A girl is a precious gift that shouldn't be underestimated. If you agree too, you can prove it by using the simple steps below to treat her like a princess.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Show Respect and Kindness
Step 1. Respect her and be kind
Your girlfriend must feel special. Always speak kindly to her, listen to what she says, and respect her as an individual.
- Your girlfriend must be more than just an object of desire: even if you are intimate, sometimes you need to be able to hold back.
- Greet her with respect. When she enters the room, stand up and kiss her hand. If you are feeling truly royal, however, you might as well just nod and bow in front of her.
Step 2. Touch it softly and gently
Hold her hand as you walk. Give her a tender kiss on the back of her hand, if passion permits. Comfort her by hugging her gently from behind.
When you have to touch it, do it gently. Be kind and loving to her
Step 3. Respect his wishes and try to make them come true
Step 4. Be courteous and considerate
Never be rude, make a commitment not to get angry and not to be hard on her. Never insult or offend her, especially when you argue: it is a very common mistake that will backfire and haunt you for a long time. It could even lead to the end of your relationship.
Try to be considerate in the way you spend time together as well. For example, if she watches action movies with you because she knows you like that genre, consider picking a romantic comedy she might like
Step 5. Be proud of her and show it
When you're in public arm in arm with her, introduce her as the person you're lucky to be with, because you actually are!
Part 2 of 3: Be Generous and Adventurous
Step 1. Give her a gift
It can be a large or small gift, with no reason or with a precise meaning. If you like your girlfriend and want to treat her properly, show her that you care with a little symbol. Flowers, jewelry and other small gifts are always appreciated.
Never forget the little things like buying her favorite candy, flowers, or any other cute gesture to do for the simple reason that you love her
Step 2. Surprise her every now and then with breakfast in bed, or simply with a special breakfast that you know is her favorite
Bring her lunch and coffee to work: it's always a welcome surprise. If your schedule doesn't allow you to do this, make her a nice lunch and attach a card full of affection and her face will break into a big smile.
Step 3. Take her out if you can afford it
Spend a fair amount of money on her: she will appreciate all the attention, time and money you put into this relationship and, more importantly, she will be happy to be with you.
- It doesn't always have to be a luxury date. Simply picking her up from the office to take her out for lunch can be a sweet surprise.
- You could even throw a surprise picnic by putting all of her favorite foods together. Make sure you choose a spot with a fantastic view.
Step 4. Give her a massage
Massages are great! Behind, on the back or on the feet, you will show her all your intention to make her feel ecstatic. It doesn't matter if you don't know what you're doing: as long as you don't hurt her, she'll tell you what to improve and will greatly appreciate your attempts.
Step 5. Take her somewhere
Plan an outing for the two of you from time to time - you might consider going out a couple of times a year, or even more, depending on how spectacular you make it. Plan a weekend getaway or thrill your girlfriend with an adventure somewhere far away, like a foreign country you know she really wants to visit. Book a hotel, airline tickets, and talk to your employer to give you time to come.
Part 3 of 3: Communicate well
Step 1. Listen to her when she speaks
If your girlfriend needs to let off steam, be there to hear her out. Ask her how she feels and show her that you care by taking her opinions and ideas seriously.
Show her she has your full attention
Step 2. Remind her often that you love or like her and that you are happy to be with her
Step 3. Compliment her
This will show her that you have a genuine interest in her and that you are an attentive person.
Step 4. Reassure her that she is the only one
Tell her that she alone possesses your heart, in addition to the religious doctrine you adhere to.
Advice
- Flash news: people are different. Respect these differences by paying attention to what she says is important to her, even if she doesn't use words like "it's important to me". If he's talking to you about something, it means he cares about it, and if you listen to it carefully, he'll tell you exactly how to love it right.
- Accept it for what it is. The world is full of people trying to change those around them into the ideal version of the perfect friend or partner. Stand out from them.
- Accept your mistakes when she tells you that you misunderstood her, even if she does it with "wrong" words. Remember: you are on the same side and not on a battlefield.
- In addition to gifts, girls love to be told that they are special and that they are told nice things. Anything is fine, but make sure you give her compliments that go beyond her good looks. You need to let her know why she is the girl you are with and what makes her so special and unique.
- Kiss her once in a while when it's appropriate - a few light displays of physical affection can be reassuring.
- Put it first, but remember that sometimes you have other duties to perform as well. Likewise, respect the fact that she may have other things to focus on besides your relationship.
