If you have feelings for a woman, but don't know how to make her understand it discreetly, read this article. Who knows? Maybe she reciprocates your feelings too.
Steps
Step 1. Just ask him
If you are very shy, you can ask a friend to investigate for you. However, a face-to-face confrontation would be the best choice. He will surely appreciate that you took the courage to go and ask him directly.
Step 2. Look into her eyes for a few seconds (avoid staring at her) and smile
Your smile should be spontaneous. Just do it once or twice and she will understand. Do not overdo it or he would end up thinking that you are just a very sociable type or a slightly strange person.
Step 3. Start by flirting discreetly and then be more explicit
Don't rush it, though. You could end up looking really desperate if you push the accelerator too hard.
Step 4. Tell her you think she is a beautiful woman
Step 5. Act as normally as possible in his presence
Try to avoid sweating too much or stuttering. When you are together, don't look at other women. Approach her when she talks to you so that she knows you are interested in what she has to say. Make sure, both when you are talking to her and when you are not, that you are always facing her. If you turn to someone else while you are having a conversation, they will think you are not interested.
Step 6. Talk to her as if she were one of your friends
It almost always works; don't be shy and don't act awkward in his presence. Treat her with due respect and enjoy the time you spend together.
Step 7. Compliment her with your heart
Don't just compliment her about her physical appearance, but also try to appreciate her personality, her sense of humor, her intelligence, etc.
Step 8. Make physical contact
Do it in a non-sensual way. Touch her arm, find an excuse to hold her hand for a few seconds or to touch her clothes. There will be valid clues that will indicate the interest you feel in him. Remember, though, not to do this all the time or to linger too long, as he'll think you're a weird guy.
Step 9. If she catches you looking at her, find her gaze and lightly bite your lip
He will understand that you want it.
Step 10. Give her a small gift
Any excuse is valid: birthdays and special occasions should not be forgotten, but a good grade on an exam, a recovery from an illness or a memorable day are also good opportunities to buy (or better still, create) a little gift for her.
Advice
- Spend your time with her the way she wants and prefers. Don't be selfish.
- If you are unsure about how she feels about you, talk to her privately. If not, there may be repercussions for you.
- If you know her number, call her every two or three days or text her to hear how she is.
Warnings
- Women may try to take advantage of you knowing that you have feelings for them.
- Some women want what they can't have, so it's not always a good idea to let the girl know how you feel about her. If you suspect she is this kind of woman, ignore her and flirt with other girls, but try not to overdo it!
- Be careful if you want to ask your friends to investigate for you. He may notice and think you are a coward.
