You only have eyes for that girl and you would like her to notice you too. One of the many ways to achieve your goal today is Facebook. Follow the tips in this tutorial to impress her, like her and earn lots of likes.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Preparing to Break the Ice
Step 1. Learn the art of selfies
If you are looking to get a girl on Facebook, first you need to have a nice profile photo, which will be your "calling card" to make a good first impression on her.
- Make your profile picture a close-up photograph. If she doesn't know you very well, she'll have to see your face to feel good vibes.
- Instead of choosing an abstract image, make sure that your Facebook profile photo is a nice shot of your face while you smile, you are neatly dressed, well combed and looking good.
- Don't take selfies in the mirror or you'll look like a narcissist.
- Make sure it is a high resolution photo and that it is not cropped. Grainy photos with a half-cropped face aren't exactly the best thing.
- Leave all other photos, ones older than a year, those as a child or those in which you appear with other people, in the collections of your diary.
Step 2. Choose a truly impressive cover photo
The cover image of your diary is an important detail that makes your profile spectacular and makes the main one stand out. Choose something that shows your personality.
- Take into account, for example, the colors of the cover image, so that they match that of the profile or use this space to publish a work of art that you really like.
- Even if your profile picture should be just your photo, you can use a group photo for the cover one. If you have mutual friends with the girl, post an image that portrays you all together. This way you let her know that you like to hang out with the same people she likes.
Step 3. Update your information
Take some time to make sure the "information" section is up to date.
- Do careful work and try to complete all required fields, including date of birth, school you attend, work you do, and so on.
- Remember to update the "I like" and "love situation" section. Let the girl you target know that you are single and interested in girls.
Step 4. Select the pages and interests you "like" with a strategy
If you can see the girl's profile, pick a couple of pages and interests she likes and make them yours.
- This will help you break the ice, as you will have something in common. Doing some research on this is very important before you get in touch with the girl.
- In theory, your interests should be spontaneously common, but it never hurts to add a couple of his favorite bands, TV shows, movies, books or restaurants to likes.
Step 5. Post something interesting
You'll have a better chance of impressing if you feel like you're an interesting guy.
- One way to look “right” is to strategically manage your diary with lots of interesting content, funny comments and updates, links to new trendy stores, or photos of funny things you do. The images are particularly important, because visual stimulation is the one that most draws attention to your diary.
- Limit trivial posts, such as those about your daily activities (going to school or studying for a class assignment); try to write only once a day so as not to seem addicted to Facebook or the internet.
- Respond to any interesting or funny events you are invited to and have them appear in the diary. By doing so, she will be able to consider you a witty person who does beautiful things!
- It intelligently uses Facebook's Edgerank algorithm to post content (especially images) that you know will get a lot of "likes", so it will appear in the girl's notifications.
Step 6. Change your privacy settings
You will probably have to "restrict" the security settings a bit in order to hide potentially embarrassing or unfavorable content from the girl you are trying to conquer.
- You should cancel the ability to be tagged in photos, even temporarily, so you can control what kind of images about you are posted by your friends.
- Be very vigilant about what other people post on your profile. Block and erase anything that could make you look bad in the girl's eyes.
Part 2 of 3: Breaking the Ice
Step 1. Send her a friend request
If you are not already among his Facebook friends, first you need to establish a friendship connection. Do not add any messages, wait for his reaction.
- When responding, comment on having mutual friends, attending the same school or living in the same city. Use one of these pretexts to get to know her better.
- If he asks you the reason for your friend request, be honest! Even if the reason was just that you like her profile photo, tell her and ask her if you can chat to get to know each other better. Chances are she'll feel flattered and accept your invitation.
- Don't make things complicated and keep the relationship on a safe footing. Don't force her to give you her phone number and don't be pushy. You're still in the early stages and don't have to scare her off by being aggressive or hasty.
Step 2. Start a conversation
It's worth starting a private chat so that you don't feel pressured publicly.
- Try to think carefully about what to write in your first message; you should think of something more effective than a simple "Hello".
- If, for example, something special has happened at school, ask her what she thinks about it; alternatively you can talk about her favorite show that has recently aired and maybe ask her if she has seen it. These are good conversation starters.
Step 3. Keep the chat alive
Texting is a good way to test your compatibility and impress her before you meet in person.
- Every time you send her a message, offer her a new idea or idea to make conversation.
- Do not answer her immediately, otherwise you will give the impression that you are literally hanging on her lips and waiting for nothing more than a message from her. Create a bit of waiting by answering her once a day.
- Get him to talk about her. Don't make the conversation a monologue where you only talk about yourself. Give her the impression that she wants to know as much as possible about her.
- After exchanging messages for a while, ask her if you can switch to instant chat. By doing this you will have a conversation more like that in person.
Part 3 of 3: Taking the Relationship to a Higher Level
Step 1. Write in his diary
Send her meaningful images or other content that is consistent with her interests. If she loves cats, send her a cute image of adorable cats.
Step 2. Behave yourself
Avoid obscene or vulgar comments.
- Research has shown that it is difficult to express or understand jokes with online communication. So don't overdo it with jokes that can be misinterpreted or deemed vulgar and offensive.
- Politics and religion are excellent topics for discussion, but not necessarily in the early stages when two people are getting to know each other with the aim of impressing each other. Reserve these topics for future conversations.
Step 3. Like his posts
Be interested in the things he publishes and, from time to time, approve them with a few "thumbs up".
- Leave thoughtful and flattering comments, especially when she posts new photos of her.
- Don't overdo it and don't "like" anything you post, otherwise you may appear too obsequious.
Step 4. Send her invitations
Use the specific Facebook function to let her know when there will be events; it is a way of inviting her out without launching into a real official date. This will be the next step, when both of you are ready to get to know each other outside of Facebook.
