A series of small mistakes could be fatal to your relationship. Here's how to not lose the girl of your dreams!
Steps
Step 1. Put your girlfriend above everything
It should be your top priority, the most important thing in your life. If you care about her as your own existence, she will do the same for you.
Step 2. Be honest
Do everything you can to avoid lying to her. If you tell her a lie, you should immediately confess! If you really love her, you won't be able to hide anything from her; you will feel terribly guilty and when (not if) she finds out, anything will be questioned, even your love.
Step 3. Communication is key
You must respect his opinion and always listen to what he has to say. Pay attention to them, because girls hate anyone who doesn't listen to them.
Step 4. Show her your respect by listening to her and show her how much you care
Step 5. Troubleshoot
In a real relationship, just apologies aren't enough, even if it's a good start. To resolve an issue, you must learn to communicate and talk about it deeply and sincerely.
Step 6. If she made you angry or lost your temper during an argument, let her know that her attitude hurts you
He should show his respect to you by trying to understand your feelings and avoiding acting irrationally.
Step 7. Try to always make her feel special
Women love it!
Step 8. Never make any comments about other girls
Never, under any circumstances.
Some girls would simply get jealous, while others would even think about cheating.
Step 9. You must have an independent life
Even if you put her on top of everything, don't make her the absolute center of your life or else you will become too clingy and may drift away from you. Don't forget that you are in a relationship; you can't do everything you want without consulting it, but you both need your space.
Step 10. If you haven't had a lot of time together lately and want to go out with your friends to watch a movie or a game, ask her if it's okay for her
If you spend little time together, she'll start to think you don't care about her anymore. After all, if you don't show her that you value her opinion, that it's the most important thing in your life, and that you want to spend every moment with her, how will she feel loved and respected? If you haven't had a chance to see each other, tell her how much you care, how much you miss her and start planning something special to make up for lost time even if there is more than a week to go until the next meeting. This will show her how much you care about being with her. On the other hand, if she offers you something but you're already busy, explain exactly why you can't see it. She will be sad and miss you, but you can let her know that you feel the same way and that you love her to death.
Advice
- If you are truly in love, you shouldn't show interest in other women, even if you're not already in a relationship. If you are busy, it is an attitude to be avoided absolutely because he will notice it. Forget about posters and magazines; it's not worth it, you'll only make her suffer.
- Women are jealous even if they don't admit it. Avoid anything that can make them jealous, because jealousy does not lead to anything good.
- If he tells you he doesn't want gifts for his birthday, he's lying. In fact, he's saying, "Surprise me! If you know me well, you know what to do to make me happy!"
- If a friend, in front of your girlfriend, asks you "Do you think [girl's name] is attractive?" you should simply say "I don't care".
- Take her in your arms and kiss her on the forehead; will feel safe.
- You should both be on the same level in the relationship. If he wants something more, you should discuss it. Don't let her decide everything by herself just to please her and not to lose her.
- Many women are insecure, even the most beautiful ones. If she confides in you, your duty would be to remind her that you feel extremely lucky to be a part of her life. Compliment her; let her know that she is absolutely perfect for you.
- Don't take his presence for granted. A relationship must be nurtured every day. Always remind her how much you care and she should reciprocate the feeling.
- When she's sick, take care of her; show her your love by staying by her side. Make sure he can rest without any problems, so he can recover faster. It will do the same for you.
- The little things are very important. For a woman, what matters most are the details and the little surprises. Never forget this, even if it may seem trivial. Even a simple love card can make the difference, or a romantic message, a bouquet of flowers for no apparent reason, a dinner prepared just for her, a hot bath after work, surprise her with the hat she has long wanted, rent the movies she wanted to see and eat take-away, dedicate the evening to her instead of going out with friends and so on. It is essential to have small precautions to make her happy; this way, you will keep the romance alive and, at the same time, show her how much you care and that she is the most important thing in your life.
- If she closes the phone in your face during an argument, call her back right away. Don't keep her waiting, because 9 times out of 10 she will be waiting by the phone crying.
- Respect is very important to both of us. Respect each other, which includes your families too, regardless of everything. Like it or not, love her family and don't force her to choose between you and them. She has no faults, no one chooses their family. Learn to like his relatives, or pretend if you have no alternative.
- Everyone needs their own space. Even if you want to spend every moment with her, she may need to see her friends alone.
- If you start arguing, try to resolve the issue. Don't say things you don't think about just to calm her down. This will create other problems. Don't be too demanding, but don't allow her to do something that damages you (financially, emotionally, physically, etc.).
- Please her and you will make her happy. This doesn't mean you should jump off a bridge at his command; just be available to help in case of need. He will surely return the favor.
- Always tell her you love her, but only if you really feel it. Don't tell her just to make her feel safe, it's the worst thing you can do. If you love her, don't be shy and express your feelings.
- Sacrifices are necessary in any relationship, because without them the relationship would be short-lived. If you want to build something beautiful, you have to make sacrifices and this applies to any aspect of life, school, work, marriage and so on. This means that, for example, you should attend an event even if you don't want to; but if it did not affect your work or priorities and was communicated to you in time, you would have no reason to avoid it. Also, you would put your girlfriend in trouble, you would end up in a fight, the situation would not improve and, in the end, it could question the relationship itself. After all, if you don't compromise, preferring to live completely separate lives, wouldn't it be better to stay single?
- Try to please his friends. Always be polite and respectful. You don't have to have a close relationship with them, but treat them with kindness.
- When she's mad at you, apologize, but if you have no idea what made her nervous, talk about it. It is the best way to solve problems and make peace.
Warnings
- Never do anything that could physically hurt her. If you play wrestling, do so only if he agrees. Never hit it.
- The worst thing you can do is lose control, especially in front of her. Tell her how you feel, then try to act like a friend. This advice may be more useful to you than you think.
- Never flirt with other girls, especially her friends.
- Don't joke about other girls or how charming they can be. He wouldn't find it funny. She is the most beautiful in the world, no one else is at her level, remember that!
- If she likes to talk to other guys, don't be jealous, give her space, otherwise you will look like a possessive and oppressive guy. You too can chat with other girls; just remember who your heart belongs to.
