It's helpful to take a few moments for yourself every now and then and really think about what kind of person you are, comparing it to the kind of person you want to be. When you do, it often turns out that there is a discrepancy between the two. They taught us to think that owning things allows us to do what we want to become who we want to be. If you were to say to yourself "I want to have a million euros in the bank and then I will feel like a millionaire", you would be using the "have-do-be" formula, which is usually the exact opposite of the successful formula for obtaining wealth. major. Put simply, if you want to have more (be it money, income, wealth, etc.) you have to BECOME more. The late Jim Rohn, the legendary personal development guru, said: “Success is not a process of doing things, but of becoming someone. What you do, what you follow, will avoid you - it could be like trying to catch butterflies. Success is something that you attract because of the person you have converted to”.
Steps
Step 1. Be aware that Being x Doing = Having
Many people think that if they "have" one thing (success, more time, money, love … whatever), then they can finally "do" one thing (change career, expatriate, write a book, start a new hobby, go on vacation, buying a house, starting a relationship), which in turn will allow him to "be" something (successful, happy, rich, content, or in love). However, "having" does not necessarily produce "being". It works exactly the other way around. Act as if you "are" (successful, happy and rich), and you will become. Somehow, you will have to pretend to be something - self-convince yourself - until you really are! If you believe in something, it will come true.
Step 2. Change your actions to improve your thinking
There is a saying that says: "It is better to change your actions to improve your way of thinking, than to change your way of thinking to improve your actions". However, this is only partially true, because it works according to the "do-have-to-be" principle. You can start acting and behaving like a rich person to start feeling richer and attract more money accordingly. But "doing" this will produce a "having" only a few times, while "being" will produce a "having" always. Unless the unconscious mental program (or mental movie) you have is not congruent with your actions, you will soon be behaving as before. It is only a matter of time. This is why many people fail to diet, quit smoking, get rich, settle down and meet their goals, make New Year's resolutions, and so on. The mental "programs" or movies that work inside your mind will ultimately dictate the results of your entire life, more than any action or goal you can accomplish.
Step 3. Start “Being” when you don't “Have”
Many people seek "success" without knowing the formula to achieve it. It is important to know how success works. In reality, it is no accident and has little to do with luck. When you look inside your mind, the mental film about yourself that is being played will determine how you feel, how you think and how you act. Programming the unconscious part of the mind for success works according to the Be-Do-Have rule. Mahatma Gandhi said the famous phrase: "You must be the change you want to see in the world". You must be the change you want to see in yourself! You can program your own mind by allowing yourself to relax, and then filling it with visions of successful outcomes based on Having, feeling the associated emotions traveling through your body. Automatically, you are becoming the thing you see inside your mind - it is inevitable! The act of filling your mind with visions and your body with emotions will determine what you "do" to make sure what you "get". This formula works by creating solutions, opportunities and circumstances for you by choosing a perspective now and acting with the confidence to achieve a result. There is so much more to understand to use the unconscious of the mind as a partner for your success in any field. Using the power of the unconscious of the mind can help you quickly reach any goal in life, bringing you success, wealth and luck!
