Becoming a stripper is easy: most clubs are usually looking for new people to hire. If you've considered the benefits and consequences of the job and decided you want to give it a try, read on.
Steps
Method 1 of 4: Finding the Right Venue
Step 1. Visit the premises where you would like to work
It's a good idea to take a couple of weeks and walk around town to examine the places you plan to audition. If possible, go undercover and ask a friend to accompany you; you need to get an idea of the atmosphere and the clientele before you apply and get hired in a club. If you find that the club neglects too many rules, go to another one. There is no need to work in a place where girls could be harmed or where they are not treated respectfully. In general, there are three types of night clubs:
- High level premises. This type of club has dress rules, and girls are often required to wear a long dress halfway between evening dress and lingerie. Generally, they have high access costs and support staff to which you should leave a percentage of the earnings; in principle, calculate a 10-20% of your total income for one evening. These places are usually filled with businessmen and people with sophisticated tastes who prefer more elegant establishments, so you generally have to adapt to the demographic with evening dresses, flashy jewelry and so on. For the record, these clubs are usually large and many people work there every night.
- Neighborhood club. This type of venue is a bit more relaxed, and depending on the location, it often attracts local residents or tourists. You can be a little more flexible with the costumes and themes in this type of establishment. This is usually a good place to start even if you don't have much experience with dancing. Some of these clubs are located in industrial areas, while others are neighborhood bars that offer topless or nude entertainment.
- Informal places. Usually, they are found in particularly rural areas and towns, and often the clientele is lower-middle class. Generally, they are very tolerant of the hiring process and appeal to a more "rough" audience.
Step 2. Ask questions
Once you have found a place that you think is suitable for your needs, ask a girl to tell you about her professional experience in this place. Do I have to pay to be able to work there? Is it mandatory to split tips (i.e. give a portion of the profits to the club or staff)? If so, what is this figure? Leaving more than 50% of your income every night is usually not fair. Each club is different and can also change depending on the night.
- If you have the time and interest, you might want to ask a couple of the girls what they think of the work environment. The more opinions you get, the more likely you are to understand what the truth is.
- And don't forget to ask where they buy their clothes!
Step 3. Search for the manager or director
If the employee you spoke to made the place look promising, ask her to point out where you can find the manager. Once you get to know him, explain that you are interested and would like to audition.
Ask him for all the details of the case: the date of the audition, how long it will last (for example, the number of songs that will accompany the performance), your outfit and if he will be there that night. Once you have agreed on everything, you can safely stay, try to convince him to hire you with your charming personality, and ask further questions about the protocol so as not to have too many worries. If you are feeling particularly curious, ask them the same questions you asked employees to verify what you were told
Method 2 of 4: What You Need to Get Started
Step 1. Prepare the wardrobe
You can find stripper items in catalogs, specialty stores, and various online sites. You just have to make sure you can easily undress in high heels. You also need to be aware of the workplace rules; in some cases, they require you to wear certain types of underwear. Given all of this, here is a list of what you should buy:
- High heels (generally, you need a pair of at least eight cm).
- A thong (find out about the club's rules; they might tell you what clothes you can wear).
- Suitable stripper lingerie or costume.
Step 2. Try to properly analyze the situation
Sit alone over a cup of coffee and think if that's really what you want to do. Some women have found themselves excluded from virtually all their social circles for doing this job, or even just for doing it in the past. Are you ready to face the psychological consequences?
- As if this were not enough, the earnings are not necessarily guaranteed. If you're good, you can expect to earn 500 euros on a day shift or up to 1,000 on a night shift (depending on your seat). However, if you don't know how to behave and "sell" your services, you could go home empty-handed and in debt. Nowhere is it written that joining a strip club and looking good will make you money.
- Keep in mind that the competition is fierce. Of course, the work is partly based on physical appearance, but there are girls who look like supermodels and who walk away from the club with the check in the red. Most women who start working as a stripper don't realize it's a profession based on selling their time, attention, and entertainment for a fee. You can't just walk into the club and be listlessly admired to earn good money.
