Sometimes it's hard to be yourself around your crush! If you want to know how, read this article!
Steps
Step 1. Be fun
If you stay stiff or serious and she has feelings for you, she may think again. If it seems to you that the conversations are becoming awkward, try to tease him a little, it always works.
Step 2. Don't monopolize the conversation
If you want, talk to him and ask him about his life. Let him ask you about yours and relax.
Step 3. Forget about yourself while talking to him
Listen to what he tells you, absorb and understand his emotions by mirroring his facial expressions. But let him finish the sentences before asking for more. Nobody likes to be interrupted. Also look him straight in the eye to make him appreciate your sincerity in listening to him. Remember that understanding is a key part.
Step 4. Be friends with his friends
Talk to them amicably. They will remember you as a "cool" and speak well of you. Don't flirt with them though! You do not want them to think that you are easy or to fall in love with you!
Step 5. Another tip to facilitate the conversation is to say “mmm” and “yes”
Try to agree where possible. This will make him want to talk to you again.
Step 6. Make sure you are really interested in what he says
It is not difficult to unmask a pimp. Think about what he is telling you, and forget you are there. Let your mind work for you.
Step 7. Don't get obsessed
If your friends always feel like you think it's the best thing in the world, they might tell them. Think of him as a friend, and he'll like you.
Step 8. If you were his first friend and you were only now developing feelings, don't suddenly reveal it to him, he might not reciprocate, not yet
Be casual and flirt a little bit.
Step 9. Don't be afraid to be yourself with a pinch of madness
Don't be afraid to draw attention to yourself a little. Guys like uninhibited girls but not overly. Don't overdo it, remember that many guys are afraid of a girl that is too out of control. But don't be afraid to be yourself! HONESTY is the best policy.
Advice
- Don't change the way you are around him. Be yourself and tell the truth.
- Don't forget to breathe! Talking to him might make you a little agitated, but breathing will prevent you from stammering and making your interest obvious.
- Pay attention to other people's comments about your crush. You don't necessarily have to agree with them, but keep your ears open.
- Trying to appear casual and mysterious usually turns on you and makes you look stupid or weird, depending on how hard you tried.
- He also talks to his friends, they are human beings. Ask them about them and be friendly. They will remind you and think that you are pretty, and they will probably tell the object of your wishes. Don't flirt with them if you're interested in their friend.
- If you practice (or learn to practice) making friends or a group of friends in general, this will also help you in the sentimental field. What you learn in all types of relationships is transversal.
- Make sure you build something in your life and learn to do things to be more competent.
Warnings
- Never flirt too much, most guys find it unattractive.
- It's okay to stare at it secretly, but if it starts to turn towards you, turn away (but not too quickly, or you will get suspicious).
- If you stay too far away for too long, your chances of a relationship with him will decrease.
- Don't worry about not being able to be perfect (no one can) for that perfect person (not even she will ever be) … but you can get close if you try hard! (On the other hand … you may not have the same idea of perfection) The idea of perfection helps to make the journey much more interesting. So relax …
- Learn to live well - this will be more important than finding a soul mate. If you prepare to BE the most perfect companion and friend possible, you will also find yourself being as perfect a person as possible to spend time or life with (but don't be afraid to surround yourself with "less perfect" people too - they will surprise you). Every challenge (including crushes) you encounter along the way is an opportunity for growth and becoming wiser towards a more exciting future and life.
- Avoid getting too fancy about your crush and try to distract yourself with other things. Be careful not to let it become the main part of your world. Not only will it risk affecting other parts of your life, it could also lead you to embarrass yourself even more around your crush.
