In war and in love, everything is allowed - at least so they say - and, in the field of love, there are few weapons more powerful than jealousy. If you hit the right strings, you can use this weakness to your advantage. Whether you want to play around being unreachable with a new person you care about, make your boyfriend more passionate about you, or just win back an ex who dumped you, follow these steps to make any man, or nearly so, hang on to. your lips. If it's an ex, then you have to work a little harder to win him back using another guy!
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Prepare
Step 1. Make sure he has feelings for you
Jealousy only works if this guy has feelings for you. If he is not interested at all, it will be very hard for you to make him jealous. The good news is that any guy you're dating or dating is almost certainly interested in you, and the same goes for guys who flirt with you. If you are unsure of his interest, you can still try to make him jealous.
- While it's not possible to know for sure how he feels about you unless you ask him, there are still many signs and behaviors that can tell you if he has a crush on you. If he pays more attention to you than others when you are with a group of friends, or deliberately tries to ignore you, or you find that he is always staring at you, then he probably has a crush on you.
- It is true that if you play your cards right, you can get noticed by a guy by trying to make you jealous, but this will be very difficult if there is no interest from the start.
Step 2. Take care of your appearance as much as you can
If you want to make him jealous, you certainly can't walk around in overalls and with messy hair. Perhaps it would be better to avoid miniskirts and ankle boots as well, but you should look very well-groomed at times when you might meet him. Just try to fix your hairstyle, wear a nice pair of shoes, so that you understand that you have taken the time to fix.
This means that you have to look your best, not that you have to look like a star or a supermodel
Step 3. Show him that you are having a lot of fun
The best thing to do is have a great time, even in the absence of the guy you want to make jealous. You can laugh with your friends, go dancing at a party, or do something that makes you feel good and makes you feel free. Give all of yourself to what you are doing, and he will see that you are really enjoying yourself - without thinking about him in any way! What could be better to make him jealous?
If he notices that you are looking for him, or that you are pretending for him, then he will hardly be jealous. Make sure that there is no way he can understand what you are really thinking. You'll drive him crazy
Step 4. Be active
Indulge in your hobbies. If you keep busy and have fun so you don't have time for a guy, he'll start to get a little jealous. This technique is especially effective with ex-boyfriends. It shows that you are moving on and that you are having more fun without him. And, if this technique fails to inspire jealousy in this guy, you'll be better off without him. If you don't keep busy, you will spend all your time obsessively thinking about this guy, and he will understand that.
- If you really can't stop thinking about him and you have nothing to do, make it a goal to add things to your schedule.
- If he sees you're busy and doing what interests you most (which isn't him), that's okay. This will attract his attention even more.
Part 2 of 3: Take Action
Step 1. Flirt with other guys
Nothing drives guys crazy more than seeing a girl they like, or are dating, flirt with others. Many men are incredibly competitive by nature, and if someone else likes you, even a guy who wouldn't have noticed you before might feel interested. Make sure this guy knows you're flirting by doing it in front of him or in situations where you know someone will hear about it.
- If you flirt with too many guys in a short amount of time, though, he might understand your strategy, especially if you're not typically a flirtatious girl.
- But don't make it too obvious, as he may think you're the kind of girl that is easy to flirt with. You don't want to make a bad impression, do you?
- There is some difference between flirting freely and hitting on a guy. Don't flirt with a guy too much if you know he likes you, just to get someone else's attention, because you would end up breaking this poor fellow's heart.
Step 2. Go out with the other guys
Truth be told, dating takes flirting to a new level, but it will affect the guy's jealousy in the same way. Especially if you are just starting out with a guy or have just been broken up, going out and seeing other people is a great way to maintain your independence and to get the guy you want to try harder for you or, in the case of a ex, to bitterly regret having lost you. Of course, you don't have to go out with people you don't like at all just to make your ex jealous, because you will only end up hurting his feelings and making it even more complicated.
If when you're with the guy you're dating, you meet the person you're trying to make jealous, behave naturally. Let him see that you are having a good time, instead avoid him seeing you laughing hysterically or realizing that you desperately want to get his attention
Step 3. Try to ignore it a bit
If he and another person you know are sitting on the bus together, say hello to his friend, but not the guy you like. In case he reacts immediately, he likes you, otherwise, he probably doesn't care. You don't have to be rude or completely ignore him, especially if he approaches you, but you still don't have to get to talk to him or necessarily imply that you've noticed.