Step 3. Feel comfortable without locking yourself in a glass dome
When you are at work, you will be constantly fixed with dazed looks, touched, and maybe it will seem that customers are trying to invade your private sphere. You have to get used to being naked while surrounded by strangers, and these strangers will try to touch you in ways you may not even want to be touched. While this sounds troubling, it gets easier over time.
Customers will try (or groped you without your consent) to do whatever they can in a place where touching is allowed. There are also clubs where it is forbidden to do so, and this rule is strictly enforced. In general, customers are not allowed to touch the strippers, but this does not always prevent this from happening. You have to have a backbone, stand up for yourself and, sometimes, enforce the rules instead of the club
Step 4. Get in shape
The whole world today seems to revolve around looks and sex appeal, and in this particular sector they are two fundamental aspects, not to mention that the competition is truly fierce. If you are out of shape, you will probably make less money, end of story. You definitely don't have to be perfect, none are. However, it's best to start toning your body - you'll also feel more confident on stage, and self-esteem is a lifesaver for success. Start eating healthy and exercising if you don't already have these habits in your lifestyle.
From an aesthetic point of view, there are different types of strippers, there is no prerequisite for doing this job. As stated earlier, if you can't sell yourself (regardless of your beauty), you won't be able to make a career out of it. Toning is just one (albeit an important one) of the many steps required to have a clear competitive advantage and success in the industry
Method 3 of 4: Schedule the Casting
Step 1. Rehearse the dances before showing up to audition in a club
Make sure you put on high-heeled shoes while exercising - the same movements performed in bare feet will seem completely different when you do them in heels for the first time. Dancing and undressing simultaneously in high heels will be the hardest part of the dance. Having a mirror or video camera will help you examine your movements and where you need to improve (or totally eliminate).
If you have an audition around the corner, try to calm down and perform at an amateur night out at a different strip club. Practicing alone in your room or in front of your boyfriend doesn't give you the same experience as actually performing in front of strangers. Testing early can actually reduce anxiety a lot
Step 2. Choose the right songs
Typically, you will need to consider three songs, one fast paced, one medium paced, and one slow paced. Find a piece (you like and know well) that fits into each category and develop some basic movements. Individual choreographies don't have to be set in stone, but knowing the basics will help you maintain good confidence.
Try not to make overly repetitive movements; if you repeat the same move too often, it may seem like you only have one arrow in your bow. Each rhythm should inspire you to find a different vibration, so each song should be adapted differently to your movements
Step 3. If you are a beginner, stay away from movements that require a pole
Having never practiced them before, the result will probably not be sexy. You'll learn them over time, so relax - you don't need them for auditioning.
The best way to learn pole dance is to watch videos online. Then, copy the easier moves. Alternatively, sign up for a course. Of course, wikiHow also enlightens you on the subject
Method 4 of 4: At the audition
Step 1. Choose a stage name
You certainly don't want to pursue this career using your real name, so think of a suitable alias for yourself. Also, make sure you have a couple of alternatives. It is most likely that the name is already in use. Stay away from inflated aliases, such as Angel, Diamond, or Rose. There are two ways to proceed with this decision:
- You can choose an English name that looks relatively normal. It should fit your personality, for example Grace, Summer or Hope.
- You can also choose a vaguely exotic name. As a stripper, you are also referred to as an "exotic dancer". Why not choose a pseudonym accordingly? Gia, Amira or Ayesha would make you stand out.
Step 2. Bring everything you need with you
For some auditions, you may need to have just the clothes on hand (put them in a bag), go to the club and say you want to dance. With a bit of luck, they will ask you for proof of identity to make sure you are at least 18 years old. Others won't even let you get close to the stage until they examine you in your everyday clothes or costume, so both looks need to be impactful.
If the manager wants you to audition somewhere other than the stage, leave. Such places exist for two reasons: they are looking for girls willing to do an "extra", or the manager is a pervert trying to take advantage of employees. In most venues, they will ask you to dance on a less visible stage for the audition. If you initially asked the right questions, you will know how the procedure works
Step 3. Do the audition
You wore some sexy lingerie, the hair and makeup are perfect, the manicure was done carefully. Now, all you have to do is feel the music, smile and get carried away by the rhythm. If you convince them, great! When can you start working? If you don't persuade them, don't take it personally. After all, they don't even know what your real name is.
