Do you think you are in love? Read these steps to find out.
Steps
Step 1. Ask yourself the reasons
Do you love him because he makes you feel butterflies in your stomach or because he plays football or is he muscular? Does it make your heart beat faster because it's sweet and understands you or because it's popular? Think about it.
Step 2. Think about why he likes you (if he likes you, of course)
Is your loved one a good person who would never hurt you, or is he someone who goes out with you just because your body is perfect and will leave you as soon as you gain a few pounds? Ask them or stuff your bra and find out what happens.
Step 3. Do you have sincere affection for this person, or are you using them as a fire escape?
Assume you just got dumped. You meet someone you automatically see as your SOUL TWIN. But you're probably just deluding yourself because you haven't been able to forget your ex yet. Take some time, analyze the situation and determine if the affection you feel is real.
Step 4. If you talk occasionally, or greet each other in the corridors at school, this person is probably an acquaintance
You are comfortable enough around him to expose yourself a little. You can have a conversation when it happens, but you probably won't have deep talk about feelings. Among girls, we often only talk about gossip, etc.
Step 5. If you spend a lot of time together, you help each other when you have problems or even know some mutual personal details; this person will likely be considered a friend
If you feel open around her and aren't afraid to talk to her seriously, that's a good sign. This person is probably a friend if you also know that they enjoy talking to you. Between guys, there may be a special handshake. Between girls, we hug each other to greet each other.
Step 6. If you are close friends, offer to help in any way, or find that you are physically attracted to this person, you probably have a crush
Many characteristics of crushes relate to physical / mental attractions, so it is a clear sign of affection.
Step 7. Depending on the circumstances, if you are in a relationship with this person, it could be love
One of the best ways to tell if you are in love is to give it a lot of importance in your life, and to believe it. For example, if you intend to share something special with this person, it could be a sign of love. Based on your idea of love, you should be able to define how you feel about this person.
Advice
- Don't use alcohol or drugs to please your crush more. If these substances are needed to get his affection, then he doesn't deserve it.
- If you think it's love that's okay… but if you don't get respect, kindness, devotion and mutual love from the other person, then it's not right for you. Accept this fact and move on with your life; is better than rejection.
- If he only talks to you when he has "financial problems" because he knows you will help him then it is NOT love. He's just using you! EXCLUDE IT FROM YOUR LIFE!
- Help him with his problems.
- If you don't think you can stop loving him, ask a friend to find out who he likes. That way, if you take the initiative, you won't make a fool of yourself and you won't be embarrassed.
- If you have a crush on him, but he likes someone else, it doesn't mean you can't feel anything for him anymore, it just means your feeling isn't reciprocated.
- Don't kiss someone for fun. Kissing a person often can cause them to misunderstand your intentions. But, as far as relationships are concerned, too many kisses can make them think you are together only for his lips, or for his physique or for intimate relationships in general.
- Don't be too direct! Some guys like girls who get a little wanted.
- Try not to be clingy.
- Think about everything you like about a person and what you see in them. Think about which animal it reminds you of, what you like, how it seems to you to treat others, bits of information you gleaned from a chance conversation. Try to write everything down. Compare your feelings before and after exercise.
Warnings
- Don't let a cute guy break your heart. Never feel in need of a relationship, because being single can be just as enjoyable.
- Don't get strange ideas about a person who is currently engaged with someone else. How do you know he won't do the same thing in a hypothetical future where he'll be with you?
- If you like someone and they like someone else, don't feel rejected. You just have to be patient.
