Do you want to be mysterious and silent? Then read the following.
It's a great way to avoid long and boring conversations, and it makes you feel better to know that you practice your emotions by learning to keep them to yourself… And try to make friends who are like you, as chances are you'll be better off together. Definitely better than noisy and noisy people.
Steps
Step 1. Try to shorten the things you say
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Never say anything more than you mean. (Example: Right "What are you doing after school?", "Nothing." Wrong, "What are you doing after school?", "I'll go home, read a book, have dinner and maybe shop.") Keep details at minimum.
Step 2. Always smile slightly or with your mouth closed, it makes you appear more mysterious, as if you know something that others don't know
Step 3. Don't lose your temper, as you may appear deranged and people would think you have trouble managing anger, which (hopefully) you don't want to think about you
Staying calm when someone makes you angry gives you a nice advantage, and it also makes you appear more mysterious as you keep your emotions in check.
Step 4. Sit in the park or near the trees and write in a notebook, draw or read
You can draw what you hear, write in your journal, read a book, listen to music, or just look around. In short, doing whatever makes others think that you are a silent and mysterious person, as if you were satisfied with yourself and did not need others to go on living.
Step 5. Try not to laugh, as laughing will make you appear more outgoing; if you have to laugh, choose a chuckle or a giggle
Step 6. Be serious
Do your homework, get to work on time, etc. Taking a serious approach to your business is always good.
Step 7. Be sweet
If someone approaches you and starts a conversation, be polite, smile and answer questions (with minimal detail!). If they ask you questions that make you uncomfortable, don't answer. Please tell him you don't want to answer him
Step 8. If you are a girl, wear only the bare essentials
Eyeliner, dark eyeshadow, maybe a little bit of lip gloss, even shiny… but not too much
Step 9. If you have pimples, foundation can help
.. or try some face creams.
Step 10. If someone says "Hi" to you, sometimes it's best to just respond with a quick smile
If you think this is rude, you can answer "hello" but in a subdued tone.
Step 11. If you are in the car or on the sofa, sit on the outdoor seats
Sitting in the center would give the impression that you want to have people nearby to chat with.
Step 12. Decide which part of your personality you always want to show, and which part you want to get just a hint of
For example, everyone may know that you don't like to read, but you can only let people know on certain, rare occasions that you are scared of public speaking.
Step 13. Be silent
.. don't always talk. This shows others that you know when it's time to talk, and when it does, you always have something important to say. But don't stop talking altogether either.
Step 14. In your free time, choose to read or draw
Don't go skipping rope or playing soccer or anything like that. If you go swimming or ice skating, just float or hang around. Canoeing or skateboarding are not the best ways to make others think you are mysterious.
Step 15. Don't watch TV too much
You can do this when you are alone. Watching TV may seem like a harmless thing, but if someone catches you watching Disney shows, then they'll think yours is all a hoax, as it really is. But you don't want them to find you !!
Step 16. Wear colors like dark purple, black, dark red, forest green, or colors with dark shades
Add feminine elements to your look such as long vintage necklaces, black and purple pearl earrings. Wear shorter skirts with fishnet stockings and colorful shorts. It's a really cool look.
Step 17. Don't talk much about your opinions and feelings, except perhaps with close friends or family
Try not to show expressions on your face. If your emotions are not obvious, you will seem more mysterious.
Advice
- Don't be a snob. If someone talks to you when you intended to talk to others, keep the conversation short and courteous.
- Don't appear desperate and pathetic in front of others. And if there's someone you dislike or can't stand, don't let them know.
- Keep yourself clean and healthy, necessary conditions if you want to appear mysterious. Others would think you have problems if you are dirty or not very healthy.
- It's good to have friends, otherwise others would think you're a goth or emo.
Warnings
- Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable or dislikes.
- Don't hang around and be careful in class.
- Others may think they don't like you, giving up on you and ignoring you. If you want to keep your friendships, don't act that long. Being lonely isn't cool, although it can be fun.
- Still try to be yourself.
- Being too mysterious could lead others - especially your parents - to think that you are harboring something bad. Keep a low profile and don't overdo it.
- Your friends may think something is wrong.
- They could categorize you as a moody girl.