Do you want to know how to behave during a special date? Don't be nervous, all you have to do is be polite, funny and show the guy that you are interested in him by keeping a good conversation. Dressing up to impress isn't bad either. Just remember that you don't have to behave perfectly; the guy is likely to be just as nervous as you are! The most important thing is to be yourself and the rest will come by itself.
Steps
Step 1. Dress to impress
Guys may claim to be attracted to girls who bare some part of their body (as they are drawn to what they see), but that doesn't mean you should show up in a micro skirt and a low-cut V-top; it is okay to wear a dress that shows the shoulders, a little of the legs and slightly of the breasts. If you are a little stout, wear a cute blouse. But remember that you need to feel comfortable. Don't wear something that exposes your body so much that it looks desperate.
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Before the appointment, dedicated to basic personal hygiene: brush your hair, brush your teeth, put on deodorant and check your breath.
Act on a Date (for Girls) Step 1
Step 2. Put on some makeup
You could wear lip gloss or lip balm to match what you wear (unless it's purple, black or blue); something like brown, red or pink will do. A touch of mascara is not bad and a little bit of eyeliner. But do not exaggerate. You don't want the guy you're dating to think he's dated a clown.
Step 3. Be polite
Don't say rude or mean things. Don't criticize his opinion or you will dull his enthusiasm, but be sure to keep yours too. Just follow the most common advice: don't say anything you wouldn't say in front of your grandmother.
Step 4. Show that you have good eating habits
While you eat, chew like you have a secret. Close your mouth when chewing and don't talk with your mouth full, you know, right?
Step 5. Don't focus the conversation all the time on yourself
If he asks, that's fine, but don't tell him your life story and don't share personal or private information with him; if your relationship continues after this first date, you can tell him about it later. If not, you probably don't want him to know these facts about you.
Step 6. Make the conversation go both ways
Do not ask stupid or personal questions, but make sure that the conversation passes repeatedly from one to the other. Ask him something important, such as: "What are your passions in life?", Etc.
Step 7. Always talk jokingly, tell him something funny and tell him a little about your family life, school, work, etc
Remember to laugh when he says something witty.
Advice
- Don't insist on a kiss, but if it happens it happens. Remember that it needs to be short and sweet on the first date. Make him want others.
- Have a dynamic conversation. Don't sit down all the time staring into each other's eyes! Guys love to talk about themselves, so choose a topic that you think will interest them, like sports. Just make sure you avoid heavy arguments, like the ones mentioned above.
- If you go out for dinner, try to avoid foods that contain a lot of onion or garlic. There is nothing more annoying than bad breath! This is especially true if you are looking for a kiss at the end of the night.
- Compliment him on his physical appearance. He will return the compliment. But do not exaggerate.
- Don't complain about your weight, or you'll dull their enthusiasm. You are who you are and if the guy you date doesn't like, maybe you shouldn't go out with him. You should be proud of your body as it is.
- If he's polite, the guy you're dating should do something with these tips, with the exception of makeup (if he wants to, that's fine). If he deviates from these recommendations in any significant way, he is probably very rude and may not be the best choice.
- Smile at him from time to time to show that you are interested in what he says.
- Don't lie about yourself, especially if you're hoping for a second date. For example, if you say you love football when it is not true and the guy in question suggests going to play football for the next date, you could be discovered very quickly!
- Do not deal with "sensitive topics" such as previous relationships, the menstrual cycle; sometimes even the family can be a topic that the other person does not want to talk about. Don't talk about your big brothers or sisters as perfect people, like the best sportsman, extremely popular, on the honor list, etc.
