A sexy striptease is a beautiful surprise for your partner, or an exciting way to reveal your body to someone for the first time. While sexy clothing and suitable lighting will help you, the key is to have confidence in yourself and do what you like. Acting funny at first is not a problem if it helps you feel comfortable, but stay focused and your "audience" will be more and more excited by your show.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Take Off Your Clothes (Woman)
Step 1. Prepare in advance (optional)
You can use these tips whenever you take off your clothes, no matter what you're wearing and how hard you want to push yourself. If you want to do a special striptease for your sexual partner though, choose your outfits and venue in advance. Wear lace or semi-sheer underwear, stockings with garters, and a couple of layers of sexy, easy-to-take-off clothing. Try putting a chair where your partner can sit, and one for you.
Putting on some music can help you find the right rhythm, especially if you are feeling worried or embarrassed
Step 2. Take off a long jacket or trench coat
To do this in the most provocative way, stand directly in front of your partner, with your legs apart, and your weight slightly more on one foot. Look him in the eye as you unbutton.
Step 3. Walk playfully for a few minutes
Don't be in a hurry to show yourself naked; the waiting part of a striptease adds to the excitement. Tell your partner to stay seated in the chair and walk around him showing your body from the front, back and hips. Pull the shoulders of your bra or the buttons of your shirt, as if you are about to take them off at any moment. Take creative sexy poses, or include the following:
- If you're wearing a low-cut top, lean forward in front of your partner.
- With your back to your partner, lean forward on the chair or bed.
- Touch your partner's groin briefly, then pull back.
- Sit in a chair and slowly spread your legs as you smile sexy at your partner.
- Touch and caress the breasts, private parts or body parts that your partner finds sexy.
Step 4. Seductively take off a sweatshirt or shirt
You can keep your legs crossed in a feminine pose, or take a firmer stance with your legs spread seductively and the weight slightly to one side. Cross your arms across your chest and pull your belly in as you raise your hands above your head.
If you have long hair, shake your head and let your hair move
Step 5. Provoke your partner if you have a buttoned shirt
Button shirts are perfect for striptease, since you can turn any button into a mini show. Try leaving a couple of buttons at the top and bottom undone to make the outfit sexier. Unbutton slowly, one at a time, as you continue to move and pose. Once the shirt is completely unbuttoned, slide it off your shoulders, turn around, and drop it to the floor.
- Unbutton the cuffs first, or unbutton them before starting the striptease.
- You can make this phase sexier by using just one hand, keeping the other on your hip. Practice in advance if you want to try.
Step 6. Remove a negligee
Keep teasing your partner between garments or ask "are you ready for the rest?" a few times before continuing. Pull the straps of your negligee or similar loose garment down over your shoulder and let it drop or slide to the floor.
Step 7. Remove the skirt
A zip skirt is ideal for beginners, since you can take it off easily and unexpectedly in almost any pose. A short, tight skirt is another good option, and you can turn it up to reveal your bottom before taking it off.
Step 8. Learn how to remove jeans in a sexy way
You may want to practice this step beforehand, since tight jeans aren't very sexy when they fall out and trap your legs. Try kneeling, then pushing the jeans up to your knees as you lean your butt towards your partner. Sit down to take off your jeans completely.
Step 9. Play with your socks
You may want to keep stockings, especially if you have a sexy garter. Even a simple pair of nylons can be a great striptease piece. Put your leg on a chair and slowly unroll them, then blow them off like a sling, or pretend to tie your wrists. These techniques are very beautiful to look at and allow you to ease the tension with a little humor.
- If you can walk gracefully in heels, you can keep them together with your socks.
- Try wearing a pair of stockings that are one size larger, with a garter to hold them up. This will give you more freedom of movement during the striptease.
Step 10. Remove the bra
Pull the bra strap all the way through the striptease to get your partner aroused. When you're finally ready to take it off, turn your back to your partner, and unhook your bra. Drop it to the floor, then turn around to show your breasts.
Step 11. Take off your panties
If you have the option to prepare in advance, choose a pair of sexy lace panties or a thong, but don't choose a pair that is tight enough to leave marks. Try removing them when you are standing with your legs together, or lie on your back and make them reach your feet, where you can throw them away.
