How To Make Your Girl Happy: 14 Steps

2024 Author: Samantha Chapman | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 09:13

Do you want to be the perfect boyfriend for your girlfriend? Do you want to give her all the possible reasons why she believes you are the right man she has always been looking for without having to change anything about you? If you treat your girlfriend wonderfully well, she'll do the same. Isn't that the thing all kids want?

Steps

Part 1 of 4: Make Her Feel Good

Step 1. Show her affection

Girls want their partner to show them affection because it lets them know that you care, and that you are willing to show that love in public as well. You don't have to do it all the time, but get used to the idea; she wants others to see how much you love her, so don't be afraid to kiss her or hold her hand in public.

• Tell her she is beautiful. You have to show her that what you say you really feel. If you let her know that when you tell her you are absolutely sincere, it will take you very far.

  • Also, tell her that she drives you crazy and that she is the coolest thing that ever happened to you. Tell her you've never met anyone like her.
  • Compliment her on her looks, but also on her character, her skills and what she's been able to do. If she plays very well at cards, tell her how smart she is. If she's someone who can listen, tell her she's great with others.

  

  Step 2. Tell her you love her

  Make sure you are honest. If you're not ready to use those words yet, that's okay anyway. But convert them to a convincing "Do you know how special you are to me?" or maybe "I love you so much; I'm a really lucky guy."

  • The simple things are the most effective. Just "I love you", or "You make me happy", or "I'm really lucky to have you." Don't go overboard with romance.
  • These phrases make her feel good, and also good for her confidence. Remember, when her self-confidence is at a high level, it's better for you. Try to be consistent with your displays of love or simple affection, enough not to make her forget how much you care about her, but not too much for words to lose their power.

  

  Step 3. Touch it regularly and spontaneously

  Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Make sure it's a gentle and respectful touch, and not an overly sexual and cheeky one.

  • Hold her hand, hug her, stroke her back, or gently touch her face. These gestures will make her feel protected and loved.
  • Of course, you can go further if in the place, and especially at the right time. Make sure you do this when she is ready, and that she is comfortable before you start exploring the sexual side of your relationship.

  

  Step 4. Change your priorities

  Put their needs first of your worries. This does not mean that you have to annihilate yourself, or lose your "backbone". It simply means that often, you will be willing to go to meet her, even if it was something you didn't want to do.

  • If you believe she is the right woman, then make her your number one priority. It is said that love is selflessness; you have to prove it!
  • If you are with your friends, don't act like she doesn't exist. How would you feel if she did the same thing to you? Certainly invisible, isn't it? Stay close to her, give her a knowing glance often to let her know that you are aware of her presence, and smile at her genuinely.
  • Listen to it. Women often complain that men are unable to listen to them. Even if you are not particularly interested in what she is saying, listen to her… and above all let her know that you are doing it. Let her know that she is free to talk about anything with you.
  • Every woman loves some alone time with her partner. Spend a full day together. Watch a movie, massage her back, pamper yourself and enjoy your intimacy. Make sure you spend some time alone at least a couple of times a month.

  Part 2 of 4: Treat Her Right

  

  Step 1. Treat her with dignity

  It means treating your girlfriend the same way you would like to be treated. Don't swear at her, don't try to manipulate her, don't use her to your advantage, or destroy her ideas. Your goal is to make her as happy as possible, so it's not something you realize overnight. Commit to work towards this goal, and try with all your might, even if you fail.

  • Defend it always and in any case. It will show her that you are always on her side and that you are willing to manifest it publicly, which is not always easy.
  • At the same time, avoid putting yourself in impossible situations. If he's having a fight with his parents right in front of you, you probably don't want to get in the way and risk making them angry (especially if they're still in control of a lot of things in his life). Just stay out of family matters as much as you can, but support her when she asks.
  • Don't make a scene in public. This will be humiliating for both of you; she will think twice before going out with you again. Keep calm when arguing, make an effort to keep emotions from taking over, and treat your girlfriend as you would like her to treat you. Don't raise your voice, don't scold her, and expect to apologize, even if you haven't done anything wrong.

