Oh oh! It's been at least six months since the last time you were with a girl and now you're thinking about how you can make hookups in a bar? Fortunately, there is the right way to do everything, including this one. Getting a girl to come home with you is certainly not as difficult as doing neurosurgery, especially if you start your mission with your head held high and with confidence. Don't complicate your life, show off a little class and … may fate be with you.
Steps
Step 1. Buy yourself some clothes that women will like
Try them. Bring a beautiful girl with you to help you choose a wardrobe that doesn't make you look like a nerd or a worker just out of work. Choose the items that can attract the attention of the type of woman you would like to hook up with, if you want a bad girl you have to look like a bad boy. How you present yourself is more important than your physical characteristics. Also try to smell good.
Step 2. Have a drink before going out
It could help you overcome the fear of the first approach. But don't get drunk, it will hurt you and won't help you.
Step 3. Contact friends who have many female friends
Your prospects may broaden. Or go alone, but choose places where other men often go alone. Crowded places are your best bet. AND LOOK FOR A BAR THAT GIRLS ATTEND.
Step 4. Don't move around all the time, hold a drink in your hands
If you don't like drinking then order a Sprite or a non-alcoholic aperitif, but ask the bartender to pour it into a cocktail glass, so it will look like a drink.
Step 5. Look for a group of three single girls
Lonely girls usually go out to meet someone, if the girl you observed is in the company of two other friends, she may even leave the table. When it comes to two friends alone, it is very difficult for them to split up.
Step 6. Introduce yourself
Sometimes guys are braggart when they try to approach a girl, but the best introduction is a simple “Hi, my name is…” If he thinks you're cute he won't mind everything else. Just try to be polite and as nice as you can.
Step 7. Ask her to dance
If you don't know how to do it, your chances shrink. Dancing helps a lot to improve the first approach, even if you do it jokingly. If you are in a club where there is a warm atmosphere, approach and dance with your hands on her. DO NOT BE AFRAID! Women love that men take control a little bit. Just try not to be too hasty and pay attention to his reactions.
Step 8. Offer her a drink, but don't make her drink too much or she'll feel sick or sleepy
Order special cocktails and drink together. Remember that it all depends on his habits. If she's a girl who drinks habitually, then offer her what she wants! But this article gives examples with common girls.
Step 9. Approach and seek physical contact, make it happen spontaneously
DON'T BE INTRUSIVE!
Step 10. Invite her to another venue near your home for a special cocktail, or whatever
Make sure it's close enough that you can easily walk to your home.
Step 11. Never say anything negative
Maintain a pleasant atmosphere.
Step 12. Once you are in the room near where you live, talk about something that is in your house, such as a painting, anything that might intrigue her to the point of asking you to see it
If he doesn't say anything, relax. Always remember that you are having a drink near where you live.
Step 13. If you take her home ask her to use her bathroom
Step 14. If she comes to your house instead, invite her in and promise not to hit on her
He may blush at your boldness but he will believe what you say …
Step 15. Once home, don't pay attention to her for a while and talk about something else
Be distracted and don't focus on her until she gets your attention. Most girls need time to feel comfortable. Make sure that the house is clean and the lights dim, choose good background music. Choose it well! Rock and electronic music might make her guess you're a party-goer and romantic songs are too obvious.
Step 16. Kiss her
Step 17. If you don't agree, take a step back and don't insist
Step 18. Ask her if she would like a back massage
Step 19. Watch her body language
If he sits next to you and sends you signals then don't be shy, take advantage of the opportunity and see what happens.
Step 20. If something happens, let it happen
If nothing happens, ask her if she wants to stop and sleep or call her a taxi, you will try again with someone else. If, on the other hand, you spend the night together, offer her a good breakfast in the morning and be willing to accompany her home.
Advice
- Don't be immature, but don't act like her father either.
- Don't be too serious.
- Do not get drunk.
- If you're having fun, she must have fun too.
- Avoid uttering any negative expressions.
- No means NO. Don't insist. If she wants she will agree, if she doesn't want to, respect her decision.
- Trying to get someone drunk to take them home and have sex is illegal and is called rape.
- If you're not having fun, she too will get bored and lose her interest.
- Talk to the future.
Warnings
- Having sex without protection runs the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. So use a condom.
- You may end up falling in love with the kind of woman your parents wouldn't approve of.
- You could get into the habit of easy conquests on the premises.
- Don't trust alcohol, think for yourself. If you drink a lot you could lose control of the situation and become addicted to alcohol. Don't ruin your health, drink in moderation and just to socialize, excesses will make you look unpleasant and anything but attractive.
- Sexually taking advantage of a drunk girl will lead you to prison, and deprive you of important years of your life. Do not even think about it!
