Gallantry is not only equivalent to respecting women but it is something capable of distinguishing a man from a "boy". A gallant man demonstrates that he possesses qualities such as courage, maturity and loyalty, towards everyone, not just towards people of the opposite sex. Many think that chivalry is out of fashion, but if you follow these advice your behavior will be very different from that of the "mass".
Steps
Step 1. Open the car door
When a woman enters or exits your car, you open the door for her. You will show that you know good manners, and that you know how to treat a woman like a lady.
Step 2. If you have to leave the car in a distant place, first let the others get off at the meeting point, then reach them after parking
It is also a good habit to ask a woman to wait for you inside a safe place while you go to get the car for her.
Step 3. When entering or exiting a building, open the door and hold it open for others to pass through, especially if you are with a woman
It is a respectful and polite gesture, if you are with your woman you will make others understand how happy you are with your presence. It doesn't mean she can't open the door on her own, but it's a gesture that shows how careful and proud you are to have her around.
Step 4. Have her sit at the table
Before you sit down at the table, make sure your woman and your guests are comfortable. You will show that you are a respectful person who cares for others and keeps their needs in mind.
Step 5. Invite her to go out with you
Women love to have dinner in a nice place, or spend a day out. Choose according to your preferences. Unless she asks you for advice, leave her the choice. Don't just think about what you want.
Step 6. Let her order first but never make her pay first
Always be prepared to pay the bill, unless she asks you to be able to do so on a particular occasion.
Step 7. While you wait for her to go out together, get out of the car and knock her on the door
Do not start honking, it is an unpleasant and inelegant gesture. You don't want to give the impression of someone who draws a woman's attention in that way, demanding that she come out on command.
Step 8. If you are sitting in his house, waiting for him to get ready, stand up when he enters the room
Step 9. If you are walking on the sidewalk together, stand on the outside side, the one exposed to traffic and splashes
It is a sign of protection.
Step 10. If she feels cold, offer her your jacket or coat
Step 11. When you bring her home, accompany her to the door
You will make her feel safe. Greet her with a gentleman's hug and say "Thank you", for the nice day, or for the pleasant evening. It will be a very welcome gesture. Don't think it's okay to kiss her on the first, or second, date. Ask her permission before doing this.
Step 12. Send her flowers, or write something from the heart
Send her a quick message like “Thinking of you”, call her or send her a few emails, don't disappear into thin air waiting for the next appointment. Women love to know that someone is thinking of them. Call her, or write her a message. It won't take three minutes to let her know you're thinking about her. You will brighten her day and make her feel special.
Step 13. While shopping, keep her bags
There are many types of women but one of the things they have in common is the passion for shopping. If you go to the mall with your woman, you keep the bags. Remove the difficulties, leave your hands free.
Step 14. If he lifts something heavy, offer to do it for him
Tell her "Let me do it." But don't insist if he says no.
Step 15. Be faithful
Do not make fun of her and do not assume attitudes that can paint you as an untrustworthy person in the eyes of your woman, a friend or anyone else.
Step 16. Call her when you have promised to do so
You will show that you are truly interested, as well as a reliable person and not a time waster.
Step 17. Don't make promises you can't keep
Make an appointment only when you are sure you are free. If a mishap arises that will prevent you from being present, call her as soon as possible. If you can't contact her by phone, send her a message, an email, a message on Facebook. Do something to let them know. And try to establish another date immediately, you will prove maturity.
Step 18. If you think it wouldn't work between you two, tell him politely and honestly
Don't think he can't handle the situation, because he doesn't. Give her some credit. Do not make fun of her and do not make her believe something that is not there.
Step 19. Compliment her
Tell her she's cute. Women love to feel beautiful, but they can recognize if your compliment is too unrealistic. Express yourself in kind and sincere words.
Step 20. Don't disrespect a woman
Don't give orders and don't try to control it. Don't show yourself superior, don't speak ill, don't do anything to disrespect her. You should always respect anyone, a man is expected to show at least that he can respect a woman. Don't swear, don't insult her, don't laugh at her, and don't groped her in public. These attitudes denote weakness, selfishness and immaturity.
Step 21. Protect your woman at all costs
Always be by his side when he needs help. Compliment her. And if anyone tries to harm her, stand up for her. Don't let anyone disrespect her, especially if it's a man. Don't let your children allow themselves to disrespect a woman, or their mother. Help your wife give her children the right education for their children, stay on her side.
Step 22. Offering your arm to a woman is a reminder of the gallantry of the past
If you are at a formal event together, offer your arm when you walk. Traditionally, the knights offered the non-dominant arm to the ladies, because the other hand was used to fight. But now you can choose the arm you feel most comfortable with.
Advice
Gallantry is an attitude, if you try to behave like a gentleman you will have a better chance of winning true love. There are women who love to feel independent, but nothing stops you from showing your manners in how you express yourself and in the way you show your respect. If you are already together you will surely rekindle his interest, if you are single, you will not be for much longer
Warnings
- Don't think that a woman should always depend on you. It would be a form of machismo. Give her the space she needs, let her express her thoughts and personality.
- Cavalry is considered a lost art. And in fact it is. There are women who may not notice certain attentions, if it happens it means that truly gallantry no longer belongs to this era. It is not necessarily the best way to make conquests even if it is perhaps the right behavior to attract really interesting women. A kind, good and sensitive woman will certainly appreciate it.
- Acting like a gentleman with a married woman could lead to an extra-marital relationship. So be careful. There are husbands, and children, who have no problem if someone behaves gallantly with their wives or mothers. But others may react badly. Better not to adopt this behavior with busy women or girlfriends.
- Ask her permission before doing anything, don't scare her.
- If you feel uncomfortable because a woman is acting gallantly with you, invites you out, pays the bill, keeps the door open, makes you sit down at the table, opens the car door, etc., even if certain attitudes inhibit you, try not to get mad at her. If you react badly rather than showing your masculinity you will make her understand that you are an intolerant, authoritarian and incompatible man with a strong and self-confident woman.
