From the first to the thousandth kiss, with a person you have recently known or a partner you have had for a long time, kissing leaves a lasting impression, especially if it stimulates a deep emotion or feeling. And this often happens with a sensual kiss. In fact, experts argue that kisses play a very important role in developing a relationship and in testing one's compatibility with another person. By kissing, you communicate with your partner on a romantic level through physical action, not just words. Here are some useful steps for sensual kissing.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Prepare for the Kiss
Step 1. Take care of yourself
If you are on a date with your partner and you know that intimate and close contact will be created, you should have her mouth, face and body tease and tempt her. While everyone has a particular routine for a romantic date (mints, seductive perfume used only for special occasions), you must first have good hygiene habits, including:
- Brush your teeth. Nobody likes to kiss someone who has pestilential breath because they ate garlic or onion for lunch or haven't seen a toothbrush and toothpaste in months. So, before you approach your partner to kiss her, brush your teeth and chew on a mint to keep your breath fresh and pleasant.
- Wash your face and keep it clean. It is another personal hygiene habit that should not be ignored before savoring a kiss. In fact, 53% of women prefer to kiss a fresh-shaven man. Whether you have a mustache or a completely hairless face, take care of it to attract your partner.
- Wear clean clothes. Before an unforgettable and sensual kiss, you need to feel confident, so dress right and make sure your clothes are clean. Avoid clothing that has studs, sharp metal parts, or details that will annoy you while you kiss.
- Use some cologne or perfume. Having a good smell is stimulating for both sexes, but it is especially stimulating for the female sex. Studies have shown that, among all other physical characteristics, women put a man's smell first. They believe it is an important factor in igniting their sexual interest. Obviously, the key word is “little”: a fragrance can have the opposite effect if it becomes nauseating. So, just apply some of it to hot spots on your body and don't overdo it.
Step 2. Communicate before kissing
Don't be afraid to tell your partner what you like, or ask her what she prefers to make this experience great. Instead of feeling embarrassed to bring up preferences and aversions when it comes to kissing, communicating guarantees both of you an unforgettable moment. Make sure you discuss your tastes before the kiss, not during, so your partner won't think you're taking advantage of criticizing her.
Step 3. Set the mood
Create an intimate and romantic environment for you and your partner; organize a candlelit dinner at home or find a quiet corner in a park. Try to remember if she has ever mentioned a special spot or place she likes to spend time in and that she thinks is appropriate for a couple date. If so, suggest going there or surprise her. The cozy and romantic atmosphere will be the backdrop for a wonderful sensual kiss.
Method 2 of 2: Sensually Kissing
Step 1. First, start with the foreplay
Physical interaction, such as holding hands or cuddling before kissing, works wonders for breaking the ice. Also, let your partner know that you would like to kiss her.
Step 2. Look her in the eye and lean towards her
As you lean in to kiss her, make sure she does too. Eye contact is essential to make sure you both want this kiss.
In general, it is preferable to close your eyes during a kiss. Since your pupils will be dilated, it would be a little creepy and odd for your partner to realize that your eyes are open
Step 3. Tilt your head
In 95% of cases, your partner will tilt her head to the right. If you can't predict which direction your head will tilt, lean to the right to be on the safe side. Regardless, if your she starts tilting her head in one direction, you go the other way, so the noses won't flap before the lips brush.
If you miscalculate and tilt your head in the same direction as your partner, or can't find your mouth because your eyes are closed as you lean, have a laugh and keep going. Even an uncomfortable moment can result in a great and memorable kiss
Step 4. Kiss her softly and slowly
Studies have shown one thing: women think that the biggest mistake a man can make when kissing is vigorous use of the tongue. Men, on the other hand, argue that women don't open their mouths enough to kiss passionately. Consequently, try to find a middle ground between an open mouth kiss (not too wide open, you're not about to bite into a donut) and a gentle kiss, thus avoiding it being too impetuous or involving too much tongue. However, don't even give her a kiss.
Step 5. Apply some pressure and speed up the pace slightly
Now that the mouths have met, try to gently press on your partner's lips. You can kiss her a little faster and gradually go deeper.
If at this point your partner responds well to the contact, you can start kissing her in the French way, which is nothing more than an elegant adjective to say that you should use the language. Relax her and move her in coordination with your hers. Do it in a quiet and sensual way, as if you were licking ice cream. Avoid letting it go totally limp or stiff, and don't push it or push it aggressively into your girlfriend's mouth
Step 6. Add a touch of variety
One of the main factors in initiating a sensual kiss is alternating between different points. Try kissing various parts of your partner's face, paying particular attention to the ears and neck. You can gently bite the lower lip and earlobe. Also, if it's a steady partner, change the types of kisses so that the intimate moments don't feel mechanical or repetitive.
Step 7. Use the rest of your body as well
A kiss isn't limited to the lips, so consider your posture and body position as you do it. Bring it close to your partner's, exerting gentle pressure, and use your hands to gently stroke or touch your partner's neck, back, waist and butt. Once you get used to these gentle and relaxed movements, you can take a step forward: your partner can straddle your legs or you can lie down while you kiss and look into each other's eyes.
The sensuality of the kiss will become more and more intense, so it is important to listen to your partner and always tune in to her needs. By paying attention to her breathing, body language and movements, you can tell if she is enjoying the moment and ready to move on
Step 8. You can give your partner a sensual kiss anytime you want
Never lose this beautiful habit, especially after the early stages of the relationship end and the honeymoon period fades. Often, people who have been together for a long time stop affecting each other and neglect that intimate, sensual bond of early beginnings.
The intensity and emotion of the first kisses can actually become even stronger once you get to know your partner better, and the couple's communication will become more passionate and direct. The old adage certainly also fits the art of kissing: practice makes the teacher
Advice
- Tugging at your partner's hair or making more energetic gestures is only feasible if your partner agrees, and she knows that while kissing you tend to be particularly passionate. Her consent is necessary for a deeper and more sensual kiss.
- A good, sensual kiss can lead you to make out and petting. At that point, you and your partner start having very intimate contact without actually having sex. It is a very intense exchange of effusions, and it can last for a long time. However, not all kisses take this turn, so always move slowly with your partner and gradually progress towards more lasting and hotter effusions.
- There is no absolute right way to kiss. Regardless of how you kiss, you should feel your partner's emotion and passion. Remember: a good kiss in itself is an adventure, not a necessary step to take to get to something else.
