There are as many ways to describe a kiss as there are snowflakes in a storm. Each kiss is unique as is each snowflake, no one is the same as another. The truth is that snowflakes can repeat themselves, but there are so many variations that it is almost impossible to identify two identical ones. And so it works for kisses too. Nevertheless, there is a method that allows you to describe each kiss in all its uniqueness.
Steps
Step 1. Collect ideas and identify all the different aspects of a kiss
- humidity
- duration
- sweetness
- neglect
- feeling of ease
- temperature - burning passion or cold indifference
- exploration
- familiarity
- sensuality - cold and aloof or warm and inviting
- detachment / involvement
- sexuality
- pleasure - from wonderful / never want to stop to detestable
- tenderness
Step 2. Think of each aspect as in continuous becoming
Choose more than one highly descriptive word for each point.
Step 3. Describe all aspects of the kiss
Consider the full range of aspects and specify a match for each term.
Step 4. Rank the relationship between the two protagonists:
family, friendship, couple.
Step 5. Identify the circumstances surrounding the situation:
meeting, farewell, foreplay, good morning, greeting before going to work, etc.
Step 6. Describe the emotions involved
Step 7. Specify the duration of the kiss
Step 8. Describe how the kiss changes over time
Is it cyclical?
Step 9. Describe the parts of the body involved precisely
Does kissing involve movement? Is there a destination?
Step 10. Articulate the feelings evoked by the kiss
Step 11. Evaluate the reciprocity of the kiss
Is it a one way kiss or a kiss back?
Advice
- A kiss is something that you like, that makes you feel comfortable and gives you pleasure.
- There are different types of kisses. A kiss can be soft, wet, slimy, etc.
- Sometimes a kiss can seem like a strange, unnatural, wrong gesture.
- Sometimes a kiss can feel vulgar, other times perfectly sensual and natural. It depends on the kiss and the observer's predisposition.