- If he sends you a lot of text messages, don't go to him right away. Take the time, at least a day or two, to let him know that you have better things to do than run to him as soon as you can.
- If you meet him in the corridors and he greets you, you can reply to the greeting, but don't slow down and don't talk to him; if too busy!
Step 4. Cultivate male friendships
While not dating guys, it's good to have male friends to hang out with. If you're busy with someone, there's nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex, but when you're dating them, your boyfriend will probably feel at least a little jealous and nervous.
Exclude him completely, then he will get really jealous. Act like you don't care about him, with a "I have better things to do" attitude. Put it into practice and you'll have a perfect plan to make him jealous
Step 5. Make him sweat a little
If you are always available to him, you will lose some of your mystery, and the mystery can generate jealousy. For example, don't always answer her calls. When you call him back a couple of hours later (you should definitely do this if you're interested in him), be vague about what you were doing. Say you went out with a friend or were just busy. Just not answering the phone makes him wonder what you are doing or who you will be with.
Similarly, if he calls you to ask if you want to do something, it is good to tell him from time to time that you have other plans, even if that weren't true
Step 6. Use social networks
You don't have to post shots of yourself with ten sexy guys playing beach volleyball on the beach. But you can use your profile on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and other accounts to show this guy that your life is beautiful without him. You can post photos with your friends, mention an amazing party you went to or a museum you visited over the weekend, or just show the world how much you love your friends - you can use social networks to make him jealous and nervous, because your life without him is wonderful.
Avoid posting too often, otherwise they may think otherwise - that you don't have a social life. Posting something two or three times a week will achieve the desired effect
Step 7. Make sure your true intentions remain hidden
Many guys, believe it or not, can actually tell if you're trying to make him jealous. Sometimes the best thing to do is give another man a seductive smile, and you'll see that the guy you're interested in will prick up his ears. It's the little things that will really get noticed by the guy you want to make jealous, so you don't need to go overboard to make him realize you don't need him.
If you are in the same room, keep doing what you were doing. If you change your personality entirely just to make him jealous, he will be able to understand it
Part 3 of 3: Know what to say
Step 1. Talk to other guys in front of him
Don't do it blatantly though. For example, don't say you spent the weekend with a very attractive guy, or he'll know you're just trying to piss him off. Instead, talk about your daily life and refer to a friend who may have been nice to you. The fact that you're talking about a guy you know will cause a lot more jealousy than some delusional talk about how many handsome guys are wooing you.
However, don't mention names too often. Mentioning another guy's name just once or twice in the course of a conversation will be enough
Step 2. Don't be mean
While you don't have to be the best person in the world to make a guy jealous, you don't have to overdo it. Don't act sleazy, talk too much about other guys, or just generally don't act like a nice and kind person just for the purpose of making him jealous, otherwise you'll get to a point where he'll get tired, and so will other people who will get you. attending will be bothered by your behavior.
A certain amount of cynicism is allowed, especially if you want your boyfriend to come back to you, but don't forget who you really are
Step 3. Try to have fairly short conversations
If you happen to talk to a guy you want to make jealous, don't spend too much time on him. Talk to him for a few minutes and tell him you have to leave - whether you have to go to class, meet friends or actually have absolutely nothing to do. If he notices that he could talk to you for hours until "he" is on other commitments, then guess who will have the power? Certainly not you. Even if you like it a lot and can't resist its charm, make an effort and walk away.
When you talk to him though, don't give him your 100% attention. Let him know that you have other things on your mind
Step 4. Maintain an aura of mystery about your life
If he asks what you did over the weekend, you can give him a mischievous smile and tell him that you had a really great two days. This might lead him to wonder what you mean - he'll probably think you had a great day going to the movies with someone else, rather than celebrating your aunt's 50th birthday. If you have to go, don't say you have a dentist's appointment, just stay vague, tell him it's late and you really have to go. He might think you are on a date, and who could say otherwise?
