If video games are a big part of your life, but your virtual friends aren't enough, maybe it's time to consider real life! If you are looking for a girl who loves video games, read this manual for tips and tricks.
Steps
Step 1. Find someone who is worth spending your free time with
If you have already found it, go directly to step 5.
Step 2. Start looking around at school, workplace, etc
If you are looking for a girl in a place you hang out with, you will have more things in common to talk about.
Step 3. Go to video game stores, as both customers and salespersons may be candidates
Also go to conventions or video game events.
Step 4. Observe her when she does normal things
Observe her when she reads, who her friends are, what she talks about. The secret is to not let her know that you care, because she might think you are a stalker. Also, don't get too much information about her, as she'll come in handy later.
Step 5. Start a conversation with her about what she is doing
Act like you know what he's talking about, even if you don't, and try to join in the conversation.
Step 6. Don't be afraid of her, be sure of yourself
Keep the conversation short and avoid embarrassment.
Step 7. Say hello the next time you see her
If she seems happy to see you, talk to her again. If she gives a shy smile but you're not sure if she's interested or not, talk to her anyway. Maybe she still doesn't understand how she feels about you, and talking to her might help her understand her feelings better.
Step 8. Joke around and make jokes, and don't be afraid to talk about video games
If you want to make her understand that you like video games talk about it every now and then.
Step 9. Ask them to do something together
Don't suggest that she play video games unless you are sure she likes them.
Step 10. Make sure you keep the conversation going
Ask her a lot of questions about her and if she likes you she will ask you questions too.
Step 11. If you like video games play with her and don't be afraid to win
Make her win every now and then so that she feels comfortable with you.
Step 12. If you think she is still interested, ask her again to do something together
Avoid romantic attitudes until you become friends. Start with some romantic attitude. If she's not bothered, try hugging her.
Step 13. Ask her to go out with you
This might be difficult, but if you've spent time together before, maybe she really cares about you. Invite her to dinner and to the movies, and have her choose the movie.
Step 14. If the appointment goes well, let your instincts guide you regarding the next "physical" move
Don't rush and make sure it fits her.
Step 15. Ask her what she thinks of your relationship
If he's happy then you're okay (but remember that doesn't mean he wants to marry you, he might just think you're a good guy). The next step is to ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend.
Step 16. Don't ask him immediately, but find a quiet, romantic place to increase the chances of a positive response from him
Advice
- Girls who have siblings are more likely to be exposed to video games (but at the same time they may hate video games because of the siblings).
- Don't obsess. It is the wrong way to have a girlfriend, in fact often the opposite effect is obtained.
- Don't forget your friends, you knew them before and you certainly don't want to lose them just to have a girlfriend. (But at the same time, if you neglect your girlfriend to hang out with friends or play video games, she'll get very angry.)
- Take it easy and show her that you care about her and want her to be your girlfriend.
- Talk to her about the things she likes. Let her know that she can handle the conversation is a good thing.
- Don't be afraid if you don't like video games. Sometimes girls don't care if boys play video games.
- Many girls play video games, especially the new generations. Many of them are beautiful and have great personalities.
- If you don't like video games, try playing less. This will show her that you care more about her than about video games.
- If you haven't figured out if she's interested in video games or not, keep talking to her until you find out (although shy girls are hard to understand).
Warnings
- If she is not interested it will be very hard if not impossible to convince her.
- Girls are complicated - be prepared for unexpected situations!
- Finding a girl isn't easy and it's not pure science.
- If she is unable to play video games, don't tell her to her face that you are better, unless you are in confidence. Do not even think about it! Wait to get to know her well and make sure she doesn't get offended. If you want to make her win, at least try to fight, don't do it in the obvious way!
- If she doesn't like video games, don't force her to play.