  

  Step 2. Share your thoughts and everything that happens to you during the day with your girlfriend

  Being open and communicative will make her feel a welcome part of your life. Being intimate isn't just about getting to know her body; it also means having the opportunity to share what happens to you, and retrace them together.

  • Listen to his advice, even if you don't think the same way. Force yourself to listen and see things in their perspective. Keep your ears and mind open. She will reciprocate with all her love.
  • Even if you don't have much to say, share your thoughts with her. If you have a habit of keeping it all inside, or are one of those people who don't talk often, your girlfriend could easily misunderstand what your feelings for her are. Let her know what you think so she doesn't get the wrong idea.

  

  Step 3. If you want to pay for something, allow it

  Just make sure the roles aren't swapped. She makes great sacrifices to always be nice to you, so try to pay for a few things when you get the chance. It's not about the money, but it's about letting her know that you care enough to give her a gift from time to time. It doesn't have to happen all the time, don't be tacky and don't act like it's another world thing. Just be the man.

  Part 3 of 4: Surprise her

  

  Step 1. Be romantic

  Every girl wants someone with a sense of romance. They all like to feel (mostly in their underwear; sometimes even literally) as if they are the princess of their own fairytale, and they want to be treated as such. Show your girlfriend that you care about her by putting some effort into your romantic way.

  • Write her love messages. They don't need to be long, poetic, or cheesy if you're not the type. Short and why not, even silly ones can be fine. Make them cute (girls love it, even doodles), they have to show her that you care. Write them on small pieces of paper.
  • Do not send them by email or text message. They make you seem lazy and unwilling to make the effort to give them some of your time. Be the man, put some commitment into it, and write her a nice old-fashioned love letter.
  • Tell her how lucky you are to have met her. That being with her makes you want to be a better person. Tell her that from the first moment you saw her, you already knew how special she was. This is a great way to be romantic.

  

  Step 2. Try to be considerate

  The little things are always the most important. Be a gentleman. Keep the doors open for her to pass. Being attentive means putting yourself in her shoes every now and then and wondering what you could do for her, or what she might want.

  • Ask her if she feels cold when you are outside; have a jacket or sweater handy to hand over.
  • When she's not feeling well, or sick, bring her some soup, hot tea, or even just some flowers. Hold her hand when watching a movie or walking. Give her a gift… simply because she deserves it.
  • Little things like a flower, a magazine that he reads with pleasure, a bag of his favorite candy or treats go a long way. Show her that you think about her.

  

  Step 3. Remember his favorite things, and those he hates

  Being romantic is a matter of using what you know about her and showing her how important these things are to you.

  • What do you like to eat? What is your favorite flower? And the perfume? What do you like to do when it comes to dating? What do you like to read, and what music do you like to listen to?
  • Remember what she likes to eat and cook it for her. Or, remember what kind of flower makes her feel like a woman, and send them to her. Or maybe, remember that music triggers her deepest emotions and prepare a mix for her.

  

  Step 4. Remember important dates

  This is extremely important for women. Birthdays, anniversaries, and any other significant dates are all opportunities to show her how special she is to you. Mark them all on a calendar so you don't forget them.

  • For her birthday, give her a gift (chocolates, shoes, etc.; these are all valid thoughts) and send her some flowers. Don't forget to write her a note, you can also romantically tease her about getting "old", but to you she will always be the same girl you fell in love with the first time you saw her.
  • For your anniversary, plan a special evening for both of you to let her know how much you love her and how much you appreciate her. Make a scrapbook with all the ticket receipts from the places you have been together, and write down all your memories of those evenings.

  • Send her a video message on Facebook telling her how important she is to you, and how you'll never forget the first time you went out.

    Remember that women want to be pampered on these occasions. Flowers at her door, take her to dinner in a special place - these things show that you care. Remember that what matters is the thought, it is not a question of money

  Part 4 of 4: Understanding What Makes Her Happy

  

  Step 1. Understand what affects a woman

  Women are maternal creatures: they love to take care of things. That's why she makes amazing meals for you, or organizes your backpack, or cares if you don't call her when you get home. Take advantage of her nature and show her that you appreciate her efforts; also let her know that you spare.

