When you get a guy's attention, you need to show charm and confidence, appear open without giving the impression that you are too helpful. Getting noticed is one thing, but once you start interacting, it detects your personality in order to intrigue him and entice him to get to know you even better. If he still doesn't take the initiative and ask you for a date, there are several ways to invite him out without being intrusive.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Get Noticed
Step 1. Prepare to be physically attracted to you
Wear something that catches her attention without being too flashy. According to some studies, men are especially fascinated by women who wear red. This way, he will certainly notice you from afar.
- Use your perfume when you know you meet it. He will think of you every time he hears it in another place.
- Show your neck and shoulders. These parts of the body are a sign of femininity and vulnerability.
Step 2. Show yourself accessible
When you go out, be sure not to accompany you with more than a couple of friends at a time, otherwise he may be intimidated by the idea of talking to you. Also, he may think that you are not interested and that you will push him away as soon as he tries to get close.
- If you see him noticing you, don't be afraid to look him in the eye. You will encourage him to get closer. In these cases, a good rule of thumb is to hold your gaze for two seconds and smile.
- Make sure your facial expressions are soft, not harsh or harsh, especially if you think she's looking at you.
Step 3. Be indifferent
This doesn't mean you have to be rude, but by focusing your attention elsewhere, you may intrigue him even more. Normally, men are not attracted to women who are desperate for the consideration of others, so with this attitude you will prove the exact opposite.
- Men love challenges. The thought that he hasn't impressed you yet will cause him to woo you.
- If you are in a group of people, try to talk to others as much, if not more often.
Step 4. Meet him on purpose
Go back to the place where you first met him, be it in the corridors of the school, a coffee shop or an office in the workplace. Remember that people are habitual, so it is conceivable that if you saw him at noon in a park, you frequent that place regularly and that you will meet him again there.
Even if it doesn't notice you the first time, it will notice your presence if you keep stumbling upon the same place
Step 5. Be casual and yourself
Men can sense if a woman is comfortable in her skin or if she pretends to be who she is not. So, show without hesitation who you are to him and to those around you. Talk openly about your interests, your habits, and everything you do to improve on a personal level.
- Men love imperfections, so accept your flaws. Don't hide the fact that you gnaw your nails or that you are not well versed in math.
- This doesn't mean exposing yourself too much right away. You may want to keep an aura of mystery so that you want your presence more.
Part 2 of 3: Interacting with Him
Step 1. Become aware of your body language
Take on an air of confidence and walk with your head held high. The man you want to impress will be drawn to your confident attitude. When interacting with him, keep your body language open. In other words, lean in his direction, stand in front of him, nod and look him in the eye when he speaks. You will show him attention and interest in what he says.
- Every now and then she gives him a smile. This way, you will let him know that you are a positive and happy person, with whom it is pleasant to be together.
- According to a study, it is possible to increase the interest of the interlocutor by imitating his gestures. Do this subtly so that it records your movements on a subconscious level.
- If you put your hands on the table, try putting them there too.
Step 2. Try to create a romantic atmosphere if possible
The sun and heat increase endorphins, stimulating the body and promoting a good mood. If you go out together on a summer day, he is sure to enjoy the time spent in your company.
The darkness of the cinema and the twilight in certain restaurants can also create a romantic atmosphere
Step 3. Laugh and try to be happy
If you notice that you are laughing at something that someone says or a comment, you will give the impression that you are a pleasant and carefree person. He will be fascinated especially if his jokes are the fun of it.
- This attitude will make him feel safe and comfortable in your company because he will associate your presence with positive feelings.
- Men are very attracted to the crystalline laughter of women, which almost seem to reproduce a musical scale. So, don't overdo the volume.
Step 4. Increase your alchemy and be playful
Give him a mischievous pat on the arm or ruffle his hair. Remember to never take yourself too seriously, especially if you don't know him very well.
- Try to laugh and tease yourself without exaggerating self-irony.
- Don't be afraid to try new things because you fear embarrassment. Show him your desire for adventure even if you have to be a little ridiculous.
- If he proposes to ride a roller coaster but you suffer from acrophobia, show him that you can overcome your fear and be spontaneous.
Step 5. Teach him something
Men are attracted to women who show passion and motivation. He will understand that you are an independent person and, therefore, will be even more fascinated by you. He will love all your facets and will want to get to know you better.
If you are good at drawing, ask him to join a painting course together or teach him to paint yourself. He will love seeing you in your environment
Step 6. Find an excuse to talk to him
Ask him a question or ask his opinion on a topic. If you go to school or work together, see if it helps you with a project. By letting him guide you, you will increase his sense of masculine strength and resolve.
- At the same time, she'll see you as a confident woman who can ask for help when she needs it.
- Share your opinion on an event or topic you both know to keep the conversation going. It's a great way to break the ice.
Part 3 of 3: Ask him out
Step 1. Invite him to dance
Many guys find it stimulating for a woman to take the initiative. Take matters into your own hands if you notice that he is looking at you but does not make the first move. Flirt and ask them to dance together. He will appreciate your confidence and vitality.
Try telling him that you want to dance your favorite song with him. Later, he might catch your hint
Step 2. Ask him out without making it seem like a real date
Insert your invitation into a daily activity. Whether it's running an errand or watching a movie, ask him casually if he wants to accompany you.
- He won't feel pressured and may not even realize that technically it was you who stepped forward.
- Look for him at the last minute instead of scheduling a meeting. It will all seem more spontaneous.
Step 3. Include it in a group activity
If you feel like seeing him more often, invite him to a party or club with other friends. It won't seem too aggressive a proposal, but you will still have a chance to get to know each other better.
- If he is too shy to ask you out, a group activity may be more suitable for him. It will ease the tension and allow you to spend some time together in a relaxed atmosphere.
- He will have the chance to see you interact with the people you are comfortable with and, therefore, you can hit him with your personality.
Step 4. Suggest that they attend an event that focuses on your common interests
In this way, not only will you highlight what binds you, but you will have an excuse to ask him out. Since the event revolves around a passion you share, you will have many things to tell each other during your meeting.
- If you are a fan of the same band, ask them to buy tickets to go together to the next concert organized in your vicinity.
- If you know he likes horror movies, ask him if he wants to go see the one that just came out in theaters.
Step 5. Find out what his interests are and suggest him a themed outing
He cannot refuse to participate in one of his favorite activities. At least it brings up the topic. You don't have to pretend to be an expert, but he will be impressed by your efforts.
- Tell him you have an extra ticket for a weekend match if he wants to see it.
- Tell him you'd like to shoot two shots because you're good at throwing the ball.
- He will be able to go wild and be himself in your company.
