You started a relationship with a special guy. Still, you're not sure how to get him to kiss you and the wait makes you sigh. Follow these tips to send him clues and let him know that you are dying to be kissed.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Creating the Right Atmosphere
Step 1. Brush your teeth and tongue thoroughly before meeting this guy
It won't hurt to floss thoroughly either. Nothing is worse than kissing someone who has bad breath or who has food residue stuck in their teeth.
Step 2. Try to be alone with him
Maybe your boyfriend wants to kiss you, but he feels nervous about doing it in front of other people. Perhaps the only encouragement he needs is to be alone with you. If you are with a group of friends or at a party, make up an excuse so that you can have some privacy. Approach him, touch his arm and tell him you want to talk to him. Alternatively, take him by the hand and ask him to follow you - after all, he's still your boyfriend!
When you are alone, approach him. If you don't get close enough or there's something separating you, he may think you don't want to kiss him
Step 3. Do something romantic
You don't have to organize a candlelit dinner to experience a moment of intimacy. An experience that allows you to have good physical contact is ideal. If you can provoke some sexual tension, even better.
- Invite him to watch a movie or TV show. Let him sit on the sofa first - you might as well make up an excuse to go and make popcorn, so he'll settle down before you. When you come back, sit right next to him, preventing him from having room to pull back and walk away. Likely, he'll hug you, a key step in getting him to kiss you.
- Have a picnic in a secluded spot. While you are in this place, snuggle up next to him and pick up a strawberry or a grape. Bring the fruit close to his mouth to let him know you want to feed it. Move your gaze from her eyes to her lips and then back up. When you bring your fingers to her mouth, let them run gently over her lips.
Step 4. Think of a clever ploy to get him closer to you
If this guy is shy, he's probably looking for a discreet way to get close to your face, so give him a reason to do it. Think of a clever excuse for you to have a little extra intimacy. When he leans towards you, offer him your best tempting look, let him know that you are dying to kiss him. Your strategy could create the perfect time to kiss you, and maybe he has been waiting for it too.
Tell him that you want to see the color of his eyes better, or that you think you have something in his eye and would appreciate it so much if he checked. You could also pretend that there is a crumb on his face: lean towards him to "take it off" and look him in the eye
Part 2 of 3: Send him Physical Signals
Step 1. If you haven't done so yet, break the barrier of physical contact
Touch his elbow, take him by the hand, or gently place a palm on his knee. Overcoming this obstacle allows both of you to move beyond some of those inhibitions that have hitherto prevented you from making physical contact.
After breaking the contact barrier, don't stop. When you laugh, place your hand on his arm. When you walk, grab his hand and squeeze it. At best, it will go to meet you and begin to do the same with you
Step 2. Pamper yourself
Cuddling allows him to understand that you like to have some physical contact with him, and that you feel really comfortable in his company. It's one of the clearest signals you can send him, and cuddling often is a good foreplay for a kiss.
As you exchange cuddles, tilt your head towards his shoulder. Interlace your fingers with his and lean on him expressing your satisfaction. All these physical signals tell him: "I love being close to you, now kiss me, silly!"
Step 3. Try to make your lips kissable
Getting this guy's full attention to your lips will inevitably make him think about what it would be like to kiss you. Do what you can to show your lips. A classic approach is to gently bite one while watching your him.
- Apply lip balm (and do it in front of him). But try to choose a neutral one. Lip glosses can be sticky, and it won't be a pleasant effect. Use a conditioner or lip balm to avoid uncomfortable situations.
- When warm, run an ice cube over your lips. Not only is it a seductive gesture, the lips will also be shiny, as if you had applied a balm.
- Lick your lips when you eat juicy food. If you eat a slice of watermelon, ice cream or other such food, let a few drops remain on your lips and then slowly lick it off. Just be careful not to look clumsy while doing this - you need to sound like a seductress, not a girl who seriously needs a handkerchief.
Step 4. Flirt with your eyes
Eye contact is a key element in letting a guy know he wants to be kissed. Look him in the eye and give him a sweet smile. Smile with your eyes. Move it from her eyes to her lips a couple of times, maybe even blink flirtatiously.
