Wooing a Sagittarius can be a challenge. Those born between November 22nd and December 21st have an intriguing personality that is difficult to pin down. If you want to take up the challenge, here are some tips for dating people of this sign based on the unique characteristics of this sign, typically optimistic, lucky and adventurous.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Understanding your Sagittarius
Step 1. Understand that people born under this sign need to feel free
They love to explore, marvel, learn and are always looking for adventure. This aspect of their personality does not fade even when they are involved in a relationship! If they feel confined to a relationship, they will quickly disappear before you know it. This isn't necessarily a bad thing as long as you are able to fix things without too much trouble.
Some people will not accept a relationship with a person they cannot attach to. If that's the case with you, it's probably best if you date someone born under another sign! On this aspect the pure Sagittarius will be adamant
Step 2. Know that they get bored easily
If you have targeted a Sagittarius, you have already noticed that they are not people who fit into a monotonous routine. This can be about food, hobbies, or people. This does not mean that they are cheaters, but they are usually not particularly suited to being in a serious relationship. They are more inclined to chase! However, a relationship with them is anything but boring - as long as your relationship remains multidimensional, your Sagittarius will always be happy.
Getting a Sagittarius to be wholly and openly devoted to you can be difficult. They usually don't entrust their heart to anyone. But if you are truly compatible they are able to understand it, and you will be too - they will be willing to bond in a long-term relationship
Step 3. Try to understand their bluntness
Some of the more sensitive signs may perceive Sagittarius's tendency to say things as they are as rudeness and tactlessness. But it is not intentional! They just can't see any value in the Not be open and sincere.
They don't do it maliciously. It is simply a trait of their character that they need to express. So the next time a Sagittarius tells you your scent is too strong, don't take it as a personal offense. He's just saying what's really on his mind - once their thoughts are expressed, they're on to the next. It doesn't bother them, so try not to notice
Step 4. Know that they are nature lovers
In general, Sagittarians love to be outdoors. If you like it too, great! You can explore the wonders of the world together. Take an outdoor trip with the person you care about and they will feel in their element.
Step 5. Accept that they tend not to show their emotions
Sagittarians are usually considered stoic and emotionless. It doesn't mean that they don't try it, but that they aren't really inclined to express it. They prefer to be optimistic and energetic about life - getting depressed by worries or fears is not like them, they don't understand the reason for wasting energy this way. Honestly, we should all learn something from Sagittarius!
This attitude can sometimes be very scary, especially when you fall in love with it. You are carried away by a multitude of emotions that you can't wait to express and in response you receive an impassive look. Don't take it too personally. If he didn't care, he would have already abandoned you
Part 2 of 3: Attract them
Step 1. Behave a little elusive and mysterious
Sagittarians love the thrill of chasing. If you can keep this emotion alive even when they have won you over, they will be yours forever. Don't be a completely open book. Let him work a little, they love to do it.
This doesn't mean not replying to his messages or always being vague on purpose - these things are just annoying. But move on your personal wavelength. Make sure you have a part of your life that remains yours. For a Sagittarius, this autonomy is really sexy
Step 2. Take it slow
You risk losing your Sagittarius when the relationship becomes all hearts, clubs and sweetness. There is no more exploration and adventure when the relationship gets to this point. So, proceed leisurely. Don't jump right into this phase as early as the third date. Explore every inch of each other's personalities and respective bodies. The flame burns longer if the candle burns out slowly.
Sagittarius won't want to meet your parents for the first few months. He will not intend to live together. So, don't ask him or he might run away thinking you're already planning the wedding
Step 3. Be flirtatious
When talking to your Sagittarius, remember that they love the thrill of chasing. The fact that you are already out does not mean that the chase is over! Keep flirting so that you always keep that emotion awake. It will remind you too.
Sagittarius values honesty and open-mindedness. You are obviously trying to win over your Sagittarius, so it is appropriate to act according to how you feel! When you are yourself and are able to communicate openly, everything will be better for both of you, regardless of your zodiac sign
Step 4. Go out and enjoy
After all, that's what they expect in a relationship! Focus on the little things that make life interesting. Look for a good indie film, go sing karaoke and duet at the top of your lungs. Paint pottery, play with lasers, do things together that make you laugh. Sagittarians believe that life should be fun and are optimistic about making sure it always remains fun!
A typical Sagittarius is not the person who sits and looks you in the eye, reciting love poems to you. Rather it will hold your hand as you cross a waterfall. When you start dating, keep it light and fun. He will love you so much more for it
Step 5. Look after your appearance
While this doesn't apply to all Sagittarians, they usually prefer to be with well-groomed, scented people who appear to have dressed carefully. So when you go out, avoid yoga pants and a ponytail, choose boots and a great perfume. You don't need to look like someone who just stepped off the catwalk, but take a minute to think about what to wear!
