Do you need to prepare for a date with someone special? Take some time to plan your meeting and to make sure everything goes smoothly.
Steps
Step 1. Confirm your appointment
This way you will avoid making a bad impression. Make a note of the meeting place, what you will do, who will be with you and any telephone numbers you need. If you have to meet somewhere make sure you don't miss the train, the bus or have considered the traffic. Don't show up drunk or hangover, but try to cool off and be full of energy for the big event.
Step 2. If you are dating a girl, it may be more correct to ask the father's permission first
You will be the judge of whether to do so to avoid embarrassment or rejection.
Step 3. Choose how to dress
Try not to cover up too much if your destination is the beach, but if you are going out to eat, don't dress too casual. Above all, put something comfortable. The most suitable clothes for a man on these occasions are a shirt and casual trousers.
Step 4. Take a shower
You must be clean and fragrant. Use a shampoo that smells good, conditioner, and a scented body wash. Wash your face and be cleaner than usual. You need to make a good impression on the appointment. Shave! You could get a new haircut to improve your physical appearance. It would be better to avoid the risk of being confused with the tramp who usually goes to the station!
Step 5. Brush your teeth and style your hair
The last thing you need is a lunch salad leaf stuck between your teeth. After brushing your teeth, use mouthwash, eat a couple of mints, and even chew gum to freshen your breath. Style your hair, so that it enhances your face and, if you are very good, also your clothing.
Step 6. Be patient
If the person you're meeting with is late, rest assured. This will give you more time to prepare. Grab another mint and think about what you might say. If the person has been late for more than 15 minutes, try calling them. If he doesn't respond, don't panic. Wait another 10 minutes, call again and if he doesn't answer the next one.
Step 7. Keep calm during your appointment
No match is perfect, so don't worry. Avoid drinking a lot as it may jeopardize your appointment and also may give the impression that you have a serious problem.
Step 8. Think of witty things you might say that might be interesting to the other person (AVOID:
previous or ongoing crushes, the state of your toenails, a list of what you ate that day, a random guy you were talking to at the bar the other night [FOR THIS TOPIC SEE SECTION ONE!] or your brother's job bonus).
Step 9. Guys, opening the car door to the woman you're dating is never out of style
Step 10. After your appointment is over, walk the person you dated home
Advice
- Don't forget to put on the deodorant!
- Buying some clothes for the date improves self-confidence!
- Keep your purse or purse always at hand. Bring a packet of chewing gum, mints, tampons and sanitary pads (for emergencies), cell phone, money, condoms, a flask and anything else you might need.
- Put on the lip gloss because there might be a kiss.
Warnings
- If you use bubble bath, make sure its scent isn't too strong!
- Don't "bathe" in perfume or cologne as it is downright annoying. Instead, make small sprays or spray the perfume in front of you and then pass through the mist of perfume.
- Don't start dressing 15 minutes before your appointment. Plan everything in advance and be on time. Latecomers are not welcome!
- Don't eat take-out the night before your appointment. The kebab is not attractive.
