To make your parents happy, you need to interpenetrate with them. If they're not happy with you or just want to cheer them up, these tips show you how to stay out of trouble and build a good relationship with them, without giving up the fun with friends.
Steps
Step 1. Do your homework and whatever is asked of you
If you do something without being asked, you will get extra points. Don't be boring, just do it. Be proud of this and you will see that they will be happier. They will appreciate it!
Step 2. Offer to do things for them
If they seem tired or you think they need help, make a point and remember that by doing so, you will earn more points. Be proud and don't complain.
Step 3. Follow the rules
When they tell you not to do something, don't do it. Even if you think you won't get caught, it will! Never do what is forbidden, even if yours aren't there.
Step 4. Obey
Do what they ask of you and don't blame them as if you were arguing with a friend. Remember that your parents are always trying to help you and raise you in the best way.
Step 5. Be grateful
Always thank your parents, because they invest time and energy in you.
Step 6. Don't expect to always be the center of their attention, otherwise they will always see you as a spoiled child
After the age of 7-8, the social instincts of sharing and affection for others will begin to be felt. Try to live up to this fate by building a healthy psychological development.
Step 7. Never lie to parents
It is a sign of disrespect and you would probably get caught.
Step 8. Try to cheer them up when they feel sad
You will prove that you are someone you can rely on and ask for their opinion, thus gaining their trust. Be careful not to look too exuberant and always take personal spaces into account. After all, you are their child who has been taught most of what they know. Turning roles suddenly would put them in a difficult position.
Step 9. Study hard and your parents will be happy
Step 10. Think about brothers too every now and then
Try to be cuter than usual. Your parents will notice and appreciate the maturity you demonstrate, giving you more freedom. Ask politely if you want to achieve something.
Step 11. Show your love
- Put into words the good you want them, regularly.
- Prove your love instead of just saying it. Make them breakfast or do those little homework before they're even asked for.
Step 12. Go to school every day
Attending her will only benefit you in the future and will make your parents happy that you are growing up with a good education.
Advice
- Stay calm when you feel frustrated. Shouting would only get you in trouble.
- Do as they tell you, even if it can be difficult.
- Remember to treat others as you would like to be treated!
- Stay away from drugs and smoking. These are things that would put pressure on your parents, giving them strong sorrows.
- Make sure you get good grades. Most parents don't appreciate a child doing badly in school, and even if they don't care, remember that doing well in school is about using your intelligence!
- Don't disrespect your parents. Independence is fine if used from time to time, but in an exaggerated way it might worry them.
- Offer your help with the brothers. The smaller ones can sometimes irritate, angering your parents.
- Be polite, kind, obedient and in this way you will gain freedom and trust.
- Inside them, your parents will always be happy and proud of you no matter what you do, so don't stress yourself out if you're not always perfect.
- Don't fight in front of your parents even if you can't control yourself. Act calmly and rationally.
