You've got your girlfriend on a rampage and she doesn't even want to hear your name, if you intend to contact her you have to be very careful. Before trying, think about the most delicate but effective way to talk to her (and apologize).
Steps
Step 1. Don't be too pushy, don't force her to talk to you
Your goal is to win her back.
Step 2. Write her a letter, girls love to read them for various reasons
A letter will let her know that you have spent time thinking about her and expressing how you feel. Plus, it will be tangible proof that he can reread whenever he wants to remind himself of how special he is to you.
Step 3. In your letter, don't forget to apologize
It can often be difficult for a guy to be able to admit his mistakes. BUT you have to do it. She will appreciate it.
Step 4. Make her smile
Prepare a little drawing for her, write her a poem, whatever you can think of. It doesn't have to be something perfect but it has to show your intentions. The girl will notice your efforts regardless of the outcome.
Step 5. Give her some time
It's hard to reason with someone who hasn't calmed down yet. Give her a few hours to appease her anger.
Step 6. If you are brave, the best thing you can do is call her
Your apologies will be more meaningful if the girl hears them directly from your voice. If you don't feel like it, send her an email or a message, but make sure your words are very expressive.
Step 7. To make a good impression, visit her
Bring her some flowers, if you know she likes them, and sincerely apologize.
Step 8. Promise her that you will never make the same mistake again
He will appreciate your goodwill and will likely be able to forgive you.
Step 9. If she doesn't accept your apology at first, give her some more time to calm down and try to contact her again after a while
If your girlfriend holds her nose for a long time, try to use her weaknesses to win her heart, for example, if she loves teddy bears, give her a cuddly toy, if she loves music, sing her a song.
Step 10. Show her how much you care, and apologize from the bottom of your heart
Tell her how important she is to you.
Advice
- Be spontaneous and honest.
- Remind her of the good times you spent together.
- Be yourself.
- Make her feel loved.
- Compliment her.
