This guide will tell you how to talk to a girl on the phone and keep her interested in the conversation, whether you like this breed or just a friend.
Steps
Step 1. Make sure you have a reason to call her
Girls get annoyed if you call them and waste their time without a reason.
Step 2. Be nice to her
Say hello to her, and if you're just trying to make conversation, ask her how her day went.
Step 3. Know what you mean
Most conversations never go as planned, so don't write down a long list of questions to ask them. For example, if you want to ask her to go to the cinema, you should know where to meet, what time, which movie you will see: just a trace of the conversation.
Step 4. Stay calm
Some girls may find a guy who gets nervous and agitated cute, but others may find it annoying and see it as a waste of time. Then take 3 deep breaths, dial the number and speak slowly and calmly.
Step 5. Listen
Give the girl a chance to talk. Speak back, but only when she has finished her speech; however, if he is telling you about his day, and the talk has been going on for a while, you should show interest by saying something like "really?" or "yes" or a little laugh. This will let her know that you are still listening, and that you have not lost interest in her speech.
Step 6. Ask her questions
Ask her for her favorite music, and tell her about yours. Asking multiple questions is fine, but not at the same time or all in a row - you may be too pushy or too intrusive.
Advice
- Listen to what he has to tell you.
- Be fun. Try to find something funny to tell her. You can also "make fun of her", but know that there is always a limit!
- Speak slowly and clearly.
- Don't ask too many questions, but not too few.
