Joking with a girl is not difficult. It may seem like an insurmountable obstacle for some guys, but all you have to do is relax and be yourself. Once you have learned how to do it, it will be fun for both of you.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Learn to joke
Step 1. Be friendly and confident
Whatever you say, do it with a smile. It also shows the girl that you are comfortable and that you are making fun of her because you like her. Otherwise, he may think that you are serious and take what you say as an insult, especially if you are reserved and reserved. Just try to be as comfortable as possible, even if you like it a lot. He will understand your mood and be less likely to take offense.
Step 2. Tease her about her habits
Notice the things he does when you are together. Then, make a wry comment about her behavior. For example, if she waves her hair when she laughs, you can say something like, "Be careful how you move that wig, you'll get an eye out!" Not only will you make her laugh, but you will make her realize that you are watching her and noticing things about her.
- Be ready for its reruns. Try to make comments that give her a chance to reciprocate with a joke. This way it will be an exchange and not an assault on your part.
- Make sure you are not being offensive. You'll have to make her laugh.
Step 3. Also use pranks involving physical contact
Touch games and pranks are great ways to joke around with a girl in a more intimate way. This is especially effective if you're doing something nice for her at the same time. Get her a gift, like concert tickets. Offer her the tickets, then withdraw your hand. Each time you do this, bring it a little closer to you. This behavior is playful and a fun joke, which will end with a nice gesture from you.
You can also tickle or tease her, trying to provoke a reaction. If he reacts, you can tread your hand a little more
Step 4. Make a positive joke
Even if teasing someone means annoying them in some way, try to do it in a positive way. If she keeps biting into words, instead of insulting her ability to speak, ask her a question like, "Why are you eating all those words? Are you trying to confuse me or mislead me?" This will imply that she eats her words on purpose to annoy you instead of making fun of her for her mistakes. This is a playful way to draw attention to a funny feature without being offensive.
You can use this method for physical appearance as well. If she's wearing a particularly high pair of heels, make comments like, "Well, at least we don't risk a robbery. You could stab the criminal in your heels." You will let her know you've noticed what she's wearing by lightly teasing her about her height. This is a subtle joke that does not criticize its appearance
Step 5. Give her a nickname
If you spend time together, notice something about her, like the way she laughs or the kind of movies she likes. Based on your observations, give her a nickname. You can say something like, "I see you really like" Star Wars ". I might start calling you Jedi Jessica." If you choose a playful and fun nickname, she is more likely to like it.
Method 2 of 2: Learn What Not to Do
Step 1. Learn to understand its limitations
Even if you want to feel comfortable with the girl you like, you will need to understand how far you can go with pranks. You need to understand that there are limits to what you can say and do to not make her feel uncomfortable and push her away from you. If you are not sure if she likes to be teased, absolutely avoid insults about her physical appearance, family or friends. Make sure you use a level of pranking that she deems acceptable.
You may have to take a few tries before figuring out how far you can go. Trust your gut and look for clues about his feelings
Step 2. Don't be proud
If your flirting isn't effective, make sure you don't take your clumsy attempts on her. Also, if you offend her, always apologize. If you have a particularly sarcastic sense of humor, you might say things you don't like and offend her. If you've said something inappropriate, apologize in a sincere, articulate, and specific way. Don't say she is too sensitive.
Step 3. Don't be inappropriate
If you've just met a girl, you can't tease her like you've been dating for months. You should avoid making sexual jokes or touching her inappropriately in the early stages of a relationship. Make sure you're not being too vulgar if that can make her feel uncomfortable. If you don't know a girl well, you'll scare her or get a reputation for being rude.
Step 4. Avoid criticizing it
When you make fun of her, don't make your words sound like personal criticism, directed at her or something that is important to her. If she really cares about saving animals, don't make fun of her with phrases like: "Wow, you have a lot of cats. Are you one of those crazy 'cat cats'?" If her passion means a lot to her, she might take criticism badly and you might make her feel uncomfortable.
If you don't agree with what she believes, try teasing her about a small topic to ease the tension. If you disagree with her political view, don't criticize her about what she thinks. Instead of insulting his opinion, say something like, "While I can't argue with you in this case, if you tell me you like Bach and not Beethoven, the date could end instantly." This will change the subject and avoid arguments
Advice
- Don't be angry if a girl doesn't like jokes. Save the joke for another time, or if you really don't like it, stop doing it.
- Remember that she is not one of your friends. She has different feelings and every girl is different from the others. You don't have to hurt his feelings.
- Pay attention to his reaction; you can understand almost anything from a girl's body language or tone of voice. Another way to make sure he likes his jokes is to notice if he laughs.
