Exciting women is an art that requires the perfect balance between being resourceful and being shy. You need to know how to touch a woman's body and understand what she wants - and when she wants it. Read on to know all the secrets!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Create the Right Mood
Step 1. Create a sexy vibe
If you can create the right environment, your girlfriend will be aroused before you even give her the first kiss. Make sure the lighting, smells and sounds in your alcove are the right ones for a romantic evening:
- Dim the lights or light a few candles. Make sure you see each other!
- For a pleasant smelling home, open the windows during the day to change the air, place potpourri around and light some incense and scented candles.
- Music must also be sensual. Jazz and R&B are ideal. Do not turn the volume up too much, the CD must be in the background.
Step 2. Your home will need to be stocked to create the right mood
What can never be missing:
- Something to drink: white or red wine or other drinks of your liking. Whether you invite her to dinner or a glass of wine, always have a few bottles available.
- Something to eat, especially sexy snacks, like grapes, strawberries, and chocolate. Pair the wine with crackers and cheese. Avoid fatty, fried, or stomach-bloating foods.
- A clean towel and new soap for the girl.
Step 3. Don't live in a dump
Here is a perfect apartment for getting a girl:
- Keep it clean. Do the washing frequently, clean all surfaces and wash the bathroom well. The girl will need to feel comfortable to prepare for the action.
- Your house won't have to be worth a million euros to turn on a girl but have some fashion touches, like a wooden table, a leather sofa, nice paintings and a good sound system. You will let her know that you like being indoors. Remove photos of your exes.
- But the sexiest corner will have to be that of the bed. Change the sheets, buy lots of pillows and clean the bedside tables. Hide embarrassing photos.
Method 2 of 3: Make Her Feel Really Special
Step 1. Make her comfortable
Once you have created the right atmosphere, make your hers feel at home. If she is relaxed, everything will be more pleasant:
- When she arrives, hang up her coat and ask her if she feels like taking off her shoes.
- Offer her a drink, but don't force her. If she drinks, do it too so as not to make her uncomfortable.
- Give her a few compliments - she'll feel good if she's aware of how much you like her. Appreciate her looks, the time you are spending together or her laugh.
Step 2. When she's relaxed, approach her, don't be shy
Touch it subtly:
- Sit next to her, bring your legs close to hers and hug her. If she's okay, start playing with her hair.
- If she's wearing drop earrings, gently touch one and tell her you like them as your fingers brush her earlobes.
- Grab his hand and stroke it.
- Give her a sexy massage on her shoulders, neck, arms and legs to get her excited and melting.
Step 3. Kiss her passionately when the right time comes:
- At first, kiss her softly, without using your tongue. Brush his lips with yours and then slowly introduce your tongue.
- Leave her full of desire by taking breaks, stroking her hair and kissing her neck and shoulders. If she looks bored or exhausted after a while, don't kiss her for too long.
- Start touching her body. Run your hands along your breasts, waist and thighs. Make sure he feels comfortable.
Step 4. Undress a little at a time to increase his desire and then start taking off his clothes:
- Take off his shirt first. Gently put your hands under the shirt and take it off. If he's wearing a shirt, unbutton it slowly.
- Then, take off your shirt. Don't undress completely right away, or you could make her feel weird - she'll think you're too aggressive. Proceed gradually.
- With the shirts off, continue kissing and, after a while, she undoes her bra. If you can't, joke that you haven't done it in a long time. He'll find your "inexperienced" side cute.
- Touch her gently through her underwear so she will want to take off her skirt or pants. Help her.
- Take off your pants or wait for her to do it. Now that you're both in your underwear, get ready for sex.
Method 3 of 3: Getting Around the Right Way in Bed
Step 1. Make sure she wants to have sex
While you may want to get right to the point once you're both in your underwear, it's important to be sure what the next step is so that there are no embarrassments and misunderstandings. Here's how to handle the situation:
- Ask her "Are you ready?" or "Do you want to do it?". Express your intention to go further.
- If he says yes, have the condom ready. Put it naturally and as efficiently as possible so as not to dampen the enthusiasm.
Step 2. Keep getting her horny
Men are often ready before women, and even if the foreplay has been long, he lingers a little longer on her body before having sex:
- Caress and kiss her body: neck, arms, breasts, belly and inner thigh.
- Tell her you like it. Whisper a few words to her about how sexy her body is or how much you love a certain part of her.
- Gently touch the genital area and then accelerate the speed. When she's ready for penetration, go ahead.
Step 3. Find the right position for both of you and change if you like
- Start by being in a dominant position and ask her how she would like to do it. In the beginning you won't have to experiment because you are still knowing each other.
- Find out if she prefers to do it gently or aggressively. Try it both ways and see how it reacts.
- Try dirty talk - it's not for everyone, but you might like it. Tell her what you are doing to her and what you would like to do to her and appreciate her body. If it doesn't reciprocate, it's best to avoid it.
Step 4. Before reaching orgasm, make sure she is close to us too
- Remember that many women do not orgasm through sex, so stimulate the clitoris to allow her to get there.
- When you're done, don't go to the bathroom right away. Stay in bed to pet her and tell her she was great.
- Don't feel disappointed. If she doesn't orgasm or yours occurs soon, don't be discouraged. It happens more often than you think. Calmly and with time you will show her your skills.
Step 5. Leave her eager and stimulate her so that you can repeat the experience, right after or at another time:
- Ask her if she wants to take a shower with you. Kiss her softly under the flow of water.
- Don't be reserved after sex. Give them space but also be attentive and nice, do not change your attitude.
- Tell her you enjoyed yourself and would like to see her again. When she leaves, walk her to the door and help her put on her jacket. Maybe take her home by car or call a taxi and kiss her.
- Don't give the impression that you are anxious. Tell her that you have been fine and that you will call her back soon.
- Encourage her to think of you. Text her every now and then so she can't wait to see you again.
Advice
- If you have orgasm immediately, don't feel terribly embarrassed. Apologize. If you don't suffer from problems like premature ejaculation, it surely happened to you because you were feeling nervous. Explain it and next time it will be better.
- Don't be selfish and think about his pleasure: you too will get some benefits. If she's fine, you will too.
Warnings
- Don't insist on having sex. She shouldn't regret her choice to sleep with you.
- Use condoms to prevent sexually transmitted diseases. Not wearing it will be dangerous for both of us.
