Sending a provocative text message can be difficult. The only way to write messages that sound exactly as they should is to keep trying.
Steps
Step 1. Don't be afraid to take the first step (both men and women)
Taking the initiative will show the other person your genuine interest in him. It also indicates courage, which can be quite sexy!;)
Step 2. Talk to the other person normally before flirting (both)
This shows that you are not only interested in a one night stand, but that you intend to hang out with that person. You can ask personal questions to get to know her better, but don't be too pushy! Ask things like "Do you have pets?". A similar question will then give you the option to say "I'd like to see your pets!" paving the way for a possible appointment!
Step 3. Start flirting (both)
Either one can do it, no matter who. Start by inserting simple winks at the end of the message. You can also make some hints. If the other person does not respond by flirting, they are probably not interested, so you should stop immediately!
Step 4. Guys, when you flirt with a girl, give her lots of compliments
Tell her she has a nice shirt, necklace, nice shoes, or whatever. Be descriptive. If you say "That skirt looked good on you", that's nice, but it's not enough. I once received a text message saying “Today you looked gorgeous in that tight skirt, your legs looked so long and sexy;) You look gorgeous!”. Compliment her on her eyes one day she is not wearing makeup. This will increase her self-esteem, and will lead her to see you less and less as "just a friend".
Step 5. Girls, don't forget that guys like compliments too
Tell them they were nice, or compliment them on how well they played in the last game. Be creative, but don't lie. Tell them they are great, attractive, sweet and fun, and I am sure they will reciprocate.
Step 6. At some point, tell him / her that you have to go
Leave the other person pending. Make sure you don't stop responding suddenly, as it could be perceived as disinterest. But tell him "I'd like to keep writing to you, honey, but I have to escape." The person may get a little jealous, and you will have him or her in hand.
Advice
- Use symbols. Smiles:) winks;) and hearts <3 are all useful for getting your message across.
- Watch out for grammar. Many think that the use of SMS jargon is a symptom of laziness. Show who you are writing to that you care enough about him / her to pay attention to grammar.
- Be polite and respect each other's boundaries.
Warnings
- Don't write vulgar things like "Talk to you later: I have to piss."
- Don't write to him all the time… it's creepy.
- Don't submit photos you don't want the whole school to see.
- Being provocative can lead to phone / texting sex, so make sure you set boundaries that you don't want to cross.
