Men often find themselves embarrassed when it comes to flirting with women. If you learn to flirt properly, you will end up with a possible girlfriend. Here are some tips on how to flirt with women.
Steps
Step 1. First step
Take care of your person. You need to show the best version of yourself to the women you meet. It is not necessary to be attractive or have a stunning body to please women, the important thing is to present yourself in the best way and take care of the external appearance. A woman wants to see your best version. The main aspects to take care of: hair, skin, breath and nails.
Step 2. There is a fundamental detail that every woman observes immediately to understand how you are and how you will treat her and this detail must be perfect:
it's about the shoes! Make sure your shoes are clean and well maintained. Don't go out to flirt with a girl while wearing sneakers (unless you're coming back from the gym, but even then your shoes should be neat and tidy).
Step 3. Flirting using humor and irony always works
If you are too serious, women are likely to lift their heels and leave you in the lurch. A woman wants the flirting phase to be fun and playful, almost a throwback to the carefree age of childhood.
Step 4. The word "flirt" is the female translation of the masculine term "to hook up"
Guys talk about picking up girls; girls talk about flirting with guys. However, it's not a question of terminology: the important thing is to understand that a girl doesn't want to feel like you're hooking up with her, but that you're flirting with her, which implies a fun and playful approach on your part.
Step 5. We all have a natural flair for flirting
For example, look at children playing. Observe their body language and facial expressions. See how their eyes move and how their tone of voice changes depending on whether they are talking to an adult or their peers. They are experts in these things! You were too, just go back to when you were a child to regain these abilities.
Step 6. Men often feel uncomfortable when they flirt with women in public
If they do this in a shop or other public building they are afraid of being taken for harassers and arrested. It is absolutely false. Make the people watching you cheer for you and wish you were successful with that woman.
Step 7. Flirt to give, not to receive
Fixing results (focusing only on what you can get from a woman) penalizes your successes. If you create a situation where you expect to get immediate results from your actions, the fun is gone. All conversations in which someone forcibly wants to get something from another person inevitably becomes heavy and annoying. So give her the lightness of a laugh, so maybe she'll give you some attention.
Step 8. Flirt for fun
If there is no fun, the game is short-lived. Review your attitude. You must have positive motivations to flirt: if you are not convinced and motivated, for you it is just a distraction like any other and you give up immediately. Also, you communicate to the girl lack of real interest and dedication to the cause, and that's another thing that makes her run away. Flirt because you like him and you really believe in it: such an attitude certainly has a positive impact on women.
Step 9. Flirt with every woman, child and animal you meet
Flirting is first of all a mental and spirit attitude. If you only approach the most attractive women, you create a mental barrier and you will be much more anxious when you meet the girl you really like. Flirting means being open and welcoming to everyone. The more open and sociable you are with everyone, the less you will appear closed and needy of a woman. Also, when you flirt with a girl, don't give the impression of being on the last resort, but of having so many choices.
Step 10. Here is the first tip for flirting the right way:
ask indirect questions. Ask her about where you are and keep the conversation interesting. In other words, if you are, for example, in a coffee shop, ask questions about whether you met in that coffee shop.
Step 11. The second tip for flirting the right way:
make cheeky comments - try to be cheeky and funny at the same time, teasing her good-naturedly. A proven technique is to ask questions like, "Do you think this place serves really… spicy food?" At this point, she, a bit confused, will reply: "Um, yes …", then she will stare at you as if you were coming from another planet and you, smiling and winking at her, will say: "You didn't think I meant it, did you? ? " Now that you've broken the ice by starting a playful conversation, you can carry on with this good-natured teasing tone.
Step 12. The final tip for flirting with a woman:
it must be you and only you who interrupt the conversation. If you stay in control of the conversation and decide when to end it, your confidence and confidence will come out much stronger, so don't wait for her to tell you it's time to go.
Step 13. "Sacrifice" the first twenty
For the top twenty women to flirt with, don't leave and don't ask for anything, no phone number, no address or anything else. As soon as you feel more confident, you have left behind the negative attitude of "there is no nail here" and you start to have a feeling of "abundance", you can start to push yourself further …
Advice
- When flirting, stay calm, let things happen naturally, and pay attention to his reactions.
- Don't flirt with a woman who is already engaged, or you may find yourself in trouble.
- If she is already engaged with your friend, wait for them to break up before courting her.
Warnings
- If a woman makes it clear to you that she doesn't want to hear about it, leave her alone.
- Be careful what you say.
- Always treat a woman with grace and kindness.
