Has your ex told you that he has no intention of getting back together with you for any reason in the world? Does he say that your relationship was a mistake, or that he never really loved you? You are heartbroken, but you feel that deep down he still has feelings for you, and that he only behaves like this because he is angry or hurt.
Steps
Step 1. Don't give up
Hearing your ex tell you he has no intention of getting back with you might make you sick, but there will come a time when he regrets saying those words. If you play your cards right and know what to do and say, there may come a day when not only will he want to go back with you, but he'll come back on his knees with tears in his eyes begging for another chance.
Step 2. First of all, you need to understand that one of the reasons your ex got stubborn and obnoxious to such an extent could be because you are pushing too hard to get back together, or even just leaving the door open
Nothing turns a man away more than trying to make him admit his mistakes. Putting at the center of your thoughts the idea that you two must be together and trying to convince him that he should come back to you, it is as if you are telling him that he is wrong. Guys hate being wrong, but I'm sure you already knew that, right?
Step 3. Now, your ex is on the defensive and anything you do or say will be met by him with rejection
No matter how nice you are or the way you tell him, he will say no and will do the exact opposite of what you ask him. This is not to say that using reverse psychology is a good idea. He's probably too smart to fall for it, but if you're thinking of using some psychology anyway, you're on the right track.
Step 4. You have to make him have feelings towards you and you have to be a bit stealthy in doing so to overcome his defenses
The only way to do this is to use male psychology against him. Once he begins to feel nostalgic for you, for that connection you had and for the sweet feelings that bind you, he will become like clay in your hands and making him come back to you will be a breeze.
Step 5. Being polite or trying to reason with it will not get the reaction you want and such methods will make it even more difficult for you to re-establish your former bond
By appealing to his emotions using male psychology, you will find that not only has he changed his mind and started to have strong feelings towards you again, but he will also end up believing it was his idea. He'll think coming back with you was his choice, and you just have to decide whether to take him back or leave him forever.