If you are really determined to work in this venue, ask how to improve and when you can re-audition. They may have other evenings dedicated to general or amateur selections scheduled. If they are absolutely not interested, go back to your search
Advice
- Look around. The more elegant the place, then the more money you can make and the less bitter mouthfuls you have to swallow. For example, if you can work in a club with real bouncers, which serves alcohol, requires only topless, has a dress code for customers, and is actually paid by the owners, you may have more income than a job in a bar. third order where alcohol is not sold but full nude is expected. Remember another thing: customers who arrive drunk are usually more dangerous and disrespectful than those who drink in the place itself for fun.
- When you are new to the trade, most clients notice it, and men find it very attractive. They consider it innocent and sexy. Use it while you can.
- Commit to the fullest with manicures and personal care. Make sure your hands and feet are matched and your nails are filed down.
- Earn the respect of your colleagues and clients. Don't dress too vulgarly (prefer a sexy look; if you really want to be particularly provocative, at least choose exotic-looking garments) and don't undress too quickly. If customers see that you would do anything for one euro, you risk getting naked too soon, only to find that you have earned less than 10 euro per show. This also helps you not to lose respect for yourself.
- Don't wear glitter or a very pungent perfume. These products leave traces on the customer, and it will be difficult for them to be discreet about where they have been. You risk not working too much for this very reason. Remember, no glitter, and lightly spray your perfume or body spray.
- If you collect a lot of small bills, most places allow you to change them at the cash desk to give you larger ones.
- Make sure you have thoroughly shaved or waxed all areas with unwanted hair, and take care of them every time you go to work.
- To prevent irritation after shaving the pubis, pat dry with a towel and apply an antiperspirant free of additional scents.
- A shy client may have trouble getting out of their shells; try offering him a shot and buy one for yourself in order to break the ice and establish a connection. This is a good way to win over a regular customer.
- You probably won't get paid by the venue, so it's the customer who offers you some money to watch your show. Keep in mind that you are not trying to earn his tips, he is trying to earn your body. Tease him and go slowly. If you're wearing a suit, start taking it off and show a few extra inches of skin every time she gives you money.
- The most important part of this experience is not your movements (of course, they help), but your ability to "sell yourself". You are there to entertain. Treat a customer like they are the nicest, smartest, most interesting person you've ever met. However, if you don't get any money after about two songs, then you better leave. Go to work to make money, and time is money.
- Wear a garter to store money. You can put it at any height of the thigh, and customers can put the money in all the areas allowed by the venue. After performing on stage, fold the money in half on the garter and use a rubber band to secure it. Keep small bills outside (such as five or ten euros).
- Know your clientele. Try to figure out who has entered the place because they are excited and who to have fun (with female customers, this could be incomprehensible).
- When you count money on the first night or at any other time, don't flaunt it or show it. Always keep them with you at work, and don't bring too many when you go to the club; a useful amount is enough for small expenses if you do not have to earn anything.
- You may be able to deduct shoes, underwear, and other professional items from your taxes. Keep all receipts! Remember that it is not possible to work illegally, however much you want it (for example, you cannot get a job in white for various reasons). To find out what is deductible and what is not, contact an accountant.
- Try to find an interesting aspect, whatever it is, in each client and linger. That way, you don't have to act completely.
- When you try to dance for a client, smile, and place a hand on his hand or shoulder, look him in the eye. Draw attention to the breasts and use a mellow voice. You could even sit on the customer's lap (it's up to you to decide if you want to play innocent or give them a "taste"). Nonetheless, some venues are strict about lap dances not performed on stage, and may even strictly prohibit you from sitting on a client's lap.
- Be firm. Don't ask customers if they want to see you dance, convince them directly to follow you to the VIP area! And if they say "Maybe later" or "Not now", don't give up. Just answer "Do as if you were at home, review later" with a smile and walk away. Get closer to them over the course of the evening.
