Sometimes, men or guys don't know how to romantically hug their girlfriend so they don't hold her too tightly. This article is for boys, but it comes from girls' minds!
Steps
Step 1. Find a nice quiet place to spend time with your girlfriend (if you are young, this place better not be your home); after a date it could be a perfect situation
Step 2. Take it gently around your waist, but don't pull it too far towards you; act as if you were about to hug her
(If she doesn't like it she'll let you know, either by pushing you away or pulling back)
Step 3. If he allows you to do step 2, now take your hands off his waist and place them on his back and slowly pull him towards you
Most girls will giggle and smile. Again, if she doesn't like what you are doing she will either say no or pull back, embarrassed, making the moment a little uncomfortable.
Step 4. Sometimes, he may want to put his head on your shoulders
(If you're lying down, then she'll slowly put it on your chest.) Some girls like it when you gently stroke their hair with your fingers; don't be too rough to the point of pulling her hair, or you will only get a moan! Some girls, however, don't complain, and others just don't like touching their hair - feel the ground before you do!
Step 5. If she feels uncomfortable, try hugging her by the shoulders, from the side
Kind of like you're leaning on her. This will make her feel more comfortable and you can also rest your head on her shoulders.
Advice
- Don't force your girlfriend to do something she doesn't want to do. If she doesn't want to, don't worry - she'll do it when she's ready.
- Never push away suddenly a girl you're hugging romantically, or she might think you've done something wrong or that you don't like being kind to her.
- When you get up (for example after an appointment in front of her house) it is the right time to kiss her goodnight; well, just before the kiss (if you want to give it to her) hug her romantically for about 10 minutes.
Warnings
- Don't push or pull your girlfriend.
- Don't ask her for sex after a romantic moment; it would ruin it.
