Are you looking for that special person with whom you want to establish a friendship or a relationship that goes beyond a simple one night stand? Follow these tips to avoid a hit and run experiences.
Steps
Step 1. When you meet a guy for the first time, try to do it in a public place or in front of other people
Step 2. When you go on a date with him, invite friends - even his sometimes
Step 3. If possible, ask him to introduce you to his friends and family
Step 4. Don't answer her late night phone calls
Tell him you were sleeping if you have to find an excuse.
Step 5. Don't give in
If you think his intentions are not serious and that he just wants to have fun, don't let him do his thing.
Step 6. Get to know him and let him understand who you really are
Don't give yourself to someone you don't know well.
Step 7. Think about what you have in common and what you could do together, such as going to a game or dancing; as long as it is an activity in which you are not alone
Step 8. When he drives you home, don't invite him to come up
Let me go back to his house.
Step 9. Don't feel guilty if she complains about the lack of physical intimacy between you
He evidently has no respect for your feelings and desires!
Step 10. If you were to give in to his flattery once, make sure it doesn't become a habit
After getting what he wanted, did he disappear for a while? Then don't give yourself back to him; repeat these steps starting from the first again. Learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them.
Step 11. Break off with him, or tell him you want to take a break, if he refuses to see you except late at night for short meetings
A break could be good for both of you or let it go altogether: forward the next one! Not all guys will consider you just an object. It is up to you to stay true to your principles and have respect for yourself.
Advice
- Knowing a person well will prevent you from contracting diseases from deceivers, promiscuous people, losers who will only use you, waste your time and break your heart. Knowing them well you will be able to evaluate for yourself what they are capable of.
- If he gets to know you well, he will be able to appreciate other aspects of you besides the physical side. You may have more in common than you think.
- Getting to know her parents is important. If they seem interested in you, chances are he is just as much or they might put in a good word for you and get him to take it seriously.
Warnings
- If he does not want to introduce you to family or friends, take it as a wake-up call.
- If his relatives distance themselves from you by avoiding greeting you or even talking to you, be careful; it may be that there is someone else in his life that he cares more about.
- Also be careful if you notice that most of his friends are Don Juan.
