It's hard when friends turn against. You won't know what to do at first, especially if they are old friends. This wiki guide will help you cope with this bad time.
Steps
Step 1. Ignore them and don't miss a single tear for them
They are waiting for nothing but to see you destroyed, do not let them have it won.
Step 2. Tell yourself that you are better than them; friends would never have behaved like this towards you
Don't worry too much, people like them just don't deserve you.
Step 3. Forgive if you feel like doing it
Did they deceive you? Did they make you commit something you regret? You shouldn't overlook such behavior, but the feeling of forgiveness can help you get through this moment. This doesn't mean you have to forget though.
Step 4. Never consider them your friends again
It can really hurt and you'll end up hating yourself, but don't blame yourself that you don't have for something others have done to you.
Step 5. It doesn't matter if they invite everyone to their parties except you
If they invite you well, it means that you can choose whether to go or not. Remember that you don't have to AVOID them; if you have decided to forgive them try to get closer.
Step 6. Otherwise, meditate and take your attention away from them completely
Step 7. Be superior
If they gossip about you and spread your secrets around, don't retaliate by doing the same to them. Stay calm and be mature. They will look like idiots, not you.
Step 8. Give them a second chance, but no more
If you think they are really sorry, don't be cold to them and accept their apology.
Advice
- If they cheated on you, cut them out. One day they will regret it and feel the need to reconnect, but you will not be there for them. Go on with your life and choose the best for you. They don't deserve your friendship. Life is full of opportunities, go on your own way and you will meet many interesting people with whom to forge new relationships. People come and go from our life, but true friends will always remain.
- Don't let yourself be touched by the wickedness of others. It's really hard to be indifferent, but you can do it.
- It can be very challenging, but you can really be a better person. Just look back and remember what they did to you and how you chose to change, turn the page and move on.
- Be open to new social opportunities. Talk to others, say hello to everyone you meet: sometimes simple acquaintances turn out to be excellent friends.
- If "bad friends" have your mobile number, block them so they can't call or text you anymore.
- If they want to retrace their steps, just tell them not to.
Warnings
- Some people can be stubborn. Sooner or later they will give up.
- Be careful. You don't want to cut everyone out of your life unless they've done something really bad towards you.
