Friends are like stars: they come and go, but those who remain are those who SHINE. Friendship is a great thing. But it can also be difficult … especially if your friend (or your friend: for convenience, we will always speak in the masculine) is ready to quit and you are not. People change like the seasons!
Steps
Step 1. Evaluate your friendship. Is this person really your friend?
Is there always for you in difficult times? Have you ever had a fight before? Does he know how to meet you? Does it value your friendship? DO YOU value your friendship?
Step 2. Sometimes people change
Sometimes it is YOU who change. Life takes people in different directions, and sometimes others are not what they seem. Has this person changed? Have you changed? If so, maybe there is something wrong.
Step 3. Does your friend talk to you often?
Does he text or call you often? If he hasn't made any effort to date you or to be friends, then maybe he doesn't want to be friends with you, or he doesn't like you.
Step 4. Don't take it badly
Don't worry about what others think! Be yourself! If your friend doesn't like you who you are, then he's not a true friend. In your life you WILL FIND people who accept you for who you are.
Step 5. Accept it
Everything happens for a reason. Some people come into your life as a blessing, others as a lesson. If you're always thinking "Why don't my friends like me?", "What did I do wrong?", "Will I have more friends?", Then stop. Don't get down. When one door closes, another opens. Face life with a positive attitude, and forget and forgive the past. GO AHEAD! NO ONE will always be there for you, except yourself.
Step 6. Embrace the new possibilities
Find new friends, and don't neglect others. Go into the future with a smile and a positive attitude.
Advice
- DON'T be seen desperate and clingy but show that you still want his friendship and try to improve it.
- Be yourself. ALWAYS. There is no one like you, and if you are yourself and confident, people will LOVE you!
- Don't go down to its level. Ignore the backbiting, forget the backstabbing. If others try to put you down, it just means that you are MUCH superior to them.
- Don't let rust remain between you and your friend. Accept that both of you have moved on. Don't try to make things work when they have run out.
- EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
Warnings
- If you have doubts about a friend, maybe it's time to let them go. Give others opportunities, but if that means hurting YOUR happiness, then things have to change.
- Don't get depressed or saddened. Instead, do something. Be grateful for the life you have been given and welcome each day as a new opportunity. YOU WILL OVERCE it, and so will your friend.
