It's no easy feat to get inside a girl's head and make her think about you. So start off on the right foot and conquer her by giving her your full attention, making her laugh and amaze her with your skills. Stick with her mind by showing self-confidence in the way you talk and dress. Learn more about his knowledge by observing his body language, learning about his hobbies and favorite music.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Conquer it by talking
Step 1. Give her your full attention
Build trust in her by showing your interest when you have a conversation. Make eye contact, nod and react as she speaks. Repeat her words to make it clear that you are listening to her. In this way, you will give the impression of being a charismatic person and capable of putting you in his shoes.
For example, if he is explaining to you a project that relates to his working activity, intervene with a positive comment, saying for example: "I imagine the effort you have to dedicate!" or "Of course you can manage your time well!"
Step 2. Make her laugh
Women are sensitive to humor and appreciate people who can make them laugh. Laughter can also dispel shyness or break down a defensive attitude and put her at ease in your company. Make a few jokes, imitations, or tell a funny anecdote about yourself to cheer her up and stave off embarrassment.
Step 3. Talk about your skills without bragging
Use your skills and hobbies to impress her without looking cocky. Let the conversation come up spontaneously on this topic or bring it up by asking her what her interests or hidden talents are. An interesting talent or pastime will make you look more charming and dynamic.
For example, you could talk about how good you are at windsurfing by saying, "It's a fun and challenging sport. I'm spending a lot of time and practice to improve."
Step 4. Establish connections
Build a relationship by looking for something that unites you. Shared interests, hobbies, or experiences can create a bond between people. Ask her a few questions until you find something you have in common and make it stand out.
For example, if she tells you about her passion for horror cinema, express your appreciation for this genre by telling her about your favorite films
Part 2 of 3: Understanding it
Step 1. Watch her body language
Look for some clues that might suggest how he feels about you. Posture and body movements can indicate thoughts and feelings, but can also provide you with information on how you should behave when you are around him. Consider the following scenarios among the signs that affect body language:
- If she imitates your movements, she is probably intrigued by you.
- If she plays with her hair, she may be trying to get or keep your attention.
- If he dangles a shoe from his foot, it means that he is comfortable in your presence.
- If he looks you straight in the eye for several seconds, he probably wants to go further.
Step 2. Find out about his hobbies
Ask her what she likes to do in her free time and if she has any passions. This aspect can tell you a lot about a person's creativity, social life, qualities and interests. To really get to know her, ask her if you can sign up for a class, take a hike, or attend an event to evaluate her favorite hobby for yourself.
For example, ask her if you can join her on a bike ride or take a yoga class
Step 3. Listen to his favorite music
The choice of music is strongly connected to the personality, so knowing the songs she listens to, you will have more information about her. Ask her what her favorite bands or artists are or search for her music preferences listed on her social media profiles. Use a music streaming service to preview or download songs or albums she likes and listen to them alone or with her.
Step 4. Find out about his family and friends
By observing the relationship he has with the people he loves, you can get a more complete picture of his character. Collect information about her family and friendships by indirectly asking her what are the landmarks in her life. You will understand a lot about her from the people she mentions and the way she talks to you about them.
Part 3 of 3: Be confident
Step 1. Do some breathing exercises to relax before meeting her
Looking confident and easy-going is definitely better than giving the impression of being nervous or on edge. So, before you see it, do some breathing exercises to relax your nerves. Inhale through your nose, hold the air for a count of 5, then push it out of your mouth for a count of 5. Repeat this ten times for maximum benefit!
Step 2. Speak in a confident tone
To be confident when you are with a girl, express yourself clearly and understandably. Don't give your voice a soft, muffled setting, but speak with a slightly stronger intonation than you would instinctively use. Practice adjusting the tone and volume.
Step 3. Keep a casual air
If you are relaxed, the viewer understands that you are comfortable in your own skin and with this attitude you have the opportunity to attract the attention of the girl you are interested in. Communicate this with body language by leaning forward to talk to her, showing openness and being self-confident. Avoid getting offended or agitated while talking and appearing too thrilled.
For example, instead of asking, "Do you like this restaurant? Otherwise we can go somewhere else", say to her, "I really like this restaurant and thought it would be a great choice
Step 4. Get in the shot
Choose clothing that makes you feel confident, but also reflects your true style. To look like a well-groomed person, wear fitted clothing that flatters your build and avoid clothing that is baggy, baggy, or a size other than yours. Choose a color or pattern that you find attractive and add original accessories that emphasize your personality.
