For many young people it is difficult to keep their eyes up when talking to the fairer sex. This can be considered a lack of respect, particularly if the girl notices the look; it is therefore a good idea to be able to raise your eyes to look at her face. To stop staring at her breasts, try these tips.
Steps
Step 1. Make eye contact as you speak
Pay attention to the color of the eyes, their shape, what kind of makeup they have, if there are lines or wrinkles on the skin. Fix your eyes in hers only if the time is right, if you have just met this is not the case as it denotes a lack of courtesy.
Step 2. Memorize the features of her face
Pretend you have to give instructions to a portrait painter, and remember his facial features: pay attention to the color of the eyebrows, the shape of the nose, the distance between the cheekbones, if the skin has moles or marks … if you yourself are an artist, try to remember its characteristics so that you can paint a portrait of it. However, try not to stare at it too much, keep your gaze natural and let it wander even in the background.
This effect is best achieved if you look at his entire face and mentally notice the various features, without carefully scrutinizing every single area. Be careful not to stare at her lips, which could be equally misunderstood
Step 3. Look away as if you are distracted in your thoughts
If you don't know her very well, or if you find that you've stared at her for too long, alternate gazing from her face to a spot on the side, as if you were thinking or remembering something. Looking to the side and up is particularly effective as it prevents your gaze from wandering downward. While it may seem odd at first, it's actually very common for people to get lost in gaze while talking.
Step 4. Get absorbed in the conversation
Talk to her about any topic, cinema, school, current affairs, in short, anything that might distract you from looking at her breasts. Practice speaking and listening.
Step 5. If you are tempted to give in and let your gaze fall on her breasts, remember the possible consequences:
- You may have an embarrassing erection that is hard to hide.
- She will think that you only care as a sex object, and you will lose all hope of asking her out together or conquering her. Don't screw it up in the beginning.
- Other people may notice your gaze and laugh at you behind your back.
Step 6. Pretend it's your mother
If all else is not holding you back, imagine your mother's face instead of your interlocutor. This should keep your gaze above your shoulders.
Advice
- If you find it difficult to look into her eyes, fix your gaze immediately above or between the eyes.
- You can take a look at the neckline, but remember not to stare. If she wears low-cut dresses, she probably expects some masculine attention, but she definitely doesn't want to attract maniacs.
