Has it ever happened that someone, for example a partner or friend, called you a bit edgy? Or have you sometimes realized yourself that you are not the most reflective person in the world and have felt the desire to change? With the right determination and thanks to the guidelines contained in this article you will be able to achieve the desired result. Read on and start that evolution that will lead you to be the person you want.
Steps
Step 1. Be humble
In other words, be modest, and don't worry too much about yourself. Taking care of yourself and your actions is important, but valuing others for what makes them special is equally important.
Step 2. Do good deeds towards others without expecting anything in return
Get off the track to improve another person's life. Compliment someone on their looks or talent. Make coffee for your partner without them asking. Make any gesture that can bring a little joy into the lives of others.
Step 3. Take the time to think carefully about the things you do or say and consider how they might affect the people around you
Similar to when you want to acquire a new and healthy habit, the change process will take time. Some of your ways may be fruitful for yourself, but not for others; then try to analyze your behaviors with a loved one, in order to highlight any harmful habits. In doing so you will be able to notice what the triggering situations are so that you can avoid them in time.
Step 4. Take care of the cleanliness and management of the environment in which you live, so that, upon entering it, those around you do not have to feel uncomfortable
In general, the atmosphere around you should be welcoming and pleasant for everyone, whoever they are.
Step 5. Take care of your personal hygiene
If, in your presence, people can feel at ease, they will be more inclined to accept your every gesture.
Step 6. Exercise and eat properly, you will keep your mind healthy and bright
If you want to be friendly, it is essential to feel good about yourself. So simplify your personal relationships and your relationships with the outside world, taking care of your health. Avoid using drugs or taking harmful substances.
Advice
- Before speaking, always think about what you are going to say and use an appropriate tone of voice.
- Taking care of ourselves allows us to feel good and to be attentive to others as well.
- Think about others and their feelings, how they are affected by your actions, but don't let it become an obsession. It would not be a wise choice, every person is able to take care of themselves.
- It is not possible to please everyone.
- Consider what others want as well as what's best for you.
