If you always find yourself dealing with bullies trying to beat you, you may be able to get rid of them using these strategies. These techniques can help you avoid them.
Steps
Step 1. Don't draw attention to yourself (eg
trying to look "cool", or doing weird things), this will give even more satisfaction to the bullies who will try to destroy you.
Step 2. Don't respond to attacks
This is certainly the worst thing you can do when dealing with bullies. This will create repercussions, and that's the last thing you want.
Step 3. Don't talk to them
Leave them alone. Talking to them would only give them a chance to be cruel or disrespect you.
Step 4. Don't react to the bully's taunts
If he or she gives you names or makes fun of you, don't ignore him or her but answer with a smile and walk away. You need to make sure you don't let any annoyed reactions show through, or the bully will take advantage of it.
Step 5. Keep in mind that if the bully has a group of friends following him / her, they are likely to be friends unintentionally
Try to talk to them when they are alone, listen to them and be genuinely interested in what they say. After all, the more people you have on your side, the better.
Step 6. Don't give them the attention they are clearly looking for
Bullies want attention and are jealous, angry, obnoxious, and possibly insecure. You have to understand that many, many people in this world think that the only reason bullies act "that way" is because they are insecure. This may be true, but it may also "not" be. Either way, remember that what they want is to get attention. Don't "tell" a bully that he is insecure, follow the steps outlined here and don't give them the attention they seek.
Step 7. Destroy them with kindness
This means "answering them" with something nice, rather than insulting them. For example, if they are teasing you about your hair, which is probably the least they can do, tell them that you like their hair too. others, but never be cynical. You would get into trouble and remember that this can easily backfire on them, no matter how hard they do it without suffering the consequences.
Step 8. Don't be afraid of bullies
One of the reasons you might want to not meet them is, yes, because they are bullies, but also because you are scared of them. You have to understand that they "are" human beings and there is no reason to be afraid of them, even if they are violent. If you are still afraid, "don't" let them know.
Advice
- Try to stop them by using kindness. Bullies will be confused and probably won't know how to respond.
- Run as fast as possible to a crowded place.