Speaking once again in general, most Sagittarians prefer their women to be feminine and men to be masculine. So, if you are a girl, don't hesitate to put on a dress and heels; As for men, remember that a date night means dress shoes and a blazer (and don't forget to foot the bill)
Step 6. Plan a trip
Sagittarians love to travel. This aspect will already be clear to you at this point! After (and only after) you and your Sagittarius have established a solid connection, plan a trip. This could be a day at the beach or a stay in an exotic location. Wherever it is, your Sagittarius will definitely participate.
Make sure the trip you plan respects the level of relationship you have. If you've been out for two weeks, don't book a week-long trip to a bed and breakfast in a small town in northern France. A little trip is more suitable: an amusement park? A bike trip or a walk in the mountains? It will be equally exciting
Step 7. Be smart
Jolly geese and boobies are not suitable people to date Sagittarius. You have to be smart to be able to be with them! Keeping things interesting and coming up with ideas will be the main challenges you will face when dating a Sagittarius. This is an astrological sign that undoubtedly appreciates the mind.
Keep up to date with current events and popular culture. Sagittarians love to laugh and think
Step 8. Don't expect it to change
Sagittarians have their own individuality. This is certainly something that will never change. If you are dating a man of this sign and you think "He will be more open and emotional in the future", you are probably wrong. He has no problem being who he is and will resist your every attempt to turn him into what you would like. If you don't like it the way it is now, forget it! He is like that, whether you like it or not.
Again, it is important that you view these characteristics as positive. Too many would like to change - it takes a lot of self-confidence to accept who you are. Admire this ability in your Sagittarius - without being resentful
Part 3 of 3: Keep the Situation Spicy
Step 1. Be yourself
Just as Sagittarius cares about their individuality, the person they date must necessarily have their own! If you are following him wherever he goes and are passionate about his hobbies and interests, your uniqueness and your mystery will disappear. He will be bored very soon. So, don't lose the qualities that made it interest you. Sagittarians are not interested in another version of themselves.
It is very easy to lose your self in another person, especially when you are well beyond infatuation. Hold on! Don't compromise your value and belief system for him - he wouldn't do it for you, so why should you?
Step 2. Surprise him
Sagittarians love adventure and trying new things. To avoid running into their propensity for boredom, keep surprises them. Whether it's a home-cooked meal or two tickets to his favorite show, do things thinking and intelligently. He will be amazed at your ability to make him happy.
Make sure you surprise him in different ways. Sending him a bouquet of flowers five days in a row isn't exactly a way to impress. Send flowers one day and avoid doing it the next day. Breaking the routines is always a good thing
Step 3. Don't get too attached
Do you remember what we said about Sagittarius and their need for freedom? Even when the relationship is established, it's important not to be clingy. So next time you go to a party, move to the opposite side of the hall. This does not mean that the relationship is falling apart - it is a sign that it is strong enough to endure an hour of separation!
Likewise, your Sagittarius will never get too clingy. This is fine, and it is expected. This is not a lack of affection - rather it shows an aspect of their personality. Rest assured that if your Sagittarius thinks something (positive or negative) about you, they will let you know
Step 4. Look for adventure
This is important for both your relationship and you. Sagittarians love to date someone they love to explore as much as they do. So, take a sommelier course, learn how to DJ. Add aspects to your personality (even if they are aspects that you do not share with him); it will make you more interesting.
There is no limit to adventure. With a Sagittarius you can try a new taste of coffee or book an impromptu trip to the Siberian desert. If you are looking for adventure together with a Sagittarius you will be the perfect couple
Step 5. Learn more about the relationship
The fact that they are looking for adventure and that they seem to counter emotions may make you think about giving up a relationship with them. Obviously every Sagittarius has been conquered at some point, so don't worry! Connections can't be ignored - if you and your Sagittarius feel that spark, he won't disown it, despite his problems with long-lasting relationships!
Look for clues as to whether your Sagittarius is ready to commit. Is it up to you more than anyone else? Does he do things other than his normal to make you happy? Do surprises and adventures never end with him? If so, you may be ready to take the relationship to the next level
Advice
- Aggression turns off the enthusiasm in Sagittarius. Wooing them is fine, but don't be overwhelming or pushy.
- This tip works for all people you date, regardless of the sign: don't get too jealous or clingy!
- Sagittarians are very friendly and generous: they do not like selfishness and appreciate those who know how to give and receive.
- Don't wait to call or talk to a Sagittarius, it's not a way to get them faster.
- Sagittarians love to spend time alone sometimes. So don't choke him.
- They love to make jokes and say jokes and can be misunderstood and deemed insensitive. Don't attach any meaning to his jokes other than a simple desire to have fun.
- Sagittarians hate deceptions.
- Almost all Sagittarius are optimistic - this is the most positive sign of the zodiac.
- They hate being prey in the relationship, they love being the hunters instead.
