Let's see… you landed on this article for the same reason that brought many others here… you want the guy of your dreams to finally notice you. But how? Read these easy steps and they will guide you in the right direction.
Steps
Step 1. Be confident
Every guy wants a confident girl who loves herself. It's the first thing that catches any guy's attention. Especially when you don't show it but you know it. So remember: safety, security and safety. But if you're a shy girl, look for a shy guy, or try to be less shy and feel more relaxed and free.
Step 2. Be yourself
Even if you like someone who is almost completely different from you, always remember; you are what you really are. Not a snobbish goose who believes himself better than all the others. But a nice and beautiful girl everyone wants to talk to.
Step 3. Be ready to start conversations
Even before resorting to trendy clothes, start simple conversations with the guy you have a crush on.
Step 4. Make friends
Once he knows you're not afraid to talk to him, he'll definitely talk to you more often! So talk to him about random things that come to your mind, or maybe share friends and hang out together outdoors.
Step 5. Go shopping at a mall with your best friend or mother
You can try designer clothes or something sporty, but if your pockets don't allow you to try simpler places. They work just as well! Make sure you dress the way you like best and in clothes that truly represent who you are.
Step 6. Try out different hairstyles
One night, find out how you are without your usual pigtail or let your hair down! There are no special tips, but maybe you can curl or straighten your hair for a change, once in a while. Or you could try a French braid or a side braid. Whatever you like, you can try it! Nobody stops you.
Step 7. Aim for a unique scent
Everyone smells so use a deodorant every day before school. Especially if you are an athletic girl or have same day physical education. Try to brush your teeth several times a day or at least once a day. It will make your smile white and shiny. Maybe at lunch, at school, grab some peppermint gum or a candy if you've eaten tuna. It will help a lot If you have some perfume or scented body water, you can use some in the morning too! Guys like to smell girls, so enjoy it!
Step 8. Give him a nice smile
When you smile and he notices it, he will create a special bond / contact between the two of you.
Step 9. Show him your hidden talent
Enter a talent show. If you have a talent like singing, acting or playing an instrument then sign up for the next talent show you will be doing in school! But if you're too shy to perform in front of the whole school, then bring him up one day and invite him to your house to show him your secret talent in private.
Advice
- Make sure you are clean and tidy, because sometimes appearances matter!
- Trust yourself.
- Don't try too hard to get attention. If you do, the guy might think you're desperate.
- Make friends with him. He won't like you if he doesn't know you exist!
- Don't try to flirt with him if you don't even know him. He may be uncomfortable, or worse hate you!
- Let him loose, don't be angry if he flirts with other girls, because if you are not together you are not entitled to take it for these things.
- Most important tip of all: the sea is full of fish (so to speak) and there is a good chance that the one who loves you as you are will arrive and you will be very happy with it.
- Always make sure you let him know you like him.
