Being cute isn't just about looking good. A good, kind and generous girl has an inner beauty that illuminates her as much as an outer one. As the saying goes: "the habit does not make the monk" and to be a beautiful person you have to be both inside and out.
Steps
Method 1 of 6: Style your hair and make up in a sparkling way
Step 1. Have fun with your hair
Your hair will be of great help if you take good care of it, but it can turn into your sweet spot if you neglect it. Even if you don't have time for particular hairstyles, always make sure you have them brushed and always wear an accessory to collect them in a ponytail..
- Wash your hair regularly. Dab them gently and let them dry on their own when possible; the hair dryer should be avoided.
- Use hair conditioner to keep your hair healthy and shiny. Look for a product that is right for you; not all women have the same needs.
Step 2. Put on your makeup the easy way
Obviously the aim is to minimize flaws and accentuate your strengths, but don't overdo it; too much makeup gives a contrived look. If you want people to appreciate you for who you are, then be yourself and be true.
- A little foundation, blush, a little mascara, an eyeliner and eyeshadow can help to add value to your features.
- To prevent it from looking like you have painted your face, choose colors that compliment your natural coloring.
- Go for a natural look if you think it's for you. Make sure you eat right, drink plenty of water and take care of your skin to make it glow.
Method 2 of 6: Take care of your body
Step 1. Exercise
You have to sweat a lot - yes, I said sweat - for thirty minutes a day three to five times a week. Enroll in a dance school; go jogging or mountain biking; take part in excursions; play tennis, volleyball, football or basketball or just go for a run around the block. Just do something. You will improve, not only your fitness, but also your outlook on life.
- If you are fit, you will certainly be more attractive than not being. And don't think that to be fit you have to look like a skinny model; physical activity must be practiced to be able to move, breathe and keep pace while exercising.
- Physical activity is also a magical potion capable of giving happiness and well-being, and being happy always makes you more attractive.
Step 2. Take care of your personal hygiene
Nobody likes to be around someone who smells bad or is dirty. Every morning and evening, brush your teeth for two minutes. Don't forget about dental floss; most cavities arise in the spaces between the teeth that are difficult to reach with a toothbrush. Wash your hands after using the bathroom, keep your nails clean, take a shower with soap and put on antiperspirant.
Poor hygiene serves as a red light for interpersonal relationships; after all, if you're not willing to take care of yourself, why should anyone else?
Method 3 of 6: Dress well
Step 1. Put on clean clothes
To be honest, most of your clothes can be worn a couple of times before being washed, but always remember this rule: if you don't want it near your nose, you don't have to wear it.
Pants don't stand out as much as shirts (pretty much all jeans look alike) and can be worn multiple times unlike other garments. Just make sure they are relatively clean and don't lose their shape; jeans tend to stretch after a few uses
Step 2. Choose a modest and classy style
Very often, the current fashion consists of dresses that leave little to the imagination, tight-fitting and flashy dresses, etc. Dressing like this once in a while is part of being beautiful and young, but for the everyday routine, the best choice is an attractive, modest and flattering look with clothes that do not attract excessive attention to the shape of your body.
- If you are beautiful on your own, it will be evident even if you dress modestly.
- If attracting a boyfriend is your main goal, you will be surprised to learn how many men prefer certain things to remain in the imagination. More importantly, many of the guys who like to see women in ridiculous clothes are not the kind you want to have as boyfriends.
Step 3. Wear comfortable shoes
Don't be the one who always has to sit down during a football game because of the mini skirt and heels. Being comfortable and playing the game makes you more attractive than a pair of heels. Put on high heels on special occasions. Low heels or low-cut shoes are ideal for everyday life, if they are sturdy and comfortable. Otherwise, wear some cute sneakers, leather shoes or whatever you like as long as it's suitable for everyday life.
Method 4 of 6: Develop your inner self
Step 1. Leave the past behind
Whatever happened before is now in the past. Try to learn from your mistakes and go your own way. Remember: if you keep mulling over your misadventures, you will allow them to continue to control you.
Get professional help if needed. A counselor or psychologist can help you overcome your self-confidence issues and give your best
Step 2. Don't give up hope
Even if you are feeling really down and not at peace with yourself, try not to get down on yourself. You don't have to pretend to be who you are not, but don't go around crying about yourself. Stay calm and be composed. Express your feelings, but do it in a dignified way and everyone will respect you.
Step 3. Appreciate your uniqueness
You are a beautiful person with your own personality and your strengths. Only if you learn to appreciate your potential will you be able to develop your skills and make your own contribution to society.
Step 4. Be a person of integrity
Do not do anything you might regret or, sooner or later, you will lose your self-love. Not only that, but the skeletons in the closet always tend to pop out - and when they do, people's negative judgments could ruin your self-esteem. Act honestly and ethically and, above all, have a little backbone!
- Fight for what is right. If anyone should treat you badly, be your own knight in shining armor; no one has the right to treat you with contempt. Stand up for others when you see that they are being treated badly. Don't be afraid to fight for what you believe in, even if you were the only one to take up the fight; Remember, one person can make a huge difference.
- Respect yourself and your body. Think twice before drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes, and eating junk food. Avoid drugs. And be careful if / when you decide to become sexually active.
Step 5. Keep a journal
Write to us as often as possible and you will soon discover that it is worth it: not only will it give you the opportunity to reflect on your relationships with others and the experiences you will have, but it will also help you to highlight who you are and who you want to be. Also try to make a list of the positive things in your life. You may be surprised at how many things you have to be grateful for.
If you think it's nerdy or nerdy, don't worry; there is no need to put it in the square and nobody has to know that you write one
Step 6. Set goals in life
Take advantage of this self-analysis to plan a better future for yourself. Start with one or two goals (e.g. lose ten pounds, join the volleyball team, get better grades, save money and buy new clothes, etc.) and once you've made some progress, add a couple in. more. Get in the habit of knowing what you want and get it.
It may help you to use a separate sheet of paper for each goal and write down your reasons, how you intend to do it and when you intend to do it
Method 5 of 6: Enrich your mind
Step 1. Try new things
Whenever the opportunity arises to do something interesting that you have never tried to do before, take it! If they invite you to go skiing, accept. If a new ethnic restaurant opens in your area, go there. Experiencing new and different activities not only makes you a more balanced person, it teaches you to always learn new things throughout your life.
Step 2. Take advantage of every opportunity to learn
Traditional education should be a priority for you, but remember that life gives you plenty of opportunities to learn new things. You don't need to sit in the classroom to gain new knowledge.
- Do your best in school. Others value smart and active people in the community.
- Don't be afraid to ask other students and teachers for help. There are no stupid questions; by asking you learn!
- Read! Read bestsellers, classic literature, DIY manuals, self-help books, and articles with opinions you don't necessarily share. Always carry around a book to read so you can fill your heart and mind with good things and great ideas.
Step 3. Spend 15–30 minutes a day developing your special talent
This could be playing an instrument, painting, sculpting, teaching, cooking or making miniature space hamsters; the important thing is to have fun trying to get really good at something. Doing so will build your self-esteem and create opportunities for you to have fun with friends and your future partner.
Method 6 of 6: Appreciate the people around you
Step 1. Make an extra effort to get to know the people in your life
Learn to appreciate the discovery of others by talking to them - and not just talking about yourself. The more you get to know others well, the more you will be able to understand yourself as well.
Step 2. Recognize true beauty
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and everyone is beautiful in their own way. Try to help others as they seek themselves; we all need the help of others at some point in our life - and when your turn comes, people will be happy to repay you for your kindness.
