Making friends with a popular girl will likely help you become popular as well.
Steps
Part 1 of 5: Joining his Circle of Friendships
Step 1. Become friends with people who are close to you
This way, when you try to approach her, she will already know who you are and will feel more comfortable in your company. Plus, those girls might invite you to a sleepover that will also be attended by the popular girl you want to befriend - that would be a great way to bond with her. Try dating one of her more shy friends.
Identify the prettiest and cutest of popular girls, but make sure she isn't the leader. The leader is usually not easily approachable unless you are friends with someone else in her clique. You should befriend a popular beautiful girl, but be careful not to use her to achieve better social standing
Step 2. Treat your potential new friend as a person, not a status
Stop thinking of this girl as a popular girl - if you are going to be friends, you don't have to use her. Try to think of her as someone you've heard of and want to be friends with!
Step 3. Don't overdo it
If one day you're completely indifferent and the next you're super clingy, she'll get scared. It is important to be available but not obsessive and to remain yourself.
Don't get desperately attached to popular new girls. Start hanging out with them once a day, then during a break, then during both breaks, then to the lockers. Who goes Slow and steady wins
Step 4. Notice what popular girls are wearing
Are purple blouses "in"? Or do they all wear drop earrings? Try to identify their style, without completely changing yours. If you are good with fashion, try not to follow trends, but to be a trendsetter yourself based on the style you have noticed in the most popular girls.
Part 2 of 5: Being a Positive Person
Step 1. Try to be a carefree girl
This means always having a positive attitude even when things are not going the right way. Everyone likes to be in the company of someone who brightens their day.
Step 2. Smile often
People who have a strong personality do this.
Step 3. Be as witty as she is
It is important to have a good sense of humor.
Step 4. Avoid gossip
Nobody likes people who listen to their secrets and then blurt them out to the rooftops.
Step 5. Make gifts
If you are on vacation, bring the most popular girls souvenirs, such as a keychain or bracelet.
Part 3 of 5: Get yourself noticed
Step 1. Take care of your physical appearance
See how she and her friends dress. Try to imitate their style by adding something of your own that personalizes it. If the clothes she's wearing are too expensive for you to afford, look for clothes that look just as good. For example, you might just buy a couple of good quality clothes instead of several, buy at sales and vintage stores. The important thing is that you always pay attention to how you dress. The clothing you wear may help you get more noticed by her.
Step 2. Start dating the popular girl more often
Compliment her on the way she dresses and do her little favors, like lending her a pencil. Then try to involve her more. Offer to be her lab partner if she has no friends taking that class, or have her play games you play with your friends. Afterwards, start walking beside her as you stroll through the corridors, talk to her, and maybe even text each other. If you are kind and funny and can make her like you, you shouldn't have a problem becoming friends with her.
Step 3. Talk about topics that she likes, but also about others that you like
He will be more interested in what you have to say.
Step 4. Compliment her
But don't lie - don't say anything you don't really think. If you like her hairstyle, tell her: "I love your hairstyle!" Or "You have beautiful hair". Try to be creative. Come up with your own style for complimenting - everyone likes to receive them. Don't overdo it, though, or you won't get the results you want. Give her some compliments here and there; she will appreciate it very much.
Step 5. Talk to her often
If you're shy, you should get out of your shell and try to strike up a conversation. Say hello to her when you see her passing through the corridors. Be very nice to her, for example helping her with her homework, offering her a drink, inviting her to go shopping with you, etc. It will certainly please you. The more you talk to her, the stronger your friendship will grow!
Part 4 of 5: Doing Something Together
Step 1. Break the ice by inviting her to a sleepover
Just invite her so you can bond. Try to make the evening fun, not boring. Do each other's nails, watch a funny movie, bake some cookies and do your makeup again. You have to make her understand that you could become a good friend.
Step 2. Act like you are her friend
Sit next to her in the canteen, talk to her and be nice. She will understand that you consider yourself her friend and will begin to treat you as one.
Step 3. Go to parties, sleepovers, and other social events that she will invite you to
Try throwing parties yourself. Try to always be there for her and support her.
Part 5 of 5: Overcoming the Obstacles
Step 1. If she is friends with people who don't like you or who you don't like, what does it matter?
Don't be discouraged; you can still become friends with her without necessarily being friends with all the others. The important thing is to make friends with her and with those of her friends that you like. Also, if you even manage to become her best friend, you will be able to “take her away” from the meanest friends and soon she will start to prefer you to them!
Step 2. Stay calm
Don't freak out if you feel nervous. It will take some time for you to feel more confident in his presence. In addition, some psychological studies suggest that looking at a person and smiling at them immediately afterwards can almost always impress them.
Step 3. Avoid being sticky
Don't follow it everywhere; it is out of place. Give her her space. If she wants to go out with her friends and not you, let it happen and come back later. Avoid giving the impression of being in need of affection and constantly bothering her.
Advice
- Don't follow her like a little dog wherever she goes. She would find you an annoying person and you would never be able to make friends with her.
- Tell her things about yourself, but don't tell her your secrets right away; try to get to know her better first, because she might end up telling everyone your business.
- Don't pretend or lie to enter into his good graces. That wouldn't be a true friendship.
- Be yourself. But if she behaves badly with you, stop wasting your time which is certainly worth more than her.
- If she makes fun of you when you try to talk to her, it's not worth being her friend. You can definitely find better. Try making friends with another popular girl - perhaps one of her friends.
- Don't abandon your other friends for her, nor should you leave them out.
- Show that you trust her and she will learn to trust you. Don't be afraid to open up to her as she will start to feel more comfortable around you.
- Be yourself!
- Try to get some information about her tastes from her friends, but don't be too pushy!
Warnings
- Don't try too hard - nobody likes fake people. Don't persecute her! You don't have to stick to her all the time. If you find yourself doing this, stop now!
- Don't be sticky; you would get nothing but be able to irritate her and she won't want to have anything to do with you anymore. Sometimes people can take advantage of others without them noticing. Be careful not to fall into this kind of trap.
- Don't let them know you're trying to get their attention. Stay calm and clear, but still follow the advice in this article.
- If this popular girl acts like a cruel and mean person, don't try to be friends with her. Try to make friends with a good girl that you are comfortable with. It is better to have nice and positive people as friends rather than a popular and treacherous girl.
- Don't neglect old friendships.
- Don't wait for her to invite you to her party or it will take forever! Invite her to your home, just to start.
