If you are in high school, or middle school, you will probably have a lot of male friends. However, if you are having trouble relating to girls, this article is for you.
Steps
Step 1. Relax
Try not to think about it too much. Girls are not an angelic gift from heaven. They feel emotions just like guys, they have their own personalities and they get nervous when they are in contact with people of the opposite sex, just like you.
Step 2. Attend the lessons, also make friends with people from other classes and identify at least 8 girls that you would like to meet, and two that you would like to date
Step 3. If your teacher assigns seats, much better
With a little luck you will be "forced" to sit next to the girl you like, and therefore, to socialize.
Step 4. If you are not assigned the seat, resist the temptation to sit next to the people in the class that you like the most, and try to do the opposite; in this way it is likely that you will be flanked by some girl you are interested in
Don't sit in the back benches; you will surely find more boys than girls. Try to find a place in between.
Step 5. Now comes the worst part
Begin the approach with the girl. Go back to step 1 and relax.
Step 6. If you are sitting next to a girl (and we hope you are) start talking to her
Take heart and ask her some things related to school (homework, timetable, etc.) Alternatively, you can also ask her about things related to extracurricular activities; if you get nervous always remember that girls are just people, nothing more.
Step 7. While talking to a girl, try not to think about her physique or anything else related to sex; you will end up getting very nervous
Think of her as a friend for now.
Step 8. Another trick is to start the conversation by talking about her outfit:
try to make a constructive comment about her dress (if you're too shy to do that, don't worry).
Step 9. Wait until one of your friends starts a conversation with a girl
"Sneak" naturally into the conversation; listen for a while and then start talking.
Step 10. Okay, now you have friends:
what to do if you still don't feel 100% comfortable when in contact with a girl? Talk to them as much as possible, until it becomes totally natural. To do this you need to exercise this ability as much as possible. It's like playing an instrument or learning to drive - the more you do it, the easier it will be.
Step 11. Once you are comfortable with the opposite sex, you need to try to make girls a part of your social life, just like boys
When talking to a girl, try asking her for her phone number; for example saying, "Hey, do you have a phone? I don't have your number yet!" This is a trick that works very often.
Step 12. Call them if you are going out with friends and invite them to join the party
Step 13. However, if you want to be more than a friend of a certain girl, talk to her as much as possible and let her know that your interest goes beyond just friendship
Don't be too direct! Approach her in a gentle and polite way; wait for the right moment!
Advice
- Take care of hygiene. Use deodorant, brush your teeth and put on some perfume. Girls really like a guy who takes care of himself.
- Never put pressure on a girl, as if you were a molester.
- Listen to it and talk about your personal experiences.
- You smile. Girls really like smiling guys.
- Be yourself.
- When you like a girl it's very easy to understand: you feel more nervous and want to be with her as much as possible. Girls feel the same! If you think a girl is too beautiful for you, she may be thinking the same thing about you.
- Don't always be too serious. Girls don't like it very much, unless this behavior is typical of your character.
- When you decide to call her, don't make her wait! Girls hate having to wait for a call. If you keep them waiting too long, they'll forget about you.
- If a girl tries to change you at all costs, she's not a girl worth chasing.
Warnings
- Do not stare at parts of his body below his neck. The girls notice it right away and they don't like it.
- Even if you can make lots of friends, this is not a good reason to forget about friends.
- Remember that sex jokes aren't very popular with girls, especially if you're trying to win one. If you insist you could get a nice "slap".
- Don't tell the same sexual jokes you use with male friends. A girl might think you are immature, or even a pervert. Unless they make the first move, be careful what you say.