- If it's a group of guys in the mood for a good time, they'll tip you more frequently. They won't be very high, and they won't want to pay more for a private dance. Just try to have fun in this case and get any money you can get on stage (you may need to keep pointing out the part of the dress where they can put the bills).
- The first few times, move slowly around the stage until you find your rhythm.
- Every club has general rules, such as "take off your bra on the second song and the bottom of your outfit on the third". However, unless you work in a very low place, this is usually not mandatory. Work always trusting your feelings and try to feel comfortable.
Warnings
- Before you start dancing in the VIP area, ask for the payment you are due, but this may still be a rule of the club.
- Never accept an offer from a client who wants a private show at their home. It is very dangerous and can lead you to serious consequences.
- Before you start performing, always clean the pole with alcohol - you never know where your colleagues have been.
- Don't get drunk at work. Sure, it will help you melt, but if something goes wrong on the back or on stage, you won't be able to defend or protect yourself. Make sure you only drink as much alcohol as you can handle, or better yet, avoid it entirely. You are in the club to work, not to have fun with your friends. If someone offers you a drink, order a soft drink. Even one drink can be dangerous.
- As you walk towards the car, grab the keys and let the longer one come out. You can also carry shoes with heels in your hand if it is pointed.
- If a customer makes a forbidden move or keeps trying to touch you during a private show, don't be afraid to leave.
- Don't give your phone number or real name to customers or other dancers. They could pass the data on to other people. It's not safe at all. Trust only yourself and, if you really have to, buy a cell phone to use exclusively for business purposes.
- Hand sanitizer gel and baby wipes are essential. After performing on stage, exiting the bathroom or, most importantly, having a private show, pass them all over your body. They also give you an unpleasant taste, so if a customer tries to do something stupid, like licking you, they will be very unwilling to repeat it, and you won't have to try too hard to get it out of your way. Use baby wipes instead of toilet paper (which leaves lint, which could be a problem).
- Learn to behave like a bouncer, especially if the people in your club aren't doing their job. It's best to avoid such places, but when the choice is between driving two hours a day to work and back, taking a classic part-time job where you would earn much less, or being unemployed, it may be necessary to accept the facts. Intimate rude customers to show respect or walk away. If they don't tip anyone, you say, "If you can watch, you can also share." Does a customer touch you? Push it away. If he doesn't give up, stand up.
- Never accept "indecent proposals" from a customer (by the way, they are generally prohibited by club rules). You can make money even without it, and you never know if it's a plainclothes cop, if the manager is watching, and so on. If you can't make money by working honestly, find a better club.
- For reasons beyond all logic, some architects think it is a fantastic idea to put ultraviolet light in the premises. They highlight all the flaws, such as uneven tan, plaque and lint (for this you need baby wipes). Make sure you're always clean in such a situation (although you should anyway anyway).
- Never smear baby oil on your body and don't apply the cream before going to work. It will make the skin slippery, you could fall on stage and cause the same problem to whoever performs after you. You risk getting seriously hurt. So, no baby oil, and hydrate the night before, or several hours before going to the club.
- If you take the taxi home, find out the name of the company, the identity of the driver and the vehicle number, then send the data to someone you can trust, or leave it with the manager. Make it clear that you write down the information, but don't offend the driver - explain that you don't have a personal problem with him, just that you've heard so many stories that you're never too cautious. Usually, the taxi driver will be understanding.
- Make sure you follow the club's rules, otherwise you run the risk of being fired. This means that there are regulations regarding physical contact and the removal of clothing. Stick to the rules.
- If there is a dancer on stage, do not offer private shows to front row customers (where more tips are given), unless you are dancing. You risk irritating a colleague by reducing her earnings, and this can be dangerous. However, if there are enough people in the front row, don't be afraid to talk to people the other girl isn't dancing for at the moment.
- Some venues may also make you work at other clubs in their chain. Find out about it first. There are clubs that do not make their employees take risks, but, in other cases, there are shady managers. One of these clubs might be mediocre, or the bouncers aren't doing their job.
