Have you ever seen, at the beach or at the mall, a guy who is really cute? It happened to everyone! Here are some useful steps to get yourself noticed by a complete stranger!
Steps
Step 1. Check it out every now and then:
you might catch him looking at you too.
Step 2. If you meet his gaze, smile and say "hi"
He should return the greeting with a smile or a "hello", or both!
Step 3. Keep shopping, but don't stop glancing at him
If you meet his eyes again, just chuckle and look away - it may serve as a signal to him that you are interested.
Step 4. Now you can talk to him; if he doesn't do it first, go to him
Step 5. Start a conversation
Start with something like "Oh, that shirt would look great on you! You should get it!", If he's holding a shirt or something. From here, continue the conversation!
Step 6. When you have the feeling that the conversation may end (but leave him wanting to continue), tell him that you enjoyed talking to him and that you would be happy to see him again:
this should let him know that you are interested, and he will probably ask you for your phone number; if not, ask him yourself (unless his body language says he's not interested).
Step 7. If you want him to approach you, walk over to him and give your hair a pat, but please make it look natural
No guy wants a fake goose. If you feel like she's looking at you when you stop, smile a little and give yourself a chuckle, as if something funny has occurred to you. (but don't watch it while you do it): it will be an inviting and nice thing. Glance at him, smile and shyly look away. Bite your lip once (practice in front of the mirror!). It should come to you in no time!
Advice
- As you speak, be yourself.
- When you talk to him, make sure you are friendly, don't laugh too hard, be confident (but demure), bite your lip once (if you haven't already), play with your hair, and stand up straight. He might hate girls who are hunched over; Besides, it gives you a more confident air and is much more attractive!
- Don't glance too often - you may seem obsessed.
- Make sure you read his body language - if he doesn't seem interested, end the conversation.
- While he's looking at you, smile and bite your lip, then look away.
- As you speak, you look like you're interested… you better be.
- Before you approach, fix yourself: check your hair, make-up, clothes, etc.
- You smile! It always makes you look warm and friendly.
- Don't be afraid and take a deep breath before approaching. After all, he might be the one - don't miss your chance!
- If you happen to smell bad and find yourself in a clothing store or something similar, sprinkle some of their perfume, but first make sure it's good.
- Go with the flow - let your natural feelings emerge.
- Be as fun as you can. Everyone likes funny people. If you're hanging out in a store, do something wacky to make him laugh.
- If he happens to leave the store before you make your move, follow him. But be discreet - you don't want to make him think you're a harasser!
Warnings
- Don't lie about nothing: You could develop a relationship and, by the time he finds out, a lie could ruin everything.
- Make sure he's not with any girls!
- Don't put your finger in your mouth: While many guys think it's sexy, others may feel like they're biting your nails, which is a bad habit (and it is), and you'll never know what he might think!
- If you find yourself at the mall and go talk to him, don't leave your bags unattended (coincidentally, I know, but it could happen).
- If he ignores you, pretend nothing has happened. And don't worry - it probably wasn't worth it anyway!
