Do you think you have found the perfect man but you don't know how to make him understand that you are the person he has always wanted? Would you like him to fall in love with you too? If you're trying to be the "right woman" for him but don't know how to do it, read on.
Steps
Part 1 of 4: Getting familiar with the role
Step 1. Respect yourself
Interesting men are attracted to people who love each other and who are self-confident. By showing him your self-worth, you will prove your worth. Think for yourself, be yourself, stay in control of the situation when needed, and take care of yourself.
Step 2. Take care of your body
Those who do not take care of their bodies are as if they are communicating to others that they do not deserve to be loved (even if they do not realize it). If that's not your intention at all, don't neglect yourself! Take care of yourself, pay attention to personal hygiene, eat healthy food, check your diet and exercise. Physical exercises will keep your body strong and energized.
Step 3. Dress to impress
If you dress badly you will give the idea of a person who lets himself go and who does not seek the attention of others. So, if your purpose is another, you need to take care of your clothing. Don't wear clothes that are completely out of style, don't fit you, or don't fit your figure. Choose only clothes that are clean and free of stains or holes.
Step 4. A great perfume
When it comes to attracting, the sense of smell plays a primary role. Not only is it necessary to have a good scent (which certainly can help) but above all to avoid having a bad smell at all costs. Establish a routine that includes a daily shower and use of deodorant. If you want, you can make it a habit to use body spray perfume.
- Choose fragrances that suit your personality (citrus for a sunny person, flowers for a very feminine woman or musk to accentuate sensuality).
- Don't overdo it by mixing different fragrances. Try to determine which one best represents you.
Step 5. Be confident
A casual person is always very sexy. Even if you aren't really, you have to make an effort to show it to others. Stand straight with your back, look people in the eye (including the man you like), speak confidently and take control of the situation when necessary (for example, you can propose the date of the appointment).
Part 2 of 4: Taking on the Role
Step 1. Help him feel free
Very often young people are hesitant to start a relationship, because they fear losing their freedom and their identity. At least this is what society would try to impose. Instead, show him that you think differently, let him know that he doesn't have to worry and that you will encourage him to feel free. Let him chase his dreams, hang out with his friends, don't monopolize his time.
Step 2. Be fun
For a stable relationship we always look for a person who makes our life better, right? Surely the man you like would want someone by his side who is fun (and possibly inspiring). Go out of your way to be a source of positivity and fun in her life. Organize pleasant dates, encourage him to try new things, support his passions and encourage him to follow them with greater intensity.
Step 3. Stay away from drama
A dramatic woman is unlikely to be the most sought after by men. You know that girl who's all into gossiping, arguing and arguing? The one who points the finger at everyone and does nothing but complain? Do you have this in mind? Here, you do everything to not be her. Stay away from dramatic scenes and try to minimize any discussions you get involved in.
If there is a real problem, of course you can talk to him about it, but avoid arguing over petty things
Step 4. Make him feel like your hero
Men love to feel useful - they will surely enjoy feeling like your hero! Seek his help to do something, ask for his advice for problems you have, or even for minor things. He will appreciate the importance you are giving him, will feel useful and will be happy to have a place in your life and will always want to be by your side.
Step 5. Be passionate
Be passionate in your relationship, but not only, show your passion in everyday life as well. Be enthusiastic about what you do and pursue what is important to you. Enthusiasm and joie de vivre are stimulating characteristics and the people who possess them are the ones that everyone tries to have next to them. Savor life and make these qualities yours.
Step 6. Be yourself
The most important thing is to always be yourself. Don't try to play the part of the person he wants. The moment we pretend to be different, we lose our authenticity and with it our best features. If you succeed in conquering him, but wearing a mask, the day he realizes it he will feel disappointed and deceived, and you will hardly be able to have him back with you. Honesty is always the best choice!
Part 3 of 4: How to Conquer it
Step 1. Do something for him
Sometimes a small gesture can help you express your feelings. You could handcraft something for him. Think of everything he likes, take his tastes into account, you don't want him to use your gift just so as not to get offended. You could try making a leather bracelet, a summer ornament, an office ornament, or a key ring.
Step 2. Get him an autographed copy of his favorite book
Find out what his favorite book is and get an autographed copy. If the author is still alive, you could try to get an autograph with dedication. This will be an extremely meaningful gift if that book is very important to him.
Step 3. Make him a special meal
The road to a man's heart passes through the stomach, it is useless to deny it. You can try to learn the art of cooking even if you have never tried it before. Get some practice and find out how to make him happy.
Step 4. Give him a back massage
A good massage will help remove all the stress of a busy day. Let him know that you are able to make him relax and feel good: it could be an important factor in convincing him that you are the right person for him.
Step 5. Rent a classic car for him
It also depends on your boyfriend's tastes: if you think he might like to drive a vintage car, try to rent one for him and take a ride together. It can be a unique experience to share. Plus, he'll notice how special you are.
Step 6. Take him to an event related to his passions
If your boyfriend is a bit of a nerd or is a true lover of comics, you could suggest that he attend a themed event. If, on the other hand, he is passionate about something else, find out about exhibitions, fairs, events related to that sector. There are many different events related to all kinds of hobbies!
Part 4 of 4: Something More That Might Help You
Step 1. Learn to kiss very well
If you really want to surprise him, improve your techniques and learn to kiss perfectly.
Step 2. Be a fun person to talk to
If people love to talk to you and find you funny, they will feel it too. Be casual as you talk and make every conversation interesting and memorable.
Step 3. Become the dating queen
This skill will make you stand out above all the other people he has met in his life. Don't be afraid to plan, he'll be thrilled to see you take control.
Step 4. Tease him like no one else can
If all he wanted was someone to have fun and talk to, you'd be his best friend and nothing more. Set yourself apart by giving it something no one else can do.
Step 5. Improve your cooking skills
If you've never cooked before, don't panic! It's easier than it looks. With a little practice and patience you can accomplish great things!
