impression!
Try to convince yourself that you have 20 seconds of absolute courage
Step 3. Eat a mint or wash your mouth with mouthwash before completing your penance
The last thing you want is for the person you are going to kiss to complain about your bad breath.
Step 4. Use lip balm to make lips smoother. Do not put on some lipstick, because your lips will only be sticky and bad tasting. A fun-flavored lip balm will calm you down, but don't use too much or your lips will be sticky and the kiss will be awkward!
- Rub your lips together to remove excess lip balm.
- If you think you have used too much lip balm, gently remove it with your fingers, without taking it all off!
Method 3 of 4: Complete Penance
Step 1. Of course, you and the person you kiss will not be completely alone, because someone will have to ensure respect for penance
This can make you feel more nervous, but don't think about it! Take an imperceptible deep breath and still remember that you have 20 seconds of absolute courage.
Step 2. Approach the person you need to kiss
Avoid making eye contact with her, as this could increase anxiety and fear. Observe his mouth for a few seconds to frame the target and make sure you center it correctly.
If you think looking into the other person's mouth will make you feel too scared, Not to do it. Simply skip this step and go to the next.
Step 3. When you are sure you are centering the other person's mouth, approach quickly and be sure to give only a small but firm touch to the other person's lips
Pull back as fast as possible. However, if the other person tries to prolong the kiss, accept the situation and do not protest; otherwise you will risk humiliation and other potential problems.
- Do not continue. If the kiss continues, let the other person lead the dance. If you continue the kiss, you may look bad and your reputation may suffer, as well as the possibility of angering the other person.
- Do not give a French kiss, as much as you like the other person or for any other reason. Your reputation will suffer greatly and you will become the laughing stock of the company.
Method 4 of 4: After Penance
Step 1. Get compliments right away
You have used the twenty seconds of courage wisely and successfully completed penance - this is a great achievement and you can never be called a rabbit.
Step 2. After giving yourself a mental pat on the back, don't complain about how bad the kiss was or how bad the penance was
The more you talk about what happened, the more gossip will arise.
Step 3. Act like nothing has happened
If someone asks you questions, say "I did it out of penance. That's all." Keep calm and act like you haven't done anything special. If you can keep your cool - however nervous you may be on the inside - no one will ever know and your reputation will benefit.
Do not reveal details so that he does not talk about what happened and make him forget quickly. The less you talk about what happened, the less others will
Step 4. Do not kiss that person again, unless you have to complete another penance
If other kisses are imposed on you as penance, accept the situation and do not be afraid. If you did it once, you can do it again!
Warnings
- The kiss can cause scenes and gossip.
- Don't play truth or dare if you're not ready to kiss someone.
