3 Ways to Please a Girl You Like

2024 Author: Samantha Chapman | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 09:13

Few things are more nerve-wracking than trying to find out if the girl you like reciprocates your feelings. Put an end to your worries and follow these steps to get her attention.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Evaluate Your Image

Step 1. Don't change yourself

This is the most important step because it determines all the others. If she doesn't like you as you are, you will never be able to be yourself next to her. This will not help develop a good relationship between you.

Step 2. Maintain a clean look

You don't have to dress extravagantly, but make sure you take care of personal hygiene properly. Basic personal hygiene will greatly contribute to getting you noticed.

• Shower before school. Use a fresh-scented soap or body wash. Choose a deodorant with a mild fragrance. Strong fragrances can be too overwhelming and could pull it away.

  

• Keep your teeth clean. Bring some chewing gum with you in case you have bad breath during the day. Keep a travel-sized mouthwash in your backpack or locker to cool off quickly.

  

• Trim your fingernails. Make sure your hands and nails are clean, as they are a very visible part of your body.

  

• Make sure your clothes are clean. Unkempt and worn clothes turn off the other person's enthusiasm, unless you like a particular look. Make sure what you wear is presentable and well-matched. Choose clothes that enhance your appearance; baggy shirts and pants hide your shapes and make you look less confident.

  

Step 3. Be confident

Girls and people in general notice and let themselves be influenced by those who are confident. Nobody likes a person who doesn't believe in themselves. You will find that this will help you in all aspects of life, not just getting a girl. Here are some ways to look confident, even if you aren't.

• Maintain an upright posture. Wandering around makes you look indolent. Pull your shoulders back slightly, this will complete your look.

  

• If you are out of shape, pull your belly back. Start exercising to gain long-term benefits in self-confidence and the value you place on your life. Even a few basic exercises every day, such as situps and forward pushups, will make a big difference.

  

• Make eye contact. Looking down or elsewhere makes you look passive, scared and weak. If you maintain eye contact, you will show her that you are interested and attracted to her and that you are not afraid.

  

• Don't mumble. Speak clearly and process your thoughts before opening your mouth. When speaking, keep a controlled speed. Speak loud enough to be the dominant voice in the conversation, but don't scream or overwhelm her.

  

Method 2 of 3: Get to know her

Step 1. Start talking to her

You can't know anyone until you talk to them. Conversations won't rain on your hands; you have to make it happen. Try sitting next to her in class. Make a comment about something she's wearing as you walk past her in the hallway. It doesn't have to be complicated, as long as it is spontaneous. Make her interested in talking to you. Here are some ideas to start the conversation:

• "The last lesson was so boring!"
• "What topic are you going to cover in next week's written exam?"
• "Do you do something nice on the weekend?"

Step 2. Find out what she likes and what she doesn't like

Look at the colors she loves to wear. If she enjoys reading, ask her about the book she is reading. Ask her what shows she likes on TV. Ask his friends if they seem willing to help you. If you find common ground, you will be more interesting in his eyes.

• "I see you are reading [a book], how do you find it?"
• "Have you been to any good concerts lately?"

Step 3. As you speak, ask her about her plans for the future

Which university do you want to enroll in? What would it like to become? What stimulates you? If you show interest in her development as a person, you will show her that you care about her.

Be careful not to get too personal. You have to keep a carefree conversation at the beginning

Method 3 of 3: Read His Signs

Step 1. If she blushes when you're around, that's a great sign

You are not the only one who is nervous. If she likes you, the same worries are probably going through her head.

Don't start enthusiastically saying how much you like it. In all likelihood you will scare her away. Instead, let him discover the attraction you feel towards him through dialogue

Step 2. Pay attention to her reactions

When you talk to her, check how attentive she is. If she actively participates in the conversation, she is interested in what you have to say.

Step 3. Enhance its extraordinary qualities

His personality plays a very important role in the way you interact. If she is an outgoing person, you will need to be more outgoing than she is to get noticed. If she is quiet and reserved, an exuberant personality could turn her away. You don't have to change the way you are, but you can correct the way you present yourself.

Advice

• Take risks and if you fall, be ready to pick yourself up.
• Avoid talking about yourself. Make her feel important by talking about her. Wait until he asks you a few questions about yourself, but even then don't digress.
• Be stubborn but not bossy.