Being children is difficult. Furthermore, the hormones, the various bullies and the pressure exerted by the peers do not help. If you are tired of your old habits and want to become a better daughter, this article is for you.
Steps
Step 1. Make a list of things you could do that your parents like
Focus on what you are doing well. You will be able to continue doing these positive things or even improve them.
Step 2. Try to resolve the problematic things
For example, if you don't show your parents enough affection, make an effort to hug them every morning and tell them you love them. Resolve any problems you have with friends or relatives. Think that you could make mistakes and that you owe someone an apology.
Step 3. Spend time with your parents
Stay close to them and try to be yourself when you are with them. For example, go to the mall and shop with them from time to time, or ask your mom if she can have coffee with you at the nearest coffee shop. These bonds will strengthen your relationship.
Step 4. Clean your room
This way you will have a clean space in which to let your thoughts run freely. Help your parents when they need it, you can wash the dishes or clean the attic - the little things are important.
Step 5. Take care of yourself
Take a shower or bath, wash your hair, care for it, hydrate your body and face. These things not only make you feel good, they also allow your parents to see the best side of you.
Step 6. Wear and make up in neutral colors, many parents don't like their daughters to attract too much attention, so on many occasions it's best to be simple
Don't go overboard with accessories or makeup!
Step 7. Listen when your parents have something to tell you
If you don't listen to them, they'll think you don't respect them. Even if it's something you want to avoid (taking out the trash, finishing your homework) it will help you become a better person. Remember that parents are the ones who have the power, authority, and money in the home.
Step 8. Do kind things for others
It will give you a pleasant feeling and you will feel more optimistic.
Step 9. Do your best and work hard at school, get good grades and achieve good results in sports or other activities to make your parents proud
Without a doubt, it's important to remember that you need to be honest with yourself and know when it's too much - don't overdo it.
Step 10. Talk to your parents about things that worry you in your relationship, which may be caused by you or them
Keep calm. The last thing you want is to fight. When you have decided together what to solve, tell them you love them. Hug them. Then take a walk or walk away with some excuse, so that your mom or dad can think about what happened.
Step 11. Enjoy the simple things with your parents
Watch their favorite TV show, have dinner, watch a movie, and play something with them. Avoid them thinking their baby is walking away.
Step 12. Stay calm
Whether some girl has pulled your hair or pushed you into class, or your little sister won't let you in, don't get aggressive; your parents will appreciate your quiet demeanor.
Step 13. Always try to tell the truth
Sincerity is good, even when you want to lie.
Step 14. Believe in your parents and always respect them
They are the ones who guide you to be better.
Advice
- Check the words when you talk to your parents, do not insult them and do not raise your voice, be kind and polite to them, they will appreciate you more as a daughter.
- You must always be grateful for what they have done for you.
- Treat your mom or dad with a lot of kindness. Show them courtesy and love, so they'll be even kinder to you. For example, ask them if they need help when they are fulfilling an assignment.
- Listen to them when they speak to you. If you don't pay attention to them and then say "What?" many times, you will make them really angry.
- Try to be independent and show that you can do things (assignments, etc.) without them having to ask you.
- Always keep calm, if they are wrong do not say it by shouting and do not interrupt them. If they say something correct, open your ears and listen to them.
- Do not answer! You have to obey without saying "You are stupid" or other things that make them angry.
- Don't talk behind their backs.
- Help them cook and wash the dishes.
- Don't be lazy and listen to them.
- If you disagree with something they order you to do, simply do it. Then you can tell them "Hey, is there anything else I can do for you?". Say it kindly, not rude, unless you want to be punished.
- Go out with the little sisters. Have a fun day with them, take them to the park or go shopping. Young children love spending time with older children.
- Many mothers love tea, so make it for them when they feel down.
- Don't be sarcastic with your parents. It can be very annoying and could make them lose their temper.
- If your parents are overprotective of you, it is because they love you and care about you. If they overdo it, simply ask them why they do it. They will explain it to you.
- Try to keep this attitude with them.
- Don't tell them what to do for you, it will make them angry.
- Get to know your history and your roots, parents would like to pass on their traditions.
- Talk to them as much as you can and don't hide anything, secrets make you lose trust.
- Make a list of the things you want to do to make them love you and feel proud of you.
- Be yourself. Don't hurt yourself, push your friends away, or try to be something you aren't to please your parents. They love you for who you are!
- Try to get enough sleep by going to bed at 9 or 10.
- Have fun with your parents, but don't overdo it. Some parents are very serious and may wish you were too. If you overdo the fun they may think that you are irresponsible, immature or childish.
- Don't start a relationship or date a guy without their permission.
- Write a few verses about them, they will feel loved and appreciated.
- Keep some kind of diary. Write down all the things that make you angry among those that your parents do. Read it to them once, so they know what you think.
- Make their bed or clean their bathroom. Do something for them.
Warnings
- Love them for who they are and don't judge them and don't scream.
- Respect them, respect their point of view and their opinions, even if they are particular or eccentric. Unless they're really crazy, take that into account.
- Sounds difficult, doesn't it? But all you need is peace of mind and passion. This will help you become a better daughter.
- If there is a quarrel at school, tell the teachers, don't get involved in the discussion too.
- If you disagree with something they do or say, let them know so they can work on the problem.