If you want him to get jealous, don't be an open book. Make him wonder what you are going to do and have fantasies that make him jealous
Step 5. If your goal is to go out with him, don't try to make him jealous for too long
If you want a guy to get jealous because he broke your heart and you want him to come back to you, then that's fine. But if you want to make him jealous because you really like him and hope to get his attention with this ploy, then recognize when to stop. Flirting a little and making him jealous at first can also work, but if you overdo it, he'll think you're not interested, or that you're not a nice person, or worse, that you go with everyone. Once you have established a true bond, you can minimize the tactics to make him jealous.
If you're dating someone, you can also keep them on their toes, but there are better ways to do it than to get them jealous! If you wish to be in a relationship with him, then know that you will need to build it on a solid foundation of trust, not doubt and suspicion
Advice
- Don't overdo it and don't completely rule it out - this won't give him any hope and he'll give up on you.
- Don't let him know you're trying to make him jealous. If he suspects your actions are aimed at making him jealous, your plan will backfire. If he asks if you're trying to make him jealous, react like you don't have a clue what he's talking about or, if you're trying to get revenge on an ex, tell him you can't believe he's self-centered enough to think you're flirting. with others only because of him.
- Always be presentable when you are with him.
- Try to let him know that you have more fun without him. Laughing, smiling, and just talking to others are activities that should make him jealous.
- Make sure you often mention the guy you're flirting with in front of the one you want to make jealous of, but don't overdo it, or he might take her negatively.
- Remember that it is difficult to make someone who is not interested in you jealous. And, if the guy in question is with someone else, you could put yourself in a bad social light.
- These strategies also help you find out if he likes you. In case he's not interested, he'll probably be impassive.
- Don't be afraid to get close to him.
- If he asks you where you've been, tell him you've dated someone. You will insinuate him suspicion and he will wonder who you see yourself with, and if he is dealing with a guy.
Warnings
- Remember, when you try to make a guy jealous, it's a game. Be prepared for him to do the same to you. She could go out and spend more time with her friends. This attempt could lead to betrayal and cause pain to everyone involved.
- Sometimes, a man may feel unwanted, which may encourage him not to feel attraction to you. Be careful not to overdo it.
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- If you try to make a guy jealous by spending time with others, what you like might interpret it as little interest on your part. Even if he has feelings for you, he may take your gesture as a clue to back off and leave you alone. You could evaluate his lack of action in the same way. So, when you play, there are always risks: confusion, you can send the wrong signals or you could lose someone who maybe wanted to be with you, but just didn't know how to tell you.
- You should understand that every guy has their own personality, and jealous ones respond to moves aimed at making them jealous. Also, what kind of character does the guy you're "using" to make the one you like jealous? Has it been "used" in the past for the same reason? When you "use" such a guy, who has probably been involved in similar situations before, you may be demonstrating a selfish and insensitive side of you that you don't want others to know. You are simultaneously ruining the other guy's reputation, as if he were someone who would steal other people's girls.
- Don't forget that some guys, especially those who are not from a Western culture, may react negatively, become violent or leave you in the blink of an eye. The recommendation is to avoid these strategies if you are with a guy from Latin America, the Middle East or decided, with strong integrity and high self-esteem.
- Jealousy has a very bad effect on some guys, making them unpleasant, obsessive or even violent. Be very careful when trying to make someone too jealous, especially if you know they might take it badly. If you know that a guy tends to be violent and abusive, you don't want to develop this strategy, so you shouldn't try to make him jealous. If you feel threatened by someone (not necessarily a guy), stay away from this person and report any threats or stalking to the police.
- Don't make your moves too explicit, or he'll think you still have feelings for him.
- Don't cross certain boundaries! If you do, this guy may think you don't care.
- When you pass him in the corridors, don't look at him. Do you generally do it? Then he'll think it's weird that she doesn't give it to him
- While he's with you or near you, flirt and touch other guys by stroking their arms, blinking, or doing whatever else you know will annoy him.
- On the other hand, some guys respond to jealousy by simply giving up. If you are trying to attract a guy and you make him jealous, he may decide that you are not worth it.
- Still, there are other men who enjoy chasing girls that make them jealous and will stop being interested in them once they know they have nothing left to worry about.