Here's another way to flirt with your eyes. When you look at yourself, hold your gaze for a moment, then shyly lower it. Do this especially when your faces are close. At that point, look down for a moment and look up again
Step 5. Before you say goodbye and leave, send him other unmistakable signals
If you are hoping for him to kiss you goodnight, this is especially important. When you say goodbye, hug him tightly and kiss him on the cheek. Afterward, look him in the eye. He may not be kissing you right then, but you have let him know that you have no problem increasing your intimacy and intensifying physical contact.
When you hug him, you may want to rest your head on his chest, so maybe he'll hold you further. Before you do it, make sure you spray an irresistible perfume: you can't help but notice this delicious fragrance
Part 3 of 3: Send him verbal signals
Step 1. Flirt with words
Sure, he's your boyfriend now, but that doesn't mean you should stop courting him. Flirting keeps a hint of frivolity in the relationship, and it's healthy. It also lets him know that your interest in him hasn't diminished. Play coy and tease him (but not too much). You could also joke that you don't want to be kissed (a rather direct way than saying, "I want you to kiss me!").
Send flirtatious text messages when you're not together. Texting that helps you flirt and joke is a great way to be nice to him while not being with him. Just keep in mind that you don't want to fill him with messages - this can turn off his interest
Step 2. Make him feel safe
Guys like to feel like they're big fat men for their girlfriends. As a result, make your him feel that way. While you don't necessarily need to open a jar for you, say phrases like "Oh, look at those muscles!" allows him to immediately acquire more confidence. Obviously, this is another flirting trick, but, in particular, it helps him build his self-esteem. Maybe, he'll believe in himself enough to lean over and kiss you!
Step 3. Be direct and ask him to kiss you
This attitude has pros and cons. Let's start with the advantages. You will be more likely to receive a result immediately, and your boyfriend will show that you are pretty confident, which is very sexy. The disadvantage? The results you get immediately aren't necessarily what you hoped for. Maybe he needs some more time to get over his shyness, or he may not be as interested in you as you thought. Whatever the case may be, you'll have an answer, and you'll take a lot of pressure off him by clearly telling him what you want.
You can make the request sexy and straightforward at the same time. When you hug each other before parting, lean towards him so that your lips touch his ear. Whisper something like "Kiss me" or "I want to kiss you". Probably, your words and the warmth on his skin are enough to make him lose all traces of shyness and kiss you right away
Advice
- Don't force it! Nobody likes to kiss out of obligation.
- Smile at him with conviction and hug him after kissing him. This allows him to understand that he did it well and that you are very happy with what happened. As a result, he too will be satisfied.
- In order not to create awkward moments after the kiss, always look deeply into his eyes and smile eloquently.
- Don't look nervous, or you will infect him.
- If the kiss doesn't go so well the first time, don't lose your mind. He was probably feeling nervous. Don't let him know you were upset for one reason or another. If you want, try kissing him to reassure him.
- If he goes to your house and you have brothers or sisters, make sure they don't bother you, otherwise he'll feel discouraged and won't want to kiss you.
- If everything goes great the first time, try running your fingers through her hair. It's a sweet and flirty gesture, and you will let him know that you like to swap affections with him.
- If you can't convince him the first time you try to step forward, don't give up. Some guys are more shy than others when it comes to making physical contact.
- If he's known to be great at kissing, don't worry. Chances are you will learn a lot from him, and he will enjoy having this experience with you.
- If you can't get them to understand it in any way, take the initiative! Kiss him and see how it goes. He may be grateful that you made the first move.
- If he doesn't kiss you, maybe he's just shy, or he thinks you're in too much of a hurry. Be patient.
- Some guys don't like to make physical contact right away, so don't rush if either guy isn't comfortable.
- Make sure you don't pucker your lips while kissing, as it's not sexy at all and may discourage you.
- If you want another kiss, then smile at him softly and calmly and then bring your lips to his.
- If you ask him directly and he says no, then ask him why, so you can figure out how to make him comfortable.
- Try not to open your eyes, as this may embarrass him.
- Don't rush when you kiss him, especially if it's your first time. Take your time.
- If you want me to kiss you, approach him. As you look at each other, look away at the right moment and move it to your lips. Don't stare, though.
- If this is the first time you kiss, start slowly, maybe the following kisses will be more intense.
- Avoid opening your eyes while kissing him, as otherwise it could create an awkward moment. Try not to laugh.
