Do you have a soft spot for a girl (or a boy), but are too afraid to be able to talk to this person? Well, you don't have to. It might seem like a titanic undertaking, but you will feel better after doing it, even if she has to reject you.
Steps
Step 1. If you feel very nervous, try to calm down
Ask a friend to go to the girl and ask her to come and talk to you alone. Friends can be very helpful when you have a crush on someone.
Step 2. If the girl in question agrees, ask your friend to be alone, in case you feel really uncomfortable, because, if she likes you, she may not feel like admitting her feelings to third parties
Step 3. For girls:
don't act like a goofy fool in front of him, because he'll think you're weird and go tell his friends.
Step 4. Don't be shy about expressing your feelings for her
Just remember that he may not reciprocate, so try not to be disheartened if he tells you, “I'm flattered that you have these feelings for me, I just don't like you that way. Would it be okay if we were just friends?”. Accept his proposal and go your own way.
Step 5. If she said no, don't go back to her and ask her the same question every day
Girls can't stand this kind of attitude.
Advice
- If she says yes, well done, but don't go bragging to all your friends because she might not like it.
- Don't keep annoying her if she says no.