If you are wearing a sexy garter, wear your panties over it so you can hold it
Method 2 of 3: Take Off Your Clothes (Man)
Step 1. Set the mood
If you want to do things seriously, choose a dimly lit room, or use lamps and candles instead of a chandelier. If you want something more fun and carefree, keep the room brighter and put on some music.
Men have fewer clothing options than women. You can do a striptease in ordinary clothes, but if you want to try something unique, try to find manly items or costumes, such as cowboy or cop
Step 2. Dance only if you feel comfortable
If you know you can dance in a sexy way, you can show your partner your moves between one garment and another, or even while removing one. If you're not a dance floor wizard, though, just swing your hips from time to time, and turn around to give your partner a different point of view.
Step 3. Take off your shoes and socks
Men's shoes and socks aren't very sexy, so take them off before you start. Throw them where they cannot be seen.
Step 4. Pull off the tie
If you are wearing the tie, take it off and throw it away, or at your partner, quickly and aggressively. While you could opt for a slow and sensual striptease if you feel comfortable doing it, most men prefer an energetic and aggressive style.
Step 5. Grab a shirt or sweatshirt for the collar and pull it over your head
Quickly pull the shirt over your head, then toss it alongside your partner. Alternatively, you can take the shirt from its bottom hem, and do the same movement.
Step 6. Unbutton the buttoned shirts, but leave them on for now
If you're wearing a button-up shirt, unbutton it from top to bottom while looking your partner in the eye. Don't take it off until you've taken off your pants to have another piece to take off later, or keep it if your partner likes the look with the shirt on.
Step 7. Take off your pants
Remove your belt, then lift one leg at a time. Go slowly, to avoid getting your foot stuck, in a very unsexy way.
Don't try to take your pants off in a sexy way; due to the mysterious laws of the universe, this only works for women
Step 8. Let your partner take off your boxers
At this point, invite your partner to the next stage by asking her to take off your boxers and shirt if you still have it on. You could remove your underwear by yourself if it is tight.
You may even decide to go "all-in", not wearing underwear, to surprise your partner
Method 3 of 3: Remove Another Person's Clothes
Step 1. Ask for permission if the partner is new
If you haven't had sex with this person yet, don't assume that you can take off their clothes. Even if she is interested in having sex that night, she will feel more comfortable if she can decide at what pace to take off her clothes.
If stopping to ask a few minutes later seems too awkward, try holding on to a button, zip, or bra strap, and look at your partner with a raised eyebrow and a questioning look
Step 2. Slowly take off your partner's clothes
Nothing turns off the mood like getting a nudge from the partner who took off your shirt too quickly. When you take off a person's clothes, do it in a slow and sensual way. Whenever you lift your partner's head, kiss the newly exposed skin, or run your hands along her body.
Step 3. Pull off the belt
Grab both ends of the belt, then unfasten and pull it off in one motion. It is not a problem to have to roll a couple of times to get the desired effect. Try doing it from behind if you feel particularly skilled.
Step 4. Trap your partner's hands in a shirt
Pull the bottom hem of the shirt until it is partially over your partner's arms, but with the collar still on the neck. Playfully trap your partner in this position while you kiss or bite his skin, before removing the shirt completely.
Step 5. Pull a man's pants down without him noticing
Distract your partner by kissing him while you unbutton his pants and pull them down. Use your foot to remove them completely. If you distract him enough, he won't notice what you're doing until the pants drop to his feet.
This probably won't work with women's pants, which are more difficult to take off
Step 6. Remove a garment with your teeth
This often takes multiple tries, so it's best to try when you feel confident, or when you and your partner are in the mood for nonsense. With the right effort, you can take off your buttoned shirts too, but avoid getting hurt on the metal zips.
Step 7. Don't spend more than a few seconds on the bra
Men often have a reputation for not being able to take their bras off, although it's not hard to learn how. If you haven't figured out how to do it after a few seconds, stop and let her undo it.
Advice
- Try to ignore your insecurities. Your partner will be focused on how sexy you are and how hot the striptease is, not the embarrassment you can feel.
- Don't take yourself too seriously. If something doesn't go your way, laugh and go back to the performance.
- Dressing in clothes traditionally reserved for the opposite sex can be sexy, even if it's not your style. If you decide to try, remember that the shape of your body can alter the effects of some of the movements. If you have to show something you don't have, do it ironically and with a smile.
