Are you afraid to put your arm around a girl? Well, you shouldn't. It is an important thing to learn in a relationship. You don't have to go too fast, and you don't have to wait too long either. Girls are a little tough, so you have to pick the right time!
Steps
Step 1. The first step is to make sure the girl is right for you
If you don't like it, then … what are you doing? If, on the other hand, you feel comfortable with her, you know that you like her and you know that she likes you, then you are ready for the next step.
Step 2. The best way is also the easiest way
While you are sitting, simply approach her and put your arm around her, then start smiling.
Step 3. If you are watching a scary movie, make sure you are seated close enough
During the movie, pretend nothing has happened, scare her, smile and say something sweet and put your arm around her, always smiling.
Step 4. If you are a serious person who is a little nervous or shy, then try another method
Let's say you are at the cinema. "By mistake," touch it gently. As a result, she will look at you. Or you might just cough (or just wait) until he looks at you. Smile at her and put your arm around her very softly. So softly that if you let go of your hand it will pop like a bomb - so try to stay peaceful and elegant, so as not to cause a commotion. After that, offer her some popcorn, so she can think of something other than her back. Smile at her every time she looks at you and, after the movie, try to be the kindest person who ever lived on the face of the earth. Open the doors, hold her hand and - if you want - offer her something.
Step 5. If you are walking somewhere and she says she is cold, first offer her your jacket (even if you need it
). If she is still cold or refuses it, put your arm around her waist!
Advice
- Use deodorant and / or perfume before doing anything.
- Be generous.
- Be sweet and attentive as you put your arm around her.
- Be gentle.
- Dress well.
- Don't sound shy, act as if you are with your friends.
- Never try the shoulder counting technique (1, 2, 3.. 4!). You would look pathetic.