  • Remember that women have grown up listening to stories that always end with the protagonists finding "the perfect man", becoming princesses and living happily ever after. The fact that they have to find a perfect man through and through is rooted in their subconscious. While it is almost impossible for this to happen in reality, you will have to make a commitment to be that prince for her.

  • Girls want to feel special. They want to be able to brag to their friends about how awesome you are; they want to know if your commitment to your relationship is as much as theirs; they want to see themselves as the luckiest girl in the world. Try to be the very person who can give her all this.

    • The more you make her feel that she is the one you love, and not any other woman, the more special she will feel.
    • So, don't say things like "I like women with a little curves" if you want to compliment her; rather say, "I like how your curves show off your body."
    • Likewise, don't always compliment just her anatomical "features" versus the truly unique things about her. Saying something like "I never realized how much your eyes look just like sapphires" is much more affectionate than an appreciation of her breasts.

    

    Step 2. Understand the differences between men and women

    We all know that they think and behave differently. It's important to know why, because it will help you do things she expects you to do.

    • Always keep in mind that she never thinks she is too clingy. Being around you, worrying about your safety - these things are a natural part of being a woman, and therefore part of her personality. Learn to love this aspect of it.

      • Think of it as a positive thing. Women tend to be "clingy" only if they love and care about you deeply. If he has stopped doing this, there may be something wrong.
      • If you need some space, ask him affectionately: "You know I love spending time with you. But I haven't seen my friends for a while, and I'd like to meet them to go to the movies this weekend.. Do you mind if I go?"
    • For girls, it's not just about sex. Guys have a completely different approach to this topic. For girls, it's not about sex itself, but rather about sharing their intimacy with you. If she suspected that all you want from her is sex, she would probably deny it. If, on the other hand, she believes that what you want is her, she will end up giving herself completely.

    

    Step 3. Believe in yourself

    Girls love people who have a lot of self-confidence. Remember, you don't need to be Brad Pitt to believe in yourself. It is a matter of knowing who you are, knowing what you like and what you don't like, being a calm person with your head on your shoulders.

    • Always take care of your appearance. Shower or bathe regularly, and always wear clean, well-made clothes. Girls don't need to be a model, but they want others to notice how great a person you are, and how capable you are of taking care of yourself.
    • Learn to make funny jokes. A joke is a great way to protect your confidence. There are studies that claim that a man with a fantastic sense of humor are very desirable companions. So, get a lot of practice, learn what the funniest parts of yourself are, and don't be afraid to tease yourself a little. A man with a good sense of humor communicates a deep self-confidence.

    • Never lie. How would you feel if she started telling you lies? Lying is a trust issue, and trust for girls is extremely important. Exchange it in the same way.

      • The problem with lying is that one lie always leads to other lies. Usually you don't just say one; when they discover you it is because they become so many that you can no longer manage them. And then, it becomes a simple mathematical formula: The more lies you tell, the easier it is for them to catch you.
      • Try to be confident enough in yourself that you don't need to lie. If you stop embarrassing about certain things, you won't have to lie to avoid them. And even if they weren't embarrassing, don't let them become. Your confidence will continue to increase.

      Advice

      • Don't talk about your exes. Your girlfriend will only feel like she is one of many, and not that special someone you tell her you are.
      • Don't fail to tell her how you feel about her. She will always love hearing this from you.
      • Be careful what you say, and above all, check your tone, especially during an argument. Girls don't like being scolded or addressed with angry words.
      • Appreciate her goals and give her the incentive to reach others.
      • If she has pets, treat them with respect. She will notice that you take care of it and that you are a good person.
      • Whatever you do, don't offend his friends. They are his biggest supporters, and they have more control than you might imagine. Always respect them.
      • If you're wrong, admit it, apologize and tell her you love her.
      • Don't pressure her into having sex with you if she doesn't feel ready, or just wants to wait. From that moment everything will be ruined. You would probably achieve a lot more by making her feel comfortable, and if only you gave her all the time she wants.
      • Don't laugh when you know she is talking about serious things. It will make her feel like you don't respect her opinions.
      • Your friends may accuse you of "softening up". This is probably not true, ignore them. After all, you have a beautiful woman who loves you, so who cares?